Modern people are busy every day, just to live a better life, families with children, the pressure is greater, after all, children's food, drink and education is also a big expense.
What is a "happy family"? Perhaps in the eyes of adults, everything related to happiness at home must be filled with many realistic factors, such as having sufficient savings and having a big house...
What about in the child's heart?
The social psychologist DiFaran once asked 100 children: "What kind of family do you think is a happy family?" Unlike adult answers, children's most common answers are: "Do something with your family." ”
When the child grows up, he wants to take on certain obligations like an adult. But many parents do not think so, they always think that "the child is still young", "the child is still too early to do this..." The child is rejected by the adult, can not participate in the adult's things, the enthusiasm is hit.
So many children reach the age of primary school, and may not even be able to brush the dishes. Usually, parents do not let their children participate in housework, which not only affects the child's ability to live, but also affects the child's sense of responsibility for the family.
The sense of responsibility is the spirit of a person who takes the initiative to exert a positive and beneficial effect on himself, the natural world and human society, including the state, society, the collective, the family and others, which is an essential quality for every successful person.
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1. Communicate with your child in a serious manner
If there is something important to communicate, then please do not treat the young child as just a child, please be sure to communicate with the child seriously, which determines the way the child chooses to look at this matter.
2. Discuss with your child in a sincere manner
When discussing problems with children, children's ideas are inevitably immature, and what adults have to do is to communicate with children with a sincere attitude, do not rush to deny children, and let children feel the respect of parents for their own opinions, in order to communicate better.
3. Pay attention to your child's feelings
Children's affairs are no small matter, parents should pay attention to their children's feelings, even if it is a small decision, do not despise the child's confusion.
4. Let children participate in family decision-making
Allowing children to participate in the daily affairs of the family can not only enhance the child's spirit of participation, but also encourage them to think independently, recognize their identity and role boundaries with their parents, and the significance of children's suggestions is far more important than whether this suggestion can play a role.
From the day the child was born, he is not only a child who needs to be protected, he is also an independent person, cultivating the child's sense of responsibility, but also the responsibility of the parents, the home is the common home of everyone, let the child personally experience it.
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