Text/Insight Ciyu
A drop of water, resting in front of your eyes, crystal clear. Put it under the microscope and look closely, but it is full of impurities.
In this lifetime, looking at the troubles and chores of life is like looking at a drop of water. One by one, he held on to the details, and could only see a bunch of broken things. But by the length of a lifetime, anything becomes insignificant.
"If you are a tree, the attitude of others to you is gust after gust of wind, and if you always care, any gust of wind will make you shake violently and even blow you down." 」
People live in the world, and what they live is the mentality. If you have a bad mentality, even a small thing can become a big thing. "If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you."
Cai Lan was called "a real dashing person" by Jin Yong, and the two of them often traveled, and Cai Lan was in a happy mood along the way.
The driver drove too bumpy, he never complained, the tour guide had a big temper, and he never got angry. Even if the food is not delicious, it will be chewed with relish, and even if you clash with people on the road, you will not delay the mood of playing at all.
He taught Jin Yong how to drink spicy Italian wine and how to suck the bone marrow of cattle in a Singapore food stall. Jin Yong said: "I will occasionally frown, and he always laughs." Like the game people, Cai Lan never remembers those annoying little things and lives a leisurely life.
"The happiness of man lies in the happiness of the heart." If you have too much stuff in your heart, you can't put it into happiness; if you think too much in your mind, you can't notice the beauty in front of you.
Unsatisfactory in life is often unable to live with yourself. The practice of life is also the cultivation of the mind.
If you can see through and think openly, no matter what situation you are in, you can be not worried and afraid, and enjoy yourself.
If a person's realm is limited, he will try to point fingers at everything and end up making himself uncomfortable. Kant said: "I respect any independent soul, and although there are some that I do not approve of, I can understand as much as possible." ”
If you know how to understand the different three views and respect different ways of doing things, you will have less harsh responsibility in your heart and more comfortable life.
During the Three Kingdoms period, after Zhuge Liang's death, Jiang Huan served as the prime minister of the Shu state and presided over the imperial government.
He has a subordinate named Yang Ju, who is a lonely personality and is not good at talking. Whenever Jiang Huan told him about the affairs of the government, Yang Ju always responded but did not answer. Some people were not accustomed to Yang Opera's style, and came to make a small report in front of Jiang Huan.
After hearing these "small reports," Jiang Huan said that everyone has their own temperament and disposition. Let Yang Ju praise me in person, that is not his nature; let him point out my shortcomings as a crowd, he will feel that I can't hang on to my face and can't get off the stage.
People with a big pattern are more peaceful in their hearts, and everything is pleasing to the eye.
"It is necessary to know that the variability of life is the source of happiness." The world is diverse, and measuring the lives of others with your own ruler will only make you unhappy.
To be a person with a high realm, there is no right or wrong in the eyes, and everywhere you look is a landscape.
Some sesame mung bean things can be as big as a mountain, crushing themselves breathlessly, and they can be as small as a grain of dust, and they can be scattered with a light dust.
In the 1980s, Mo Yan began to show his sharp edge in the literary world.
A critic published an article in a magazine criticizing Mo Yan. Later, the critic met Mo Yan at the Lu Xun Academy of Literature, thinking about the articles he had written, and wanted to avoid it. However, Mo Yan took the initiative to say, "I have read your article and it is very well written." Friends say I was criticized, but in my opinion, it is mainly praise. ”
Zhou Guoping said in a speech: "Life must have the wisdom of not competing, and not compete with yourself and others. "A drop of ink falls in a glass of water, and the black is smudged; if it melts into the sea, the sea is still clear."
Open your own mind, accept the bumps and bumps of life, and the days will go much smoother.
"Cai Gen Tan" says: "The world is not dusty, the sea is not bitter, and he suffers from dust and his heart." "After middle age, I gradually understood that most people are unhappy, but they are too entangled in the small things of the moment.
People's life is a thousand miles of rivers and mountains, relax the heart, open the pattern, then all you see is the scenery, and everything you do is a smooth road.
Anchor: BaiSha
He used to be the director and voice of Henan Television's "World Yu Shang"
A big girl who likes to communicate with the world with her voice
Article Source: Insight (ID: DJ00123987)
Author: Insight ciyu, not every point of view, can be called insight.
Producer: New Media Editorial Department of Minsheng Weekly (ID: msweekly).
"People's Famous Products"
Understand the different "people's" domestic products and create extraordinary "famous products" for people's livelihood.
"Minsheng Weekly"
Sponsored by the head of the People's Daily, it is the only news weekly in China that focuses on people's livelihood.