Gu Ailing's mother talked about her daughter's education, is there anything that ordinary people can learn? I've summarized seven key words. First, the teaching of the body is better than the transmission of words, this sentence must be placed in the first article, because I have interviewed many parents of students of famous schools, and they all say the same.
Second, the right choice; at critical moments, the choice is often greater than the effort, for example, she let Gu Ailing return to China for exam education, because coming to China for 10 days of classes can top the United States for a year.
Third, do your best, the so-called vigorous miracle; no matter how important the choice, excessive investment is the foundation, in order to support Gu Ailing skiing, every weekend of the ski season, she will drive her daughter to train, 8 hours round trip every day, she drove more than a dozen snow seasons, her dedication to her daughter is extremely rare in the United States, but she will never back down.
Fourth, know respect; she said that she hinders the child's choice, does not hit the child's creativity, Gu Ailing said that the mother always counts my choice, I choose a thing she will not let me make mistakes, she will teach me step by step how to decompose, how to achieve the goal.
Fifth, pay attention to the process; Gu Yan said to praise the child's intelligence less, more praise the child's efforts, because the effort can be achieved artificially.
Sixth, emotional stability; after watching the documentary, Gu Yan's mood is very stable, and the child's fever is injured and various conditions, and she can calmly and calmly cope.
Seventh, the law of weight; such as sleeping enough, such as not chasing the first in everything, such as accepting that our life may be ordinary, but we must also try to live it well.