Children enter kindergarten, kindergarten teachers punish children news is not uncommon, every time I see such incidents, as a parent I will think: how to ensure the healthy growth of children in kindergarten physical and mental health?
My baby is also about to enter kindergarten, and my husband and I agree on not letting our children go through our heartache path to school.
The educational concept of domestic fraction theory and cramming teaching has led to the appearance of most children looking like teenagers and old people.
Each country has its own set of parenting philosophies, and has been invited to participate in the Scientific Parenting Forum in the United States, the United Kingdom, Italy, the Netherlands, and Switzerland.
Traveling to the above countries found that there is no best parenting concept, only the most appropriate, among which the widely spread Italian "Montessori education" is deeply recognized by the majority of experts and scholars.
Maybe you haven't heard of Montessori education, but you must have seen Montessori kindergartens. Montessori kindergartens use The Montessori education method throughout the process, which was once favored by parents and parents, and every time the kindergarten season came, the Montessori kindergarten registration office was overcrowded.
Some mothers have the mentality of making sure to let their children enter Montessori kindergartens, but the result is the opposite, watching their children reach school age and forced to choose one at random.
The core purpose of Montessori education is to help children's lives grow and improve naturally, specifically to enable children to gain independence in body, will and mind, and to achieve the perfection of personality, psychology, intelligence and spirit. In short, let the child grow into a better self.
A kind of mind unique to children aged 0 to 6 years old, during which children gradually absorb everything in their surroundings like a sponge, and then interact with it, grow and gradually build their personality.
The difference between Montessori education and general kindergarten education is the following:
1. Montessori education treats children as individuals who are different from adults and helps them to become independent.
General education is more in accordance with the adult's "right and wrong standards" and "standard teaching materials" to teach and shape children's personality, so that children are more adapted to society.
2, teaching aids are important auxiliary supplies when the baby receives education, although in the ordinary kindergarten, teaching tools will also be used, but more based on the teacher's teaching.
3, in Montessori kindergarten, teaching aids are one of the key elements of teaching, children's learning is mainly through the operation of teaching aids to understand and accept knowledge, so that the child-based teaching method is not only conducive to children's hands-on ability, but also to improve their independent learning ability, so that they can learn to learn on their own.
If you don't go to Montessori Kindergarten, can you raise Montessori babies at home?
The family environment is very important as children grow up in 0-3 years old. The creation of "Montessori space" is conducive to cultivating children's sense of order, motor coordination ability, and independent consciousness.
Moms may wish to start with the following points:
1, the child's wardrobe, can be used with the baby's height equivalent to the size, which is more conducive to the child to learn to dress, store and organize.
2, the kitchen or dining room can prepare a low cabinet, which puts a suitable size of the water cup, the baby is thirsty can drink water by themselves, do not need to ask adults for help.
3, create a safe and comfortable space, help the baby to walk freely, but there will always be some safety hazards in the home, 80% of the baby's bumps and falls occur at home, in order to protect them from pain, as a mother, we can use safety anti-collision strips to protect their small bodies.
4, let the child organize the toys, tidy up the toys, or called "send the work or toys home" can exercise the child's memory, learn to organize their own things. For babies who can't walk or climb yet, parents can help get back to their places.
But every time you return home, remember to let the child be present, you can tidy up while saying: Baby, the mother helps you send the toy home, its home is here. Babies who can walk can do it themselves, and parents encourage or assist.
Montessori education not only lies in the fact that it can develop children's intelligence, but also cultivate children's good living habits and enrich life experience, so that children can develop self-confidence and independent ability in a relaxed and pleasant environment.
In life, mothers may wish to try the above 4 points, so that they can raise their babies into a Montessori baby at home without spending a penny.