I am a live-in nanny and I am 50 years old. I have been working in my current employer's house for almost 2 months, and I finally can't bear to resign, and her daughter talks to me about giving me a salary increase, but I

I am a live-in nanny and I am 50 years old. I have been working in my current employer's house for almost 2 months, I finally can't bear to resign, her daughter talked to me about giving me a salary increase, but I refused. I can't live without dignity. I am a man of openness and openness, and I cannot give up my dignity because of a little money.

People I know well call me Daxia, and I'm 50 years old. I've been a nanny for ten years, when my husband died suddenly, leaving me with my daughter who was still in high school.

I chose to be a nanny to support my daughter. Don't look at me as a rural person, but I love to be clean, and I work and cook well. In the past, anyone in our village invited me to help with the spoon, and although the food I cooked was not as vivid as the chef of the restaurant, it had a taste of home that they did not have.

My previous employer liked me very much, and I worked in her house for 10 years. The previous employer, the old lady, was in her 80s with Alzheimer's disease and often forgot to turn off the gas, and her family was worried that something was wrong with her, so she hired a nanny. Until the old lady died not long ago, I was also very sad.

Just thinking that my daughter graduated when she was older, I would not go back to my hometown. Now this employer has found me, she is a good friend of the previous employer, and I have met several times before. She said that she had already taken a fancy to me because of my work and carefulness, but she was embarrassed to dig me up because of my friend's face. Now that her old lady is dead, it would be great if I could go to her house and be a live-in nanny.

The new employer, surnamed Cao, is said to have been a former director of instruction. She was in good health, but because of her old age, her wife had also died, and my daughter was afraid that she would be in danger at home alone and would pay me to be a live-in nanny. The monthly salary is the same as before is 5,000 yuan, to be honest, my first impression of Mrs. Cao is not very good, she is very thin but very energetic, and her eyes are shrewd.

In our industry, this kind of appearance is typical of the bad service, because most good employers are ruddy and rich wives, and they are generally very generous and not picky.

I didn't want to take this job anymore, but the employer's daughter said a lot of good things to me, and I agreed to give it a try. The day I first came, Mrs. Cao gave me ten laws;

The floor of the home should be wiped on the ground, and the white edges of the slits should be wiped clean; the bowls in the home should not have water stains, and which rags should not be used indiscriminately; three dishes and one soup per meal, one meat dish and one vegetarian dish and one cold dish, which cannot be repeated every week; cooking should be in moderation and not wasting grain; eating cannot be eaten on the table, eating in the kitchen; the fruits and snacks at home are not allowed to move; every day I must be on call, no matter when.

After explaining these bits and pieces, I officially started working. Every day I try to cook according to his preferences, she is a Shanghainese and likes to be lighter. We Guizhou people eat more spicy, and I also try to cook according to her taste.

Every time I eat, she eats before I can eat, this meal is in line with her taste, she will eat a mouthful of food without leaving me, I can only use white rice to soak water, sometimes the rice is not in line with her taste, she scolded me for making pig food. At first, I wanted to fry a little more dishes that I could eat, but she scolded me for wasting food and turning pigs in the next life.

I used to go to the market to buy vegetables because the dishes in the market were fresh and cheap, but she asked me to issue a receipt every time. Because I bought too few dishes, the store was too troublesome to issue me a receipt, and when there was no receipt, she said that I cheated people to eat kickbacks. Later, I bought vegetables at the supermarket.

Yesterday Mrs. Cao's girlfriend came and bought mangosteen and cherries. I made a plucked apple, a steamed pork ribs, a braised cabbage heart, and stewed a lotus root rib soup. After eating, she sat for a while and her girlfriend left. The weather is particularly hot these days, the cherries are not fresh when they are bought, and I can't eat the fruits at home, but she can't eat them all.

Yesterday I threw several mangosteen and cherries, which was very painful. Today I saw that there were a few cherries that were not good, so I thought about eating them first. I didn't expect to be seen by Mrs. Cao when I was eating, she said I, such a big person is still so greedy, before saying that I can't eat how I don't remember, but also sneaky. At first glance, you don't know how much you stole.

I explained to her that the cherries could no longer be put away and showed her the cherries I had thrown in the garbage basket. She said that rotten can be thrown away and can not eat, this is the first time I have seen the next example, and then see me will be fined.

Seeing her like this, I couldn't bear it. Tell her that it is true that I am a rural person, working as a nanny in your house, but I am diligent and earnest. Never steal. I earn money and eat with my own hands, and when is it time for you to call me by a mouthful. I won't say anything else, I'm quitting now. If you need me to give you another week, this week you hurry to find someone, and next week I will go home.

Mrs. Cao panicked as soon as she heard that I was really going to leave, she said, I really didn't treat you as a person, I can see that you are working so diligently in my house, this time I did not punish you, I did not blame in the past. Don't you go and we'll have something to discuss later. But I've made up my mind.

In the evening, her daughter called me and said, Sister, don't you mind my mother like this, she is older, you have to take care of it. I'll give you a raise, you don't go.

I said sister, we knew you before and we knew what kind of person I was. Originally, I was ready to go back to my hometown, but you said that I would help you. Now your mother is too bullying, I am a nanny but not a slave of your family, I am not angry with this, you should find someone as soon as possible.

People say I'm doing a bit of a desperate thing?

Thank you for sharing, before you know that the live-in nanny is really angry, especially when you meet such a strange employer. Thirty-six lines of work, you can do in the previous employer's home for ten years also proves your quality. There is no distinction between high and low work, and I support your resignation.

Are you saying I'm right?