The article the day before yesterday talked about the gossip about Huang Xiaoming's divorce with Yang Ying, and today we talk about marriage. Although the divorce of the two is completely unexpected, there are not many people like them in the marriage of internal entertainment.
Their marriage, with many old and new concepts and the imprint of the change of the times, is worth the old Chinese medicine doctor to write another article to pick up.
Tell the truth, don't always feel that paying attention to gossip is a waste of life. In fact, the enthusiasm of countless lives and the true knowledge of life are obtained from gossip.
I want to be able to re-read a degree in media or sociology, and the thesis direction is to write about the relationship between celebrity gossip and ordinary people's lives, and there are too many things to write about.
Back to the point, this marriage that has attracted much attention from the beginning is because the big star Huang Xiaoming married an unknown Hong Kong tender model, she had a strange name called Angelababy, and later became a big star herself, personally spit on this name.
But when she debuted, this vulgar name that was spat on by the audience not only had the brand of the industry, but also represented her "fight".
Time back 15 years, Hong Kong female singer Fu Ying is known as the "ancestor of the tender model" in the form of a girl. Subsequently, Janice Man Wen Yongshan and Angelababy Yang Ying stood out from a group of female models in the cover salon.
"Tender model" is the product of the fashion and entertainment industries vigorously reducing costs and stimulating economic recovery in the context of the Hong Kong financial crisis. The age of the tender model is usually between 13-21 years old, which is lower than that of the regular model in terms of comprehensive quality and appearance conditions.
Because of the young age of entering the industry, the artists themselves have general conditions, not only are they more obedient than the average artist, but the company is also easier to make stars at low cost.
Yang Ying only went to junior high school and moved her family from the mainland to Hong Kong, with a clear goal, that is, to eat the bowl of rice of beauty.
Such a girl with no background, breaking into the entertainment industry to meet the "tender mold tide" is her luck. Later, negative news such as the young mold circle sucked du to accompany the night was frequent, and it was resisted by the Hong Kong entertainment industry and business people, and TVB even publicly banned the young model.
Fortunately, at that time, Yang Ying and Wen Yongshan had already landed, becoming the only two people in the tide of Hong Kong's "tender models" who really mixed heads.
In the tender model period, Yang Ying's most prominent achievement was that the sales of photo albums were extremely dusty.
From the age of 14 to 20, she worked as a model, host, fashion designer, accompaniment dancer, and went to Japan for a period of time, but her achievements and resources have never surpassed "sharing the stage with Jay Chou".
In 2007, Jay Chou's World Tour hong Kong, Yang Ying served as an accompanist. In the next two years, whenever I was interviewed, Yang Ying would mention: "So far, my best job is to be able to work with Jay Chou. ”
Yang Ying's resources took off from 2009.
This year, she not only participated in the costume New Year film "Huatian Incident 2010", but also hitched a ride on Huayi's express train through Huang Xiaoming, and partnered Jing Bairan to star in the love movie "Love in the City".
"Huatian Incident 2010" picks the beams of Gu Tianle and Wu Junru; in "The City is in Love", alongside Yang Ying, it is Jacky Cheung, Rene Liu, Nicholas Tse, and Big S.
When filming "Love in the City", the gossip about Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying's love began to flow.
At that time, the state should be that the woman was eager to disclose, and the man was not mentally prepared in this regard. And in the tone of Huang Xiaoming's ex-girlfriend Li Fei'er's later interview, at that time, Xiao Mingge had not completely broken off with Li Fei'er.
Although love is about fate, effort is also important, especially when you face a narcissistic Scorpio man.
We can say that Yang Ying is really untalented in acting, but it cannot be denied that she has been working hard.
Although it cannot be made public, it does not prevent the woman from showing affection in the spring breeze at all. In April 2010, Yang Ying posted on Weibo that she was too busy at work, "When can I enjoy the sponge cake that belongs to me?"
In Cantonese, "Xiaoming Big Brother" and "sponge cake" are pronounced almost exactly the same, which is also the original origin of the name "Little Sponge" for the two sons.
Although the love affair was openly tossed and turned, but in the end Yang Ying hugged the beautiful man, got married in 2015, earned 200 million yuan in 2017, surpassed Huang Xiaoming, and appeared on the Forbes Under 30 Asian list, and the other star on the list together was K-pop superstar Kwon Ji-yong.
In the same year, in the "Star Commercial Value List" of CBN Weekly, Hu Ge ranked first, and Yang Ying ranked second.
Before 2017, it was the honeymoon period of Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying. Yang Ying transformed from a young model to an acting star, although there is no particularly prominent acting skill, but love films of this level such as "The Ferryman", "The Bride Battle", and "A Little Smile is Falling City" do not seem to require much acting, and the beauty is over.
Yang Ying's reputation in acting skills collapsed, starting from the cutout of the ancient puppet "Lonely Fang Does Not Appreciate Himself". Although this drama has Zhong Hanliang's fans "escorting" the whole process, Douban is still happy to mention 3.2 points, and Yang Ying herself is more fond of mentioning the name of "Cutout Queen".
It's certainly not right to fool the audience with cutouts, but it's not objective to say that this is the actor's pot alone.
To put it bluntly, stars are just tools of capital. As soon as the popular team gave a lot of contracts, whether there were conditions or not, only shoddy, not carefully crafted, essentially the result of capital grabbing money.
And the biggest reason for cutting the picture is that Yang Ying found out that she was pregnant after joining the group.
Although there are also many actresses who can overcome difficulties during pregnancy and complete the shooting perfectly, such as Cai Shaofen in "The Biography of Zhen Huan". But an undeniable reality is that whether it is a female star or an ordinary woman, childbirth will indeed cause chaos in the career, and it is a threshold that all women in the workplace have to face.
Because of childbirth, Yang Ying also temporarily withdrew from the recording of "Running Man", and Di Li Rebadaiban set off a lot of heat, frightening Yang Ying to return to the recording of "Running Man" without taking 3 months of maternity leave.
Little sponge was born, Huang Xiaoming is 40 years old, and Yang Ying is only 28 years old, which is definitely an early childbearing in female stars, if calculated by traffic stars, having children at this age is simply a model for family pay.
Yang Ying's postpartum comeback of "Entrepreneurial Times" has a reputation on the street, coupled with the negative impact of "Lonely Fang Does Not Appreciate Itself" has not been eliminated so far.
Looking back now, Yang Ying's resources have fallen and her reputation has reversed, and fertility is indeed an obvious watershed. Yang Ying herself should think so, in an interview, she said with a grudge: "But if he is younger, I will not give birth so early."
Yang Ying regretted having children too early, while Huang Xiaoming calculated that the second child was the best daughter, as for giving birth to a few, he hoped that the more the merrier.
So this divorce, some people speculate that Yang Ying dragged unwilling to have a second child, and Huang Xiaoming was anxious to change children. Although it sounds ridiculous, it seems that it is not impossible to look at the fathers of Guoshi and Zhang Ji, including high-quality idols and three-child father Jay Chou.
I also tried to talk to the people around me, and men generally agreed with this reason - so rich, genetically good, why not have more children?
Therefore, the separation of these two people is a contradiction between the woman's career planning and the succession...
As I said in my previous articles, often what you rely on will also become your limitation.
Huang and Yang's divorce is most likely due to changes in resources, women's wings have hardened, and they expect the marriage relationship to change accordingly, while men still want to maintain the original state strongly.
Huang Xiaoming, whom Yang Ying once relied on incomparably, later became her limitation, and she either retreated or broke the cocoon.
No matter for what reason and why they were attracted, the two must have really loved each other at that time; because Huang Xiaoming ceded resources to Yang Ying, he could not feel that the "honest man" Xiaoming Brother had not been loved, only used.
Don't say stars, even ordinary people, love also needs reasons, mutual benefit and love have never conflicted.
When I first met, Huang Xiaoming was the first young student in the mainland", "Xiaoming Big Brother", with many friends and extensive contacts in the rivers and lakes, and he played a good capital. In addition, people are handsome, and they still have beautiful physical blessings when they are over 30 years old.
The only drawback may be machismo, he is with the former Li Fei'er, Li Fei'er almost completely gave up his career, staying in the hotel all day waiting for Xiao Mingge to finish his work.
Yang Ying, 20, is 12 years younger than Huang Xiaoming. Pretty will come and go and fight very hard, especially know how to lower your posture and vote for older men.
When celebrating Huang Xiaoming's birthday, she asked her friends to wear sailor clothes together to stage "Uniform Temptation".
Huang Xiaoming is easy to "dominate the upper body", while Yang Ying is a solid low posture and high degree of cooperation.
In 2015, Huang Xiaoming was exposed to the "nightclub" scandal, and Yang Ying, who was still a legitimate girlfriend at the time, came forward to support it. Huang Xiaoming tweeted that I am Huang Xiaoming, and Yang Ying forwarded "I am a nightclub".
At that time, the two people who were full of love and spring breeze were both harvested in love and career, and they did not realize that they came together because of the imbalance of career development, and they would gradually drift apart because of the gradual balance of career development.
Huang Xiaoming can come together with Yang Ying because of his fame and resources; and Yang Ying can hold a beautiful man because she is enough to fight.
The two of them took what they needed at that time, they were both sober adults, especially Huang Xiaoming, facing a woman who was much younger than himself, if this girl had lied to him, wouldn't it be as funny as the middle-aged man Lin Feng said that 19-year-old Wu Qianyu PUA himself...
Women who are very hardworking have ambitions; it is ambition that supports them to carry the weight forward at the trough, and it is also ambition that allows them to seize all opportunities with a sense of smell sensitivity.
I never think of a woman's ambition as a derogatory term, and these two words are put on men, that is, "professionalism".
The young and beautiful Yang Ying must rely on meeting the noble huang Xiaoming to get out of the head, which can only show that the vast majority of the resources of our society are still in the hands of mature men, which is itself the oppression of women by the patriarchal society.
If you say that Yang Ying came to power by working as a marriage worker, it was bad money that expelled good money, and the most fundamental reason for this result is certainly not Yang Ying, but the question of how men who hold power choose how to use the rights in their hands.
In modern marriage, an important issue is whether to climb high or marry, whether to promote each other, this is difficult to say right or wrong, can only talk about choices.
Teacher Gao Xiaosong, who claimed to want to shape the perfect three views of the other half and advocated the "cultivation system" partner, found a wife who was 19 years younger than himself. The wife began to study fashion design, and had her own circle in Beijing, so she became the ex-wife that Teacher Gao no longer wanted to mention.
Huang Xiaoming, who thinks that he saved Yang Ying from water and fire when he has nothing, when his wife is no longer the "big baby" who obeys and cooperates perfectly with him, their relationship will inevitably come to an end.
In the eyes of the promoter, this may be called forgetting the original; but in the eyes of the grower, it is another stage of the relationship. Unfortunately, often the one who is downwind has already taken off, and the person who stands on the upper hand refuses to change.
Speaking of which, people are self-interested, and the so-called forgetting the original is only a contradiction in the relationship of interests.
If Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying took what they needed when they got married, then their divorce also took what they needed.
After the divorce, Yang Ying is indeed easier to focus on her career, and Huang Xiaoming is even easier to find a wife who is willing to have a baby. Therefore, the public generally believes that this divorce is a wise and correct choice for both parties, which is also an increasingly recognized attitude about divorce.
Wishing Xiao Mingge an early remarriage and childbirth, Yang Ying can become a real actor under the tutelage of Teacher Liu Tianchi, otherwise the big heroine's personality may be difficult to catch.
I also wish everyone new expectations for the Year of the Tiger!