I am Shaohua Yiyu, a writer who focuses on emotions, the weather is getting colder, may you have clothes to warm up, someone to warm your heart, I hope you can be happy every day, happiness will always follow!
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Whenever we experience a relationship, we always think about a question: how to get along better with each other? They all seem to understand the importance of the way men and women get along, but when they really experience it, they always can't really get along with each other well.
The transformation from love to true love between two people often requires that on the basis of mutual love, they know how to manage love, to continuously enhance their understanding of each other and enhance their feelings for each other.
However, the most important thing about the success of running love is how to get along with each other best, and better use some methods to make you feel that even if you have experienced it for a long time, you can maintain the heart that you once had.
In fact, there are many ways to get along, but the key lies in which one is suitable for you and which one can really play a good role, rather than following the trend at will and managing your feelings at will.
Many people will think that the most important thing in love is to pay, and the love that does not pay is doomed to not go further, this sentence is actually not wrong, but the love of today's era is always so unsatisfactory.
Most of the time, a state of love that appears is: pay unequally, one party pays more, but one party will only blindly enjoy the other party's payment, so that the love that is overpaid will not have a good result.
The same is true for men and women to contact each other, if you always contact each other frequently, maybe you think this is a very happy thing, but for each other, it may be a kind of disturbance.
Men and women get along, better ways: infrequent contact, infrequent contact is often a way to understand moderation, in real life, no matter when you should understand, anything beyond the degree will produce a counterproductive.
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In real life, many people often ask a question: After two people who love each other have been together for a long time, will they really dislike each other?
In fact, in reality, very few people can resist the test of time, for example, in the world of love, two people have been together for a long time, and the heartbeat, the persistent heart, the deep love, etc. will also fade.
This is actually very normal, men and women have been together for a long time, if you always chat frequently, you will find that in the process of getting along, you have lost the passion that you once chatted with, it seems to become more flat, and you will be overwhelmed because there is no topic to chat.
If you always can't bear the affection and miss in your heart, always take the initiative to contact each other, you should also understand that there must be a degree, do not contact too frequently, otherwise it will really make him bored.
Never feel that love can resist everything, know that love can, but people will never be able to resist the wear and tear of time, no matter how much love between you, when you have not really entered the palace of marriage, I hope you can really "infrequently contact".
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I want to ask those who attach importance to feelings in their feelings: have you ever had such an experience, when you take the initiative to contact each other, always with a good expectation, but when the results are not satisfactory, you may really collapse inside, then you really feel that you have lost everything.
Therefore, the better way for men and women to get along is to contact infrequently, on the one hand, to avoid too much boredom and impatience between you, and on the other hand, to protect yourself the best.
The reason why you are disappointed is because you have too many expectations of this matter, no matter what, you have to understand that it is better to go with the flow than anything, and you will really feel that the feeling of not caring about anything is really good.
Frequent contact will only lead to a weaker relationship between you, if you do not know how to better manage the relationship between each other, then you may wish to grasp a degree, from their own control of themselves not to overly contact, just do everything they should do.
The long-term of any relationship is never maintained by initiative and contact, don't always feel that if you don't take the initiative to contact each other frequently, the other party will leave you, some people want to leave, there is really no need to keep, those who really love you will not leave you.
It is normal for feelings to fade, but two people who really love each other will also experience many difficulties, from a small love to a true love that everyone envies.
It may be really difficult for people who value feelings, but for yourself, you really hope that you can really do it and be responsible for yourself.
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