Olympic champion Gu Ailing: I didn't think about satisfying everyone, I just wanted to live my own life. Whether others are satisfied or dissatisfied doesn't matter to me, if someone doesn't like me, it's their loss.
On February 8, the talented girl Gu Ailing, after completing the 1620-degree rotation and successfully landing on the ground, won the gold medal for the Winter Olympics freestyle ski jump for the Chinese team.
This 18-year-old genius girl has since entered people's vision and unveiled people's reflections on struggle and education.
Regarding Gu Ailing's victory, I think of three key words: love, resources, excellence, and challenge.
Behind every achievement, in addition to talent and dedication, is from love!
From the Internet to see the growth path of Gu Ailing Champions, we found that Gu Ailing's growth and the growth trajectory of most children are not too different, all of which have cultivated various interests and hobbies under the influence and influence of their parents since childhood.
But Gu Ailing's mother said that from the moment her daughter was born, she never thought about what she had forced her to do. She also said that it is useless to force children, it is better to teach by example, and let children choose what they are interested in.
Many of us parents will be willing to spend money to cultivate their children's interests and hobbies, but why have they not cultivated excellent children like Gu Ailing?
Some people say that it is talent, some people say that it is giving, but I think this is far from enough, more importantly, it is more important to cultivate children's love, only love can tap children's potential.
Gu Ailing's mother said the most critical point, words are not as good as teaching by example. We all know that Gu Ailing's mother is a ski instructor, and Gu Ailing has shown an interest in skiing since she was 3 years old and has been hanging all the way on the skiing road.
Love is cultivated, and many of us parents send their children to learn calligraphy, art, and dance, but they are not interested. Also, many parents let their children learn these interests, one for further education, the other for face, where does love start for children?
If you really want to cultivate your child's interest, you must first be a parent, words are not as good as teaching by example, and every behavior of the child is a reflection of the shadow of the parents. It is said that children do not love to learn, first of all, parents are parents who love to learn?
Without good resources to provide, your efforts and efforts will not make you play better!
In the process of Gu Ailing's growth, it was found that there were three details:
1. In 2011, at the age of 8, Gu Ailing joined the professional ski training team in lake Tahoe District and began to systematically learn freestyle skiing.
Lake Tahoe is one of the most famous ski resorts in the United States. Mark Twain once said, "If you want to breathe the air of angels, go to Lake Tahoe!"
2. Gu Ailing will return to Haidian Huangzhuang every summer vacation to make up for the Olympics. Gu's mother said that coming to China for ten days of classes, the top of the United States for one year.
Haidian Huangzhuang was once jokingly called a training center of the universe by netizens. China's education and training must be contested, and the place where big-name teachers gather. It is also the place where parents of Beijing's "chicken babies" yearn for.
3. Strong endorsement by parents! His mother graduated from Peking University and Stanford, and his father graduated from Harvard. Not only is his father so outstanding, Gu Ailing's grandparents are also graduates of prestigious universities in China and the United States. After graduating from a prestigious school, it is no wonder that my mother would confidently say: you don't have to go to Stanford, and it is most important not to give up studying for a lifetime.
In addition to having genes and good conditions, what is more important is excellent habits, not everyone can do it!
In order to be able to balance her studies with skiing, Gu Ailing learned time management. She arranged training and competitions on weekends and holidays, and in order not to delay her studies, she wrote homework on the car and on the plane.
In addition, in order to be able to devote himself to the Beijing Winter Olympic Games, he took the initiative to apply to compress the next two years of high school studies by one year to complete and take the college entrance examination in advance.
Such concentration and self-discipline, not to mention children, even we adults are difficult to do this. It can be seen that excellence is a habit.
Before Gu Ailing won the championship, the mother told her daughter to let her keep the silver medal, 1440 is enough. Gu Ailing said: No, I want to do 1620.
Mom didn't contradict her, but told her warmly: This is your game, enjoy it. Not only did it not put any pressure on her, but she was encouraged to go and enjoy the game.
Gu Ailing said that she participated in the competition not to defeat her opponents, but to break through herself. Do everything 100% and enjoy the game to be the best you can be. Brave children, in addition to their own self-confidence and strength, more importantly, the respect and encouragement of their mothers.
In fact, many of us have the creativity and the courage to challenge the impossible, and often we will be strangled in the mouths and eyes of others, leaving ourselves tied up and afraid to take that step forward boldly.
Excellence is not only a daily outstanding achievement, but also the greatest challenge to their own limits, put down all fame and utilitarianism, and enjoy the sense of happiness, happiness and achievement brought by the process of doing things.
Everyone should live as they are, not lose themselves because of the demands of their parents or others. If you can adjust yourself to the best state, I believe that anyone can be good and confident enough.
Like Gu Ailing said, I didn't think about satisfying everyone, I just wanted to live my own life.
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