"I used to think that I had no hope in this life, that my family would not be perfect, that I would experience loneliness and old age, and looking at the 'little angel' lying quietly next to me at this moment, healthy and lovely, I still can't believe that I am actually a mother!" 」
The protagonist of this issue is called Xiaomei (pseudonym), who is now the mother of a baby and has a happy life. But as she said above, this baby didn't come easily.
Children are the hope of the whole family, and she plucked up the courage to embark on the road of seeking medical treatment and finding a child
It is understood that in 2020, Xiaomei, who is at the age of flowers, has been married for 4 years without getting pregnant, and seeing that relatives and friends around her have babies, she went to the hospital for examination. As a result, she was told that the ovarian function was almost exhausted amH of only 0.01 ng/mL (Note: the upper limit of NORMAL AMH is about 1.1 ng/mL, the lower the evidence that the ovarian function is worse). When she asked if there was a better way to treat it, the doctor said euphemistically: "Don't treat it, go back and try to conceive, what if it succeeds?" ”
This news hit Xiaomei like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, for the Xiaomei family, the child is the hope of the whole family, if there is no baby of their own, the family will not be perfect, they will also experience loneliness and old age, thinking of this, Xiaomei plucked up the courage to embark on the road of seeking medical treatment.
Traveling to many cities, she collapsed many times on the way to seek medical treatment, almost desperate
Heading north, find a well-known test tube expert: "We can expect a miracle to happen together"
Heading south, looking for experts to treat the decline of ovarian function: "Hope is slim, only luck"
The road to seeking medical treatment has gone through ups and downs, Xiaomei has taken a lot of medicine, and also mistakenly believed in many folk remedies, traveled to many cities, and went to many hospitals. In addition to the large expenses such as medical expenses and rush fees, what makes Xiaomei even more devastated is that she can't see hope at all, almost desperate, and spends every day in the panic of not being able to get pregnant.
"Don't be too nervous, there is still hope" - like a light in the darkness, illuminating Xiaomei!
Until May 27, 2020, a day she will never forget for the rest of her life, the lucky balance finally tilted in favor of Xiaomei. Xiaomei was taken by her sister to the consultation room of Guan Yichun, director of the Department of Reproductive Medicine of the Third Affiliated Hospital of Zhengzhou University (Provincial Maternal and Child Health Hospital, Provincial Women and Children's Hospital).
Director Guan carefully inquired about Xiaomei's medical history, read the results of the examination in detail, and personally gave her an ultrasound, after assessing the ovarian function, the director encouraged her: "At present, there is still a menstrual whim, there is still hope." Don't be too nervous, let's try to move forward together. This sentence was like a light in the darkness, giving Xiaomei great strength and confidence.
Subsequently, director Guan formulated an individualized plan for Xiaomei according to her physical condition, even if there was a follicle, she would not give up. Medical staff also encouraged Xiaomei to actively exercise, control her weight, and adjust her body to the best condition. In the process of fertility, xiaomei was also actively psychologically counseled to help her alleviate the pressure of fertility.
In the end, after 4 egg retrieval operations, 2 hysteroscopic surgeries, and countless round-trips between the two cities, 4 precious embryos were harvested.
Kung Fu pays off, and the "angel baby" will eventually come to her side
In April 2021, Xiaomei came to the hospital again with a feeling of anticipation. Director Guan personally carried out an embryo transfer for Xiaomei. This time, Lady Luck visited Xiaomei again. Xiaomei said excitedly: "It turns out that miracles will really happen."
Throughout the pregnancy, it was also under the careful care and patience of the medical team of the Reproductive Medicine Department of zhengda third affiliated hospital (and Henan Provincial Maternal and Child Health Hospital) that Xiaomei's obstetric examination was "all the way green", and finally gave birth to a baby!
△ Xiaomei's "angel baby" sleeps next to her, looking healthy and cute
Xiaomei said, "I have been rejected by more than one doctor, and my physical condition may not be able to have my own children for the rest of my life." Rather than being lucky, I would rather say that the superb medical skills of the medical team of the Reproductive Medicine Department of Zhengda Third Affiliated Hospital have given me hope, and in the two years of test tube experience, I strictly followed the requirements of the director of management. In response to insulin resistance and excessive weight, I eat a reasonable diet, insist on running every day, and lose 20 pounds before transplantation. At the same time, in order to promote the recovery of ovarian function, I also insisted on acupuncture and physiotherapy three times a week in the Department of Reproductive Medicine of Zhengda Third Affiliated Hospital, taking medicine on time, and seeking medical treatment on time. Here, I would like to say to all the sisters who are as difficult as I am on the road to fertility, the trust between doctors and patients is very important, please be sure to believe in your doctor, but also believe in yourself! ”
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Source: Zhengda Third Affiliated Hospital and Henan Provincial Maternal and Child Health Hospital