Perhaps, in the process of getting along with Cancer, many people will feel that they are a type that is not easy to deal with, because they seem to be more sentimental, but also have some very delicate minds, can not be satisfied, many things, they can not easily pass from the bottom of their hearts, and even, they also have some easy to "step on the thunder" place.
However, once the emotional value of Cancer is satisfied, they are very good to get along with, so what do you need to pay attention to when getting along with Cancer?
What do I need to pay attention to when dealing with Cancer?
Most Cancers are people who think with their feelings, and everything they may live, including feelings, interpersonal interactions, etc., is based on a series of emotional values.
That is to say, they need to be in a comfortable environment, a comfortable feeling, in order to be able to exert full tenderness, so with Cancer, there is no need to use too much language, or big truth, they want a real experience, or experience.
Cancer is emotional, and the foundation of feeling is built in many aspects, personality, dedication, attitude to deal with problems at critical times, etc., are important steps.
It can be said that it is good for Cancer, but if they have too high expectations of you, but they can't last, then naturally, it is difficult for you to get their trust.
First, maintain proper understanding when they vent their emotions
It can be said that Cancer people are often a person who is good at patience, but their patience is limited, because Cancer is essentially a type of emotional richness, and such a type of person, how can you expect them to be as calm and clear as a pool of deep pools?
When venting emotions, some tossing and repeating, and even "jumping like thunder", are conceivable, but even so, Cancer is still restrained, still telling his grievances, rather than blaming others.
It can be said that they just want you to know where their boundaries are, not really to provoke contradictions, and if you know this and consciously abide by their boundaries, Cancer will be more useful, and they will be more close to you.
Second, something practical is needed to support their sense of security
Cancer is actually in a relationship, the most important thing is a sense of security, if they are naturally willing to be close to you, they will have more trust in you.
And the basis of this trust is based on something practical, which can be material, or some common experience, or even an identity, and if you just meet in pingshui, there are not many opportunities to establish connections in the past, and you can also create this opportunity in your future life, that is, the care and dedication of Cancer.
It can be said that they need to see something practical to be able to believe you, not just the sweet words on their mouths, which is also the more difficult place for Cancer to be fooled.
Third, deal with Cancer's emotional problems in a timely manner
Many times, when Cancer begins to have some kind of doubt, entanglement and other emotions for a person, it is a very important thing to relieve and communicate in time, that is, they need to be coaxed to be in the present, and they cannot bring the problem to tomorrow.
While they may be reluctant to communicate or disappointed to be unable to speak out, believe that Cancer is eager for a positive response from you.
It's just that it depends on whether you can put the words into their hearts, many Cancers need to be "right medicine", and if you don't know them very well, it is difficult to understand what they mind, let alone to coax them.
Fourth, don't be too aggressive, step by step
Cancer people are not easy to trust a person, but if you trust, it does not mean that you can "sit back and relax", on the contrary, Cancer is likely to trust you all the time, but after some bad things, they will overturn the previous trust.
Therefore, for Cancer, you can't be too aggressive, but you need to take it step by step, if you can't do something, don't rush to make a wish, and don't heat up and then cold.
Because everything you may have done before is in vain, when Cancer begins to doubt your previous sincerity, it is better to start a little flat and then slowly open their hearts.