Author: Joba (Rich Book Author)
If you really want moths to put out the fire, the gods can't stop it
Behind every tragedy, there has been a chance to escape
These days, there is a news that does not attract much attention in the massive amount of information.
But it's a living tragedy.
During the Spring Festival holiday, in the Ali region of Tibet, 5 tourists who drove to Kailash ToanShan to travel to the mountains ignored the weather department's wind and snow warnings and repeated persuasions and warnings from the local public security auxiliary police and the masses, and insisted on going, and as a result, they encountered a blizzard.
Although the local relevant departments made every effort to rescue them, in the end, 2 people were unfortunately killed and 3 people were injured.
According to insiders, the five tourists came from Hubei, Fujian, Yunnan and other places and met through social software.
It was supposed to be a good Spring Festival, but it turned out to be a life, and it was really sad to think about.
I don't know how the relatives of the victims can accept such news when they know it.
In fact, to put it to the extreme, this accident is a man-made disaster.
Because they had many chances to live, but because of their stubbornness and carelessness, they wasted them again and again.
First of all, public information shows that the Dolmala Pass is located on the north side of Kailash, the summit is about 5700 meters above sea level, the terrain is extremely steep, snow all year round, and there are strong winds.
According to official sources, the five trapped people were rescued at an altitude of 5630 meters, which is the most dangerous section of the road, with snow depths of 40 cm to 50 cm, and some places as deep as 70 to 80 cm.
How can such a place be privately visited? Isn't that a joke about your own life?
Secondly, some netizens pulled out the notes released by "Xiao Tang, the leader of the self-driving free trip in Tibetan areas" and "time thief", and found that as early as last December, some netizens discouraged them, saying that for safety reasons, everyone had advised Xu not to turn the mountain at that time.
But Xu said that he had consulted, as long as there is no heavy snow, he will not close the mountain, "Later, he should have found someone to form a team in other places, and he did not speak in the group." ”
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Finally, just before the tragedy, the meteorological department's wind and snow warning and the local public security auxiliary police and the masses also took turns to persuade them to return to the warning.
It turned out to be ignored.
God gave him three chances, but he wanted to break through the ghost door.
The result has long been doomed, and it can only make people sigh.
Over the years, I have observed a truth: the occurrence of many tragedies is not inevitable, on the contrary, if the parties are not so stubborn, they can be completely avoided.
There is a saying that goes: In a stubborn person, there is a low level of cognition.
The more a person lacks common sense, the more likely it is to make some mistakes that ordinary people seem to be inconceivable, and they are still unaware of it, and the more they say, the more stubborn they are.
The deceased is great, and should not have been harshly condemned.
However, I still can't help but say a cruel word, many times people are really no zuo no die.
If you really want moths to put out fires, the gods can't stop them.
Being too stubborn must have ruined itself
The biggest problem with a person is that he always thinks that he is right, he has never heard of opposing opinions, so he will live to be old all his life, and he is just a child who makes people coax.
Some time ago, when I saw a piece of news, I was surprised and ridiculous.
Not long ago, the Suzhou police found that a woman may have suffered from telecommunications fraud, transferred 78 transfers to the other party, and was defrauded of 3.11 million.
The police called many times and came to the door, and the woman insisted that she had not received a fraudulent call, and even felt dissatisfied with the police's repeated "interruptions".
The police found their units to persuade them, and in front of the leaders, the female graduate students said that they had cheated and cheated.
The leader was anxious to pat the table and scold the woman: "Your brain is in the water!" What are you researching for graduate students! ”。
After watching the video, I was really angry and laughing.
More than 3 million ah, this is an astronomical number that many families can not earn in a lifetime, but such a highly educated person, but it is like spilling water.
Think about it, can you blame others for this? I can't really blame it. Such a clumsy scam, you have been deceived again and again, the police and leaders have come to the house to advise, and they still don't believe it.
This female graduate student is either ignorant or stubborn, and more likely both.
A person's insight is always limited, and if he is not aware of this, he will fall into a stubborn emotion and cannot extricate himself.
A truly good person will maintain his or her unique personality because they recognize that the so-called stubbornness is not a unique personality, but in some ways a personality defect.
In the Aphorisms, it is said: "Faithful and untalented, meritorious and single-minded; faithful and ignorant will lead to trouble, and opinions will be biased." ”
This means that a person who is loyal and honest, even if he is of average talent, can still have the opportunity to make a contribution, and a short-sighted and cynical person will have a lot of prejudices, and the final outcome must be bad.
People need to update and iterate, constantly evolve themselves, too stubborn, too face-saving, and eventually destroy themselves.
Life is never a fluke, and the coming day is not long
Wenyou Qingyou once mentioned that the American psychologist George Kelly once put forward the view of "personal constructory".
Personal concepts are concepts formed by individual past insights, expectations, evaluations, thinking, and so on.
When encountering the same or similar scene, a person's mind will present his previous experience to make a judgment about the problem or scene.
When your cognitive ability is low, the personal construct in your mind tends to be single and inflexible.
So when you encounter a problem, the solution provided by your personal concept is very narrow, but it becomes all of you, and you mistakenly think that this is the best solution of all, and there is no other possibility.
When your cognitive ability is high, you have more knowledge, more reading, more experience, and the ability to think independently, you will gain more and more knowledge and experience, and your personal concept will be richer and fuller.
In the face of the same question, you are not just clinging to one answer, but there are several possible answers.
To put it bluntly, some people mistake stubbornness as personality.
It is not easy for people to live.
If you want to survive your life without disaster, you must have twelve points of caution.
Open a firewall for you and the danger gap. Keep your distance from strangers, be wary, keep your distance from dangerous places, and get out in time.
Protect yourself from unpredictable consequences, don't allow others to easily cross your boundaries, and don't cross your boundaries yourself.
Remember, life is never a fluke, and the coming day is not long.
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