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How do you really let go of that person?
Some people think that they no longer miss it, some people think that they have found a new love, some people think that they are no longer embarrassed with themselves, and some people think that it is an inexplicable feeling.
Perhaps, everyone's feelings are right, and they are not right.
Of course, there won't be a standard answer. Perhaps, when you feel that you have let go, you are really letting go.
Breaking up with someone you love is bound to experience a hysterical rebirth.
During the process, how much pain there is, only I know best.
And the emotional thing, that's it. Once separated, it can only be accepted.
The real letting go is the calm after hearing his news.
On a certain day, I don't know how many days after the separation. When you suddenly learn the news of the other party, you can do it without being alarmed. This moment, perhaps, is the moment when you really let go.
Perhaps, you will hear that he has a new love. Perhaps, you will hear that he is still missing you. Perhaps, you will get the news that he is not doing well.
But no matter what the news, it will make a "ripple" in your life.
In this way, it is really letting go. Because you know, once loved, enough is enough. How he is now is only about himself, not me.
Some people say that these times after a breakup are a process of self-cultivation.
Maybe so.
If you don't experience loss, you don't know how to cherish it. And the moment of separation is doomed, whether you accept it or not, you must learn to let go.
In the beginning, we didn't know how to let go. In the beginning, we always tried to find a way to let go. In the beginning, we are always afraid that we will let go. In the beginning, we were always confused and couldn't let go.
Over time, it has gradually become a habit.
One day, when we find ourselves less entangled, that's when we let go.
These spiritual feelings are not deceptive.
If you hear from him, you still can't be calm and want to get more news.
It just goes to show that you haven't really let go yet.
Maybe at this moment, we will feel afraid, feel wandering and wandering. But this is not the time for pretense. All we need to do is stop thinking about it immediately.
Give it to time and let time let it be sealed.
Loved someone, it is impossible to forget, but can be put down. Why is it so hard for you to put it down? It's because you have too many obsessions. There is nothing that cannot be put down, only people who do not want to let go.
In the world of feelings, we are all practitioners. You need to think about something slowly.
In fact, those principles are very simple and very simple. When we let go of the attachment in our hearts, we can feel it.
No matter how small the truth, if you can't understand it on your own, it doesn't belong to you.
Some people, perhaps, can't let go for the rest of their lives. But no matter what, life always goes on. It doesn't matter if you've let go or not.
Life is not easy, may change our perception.
Those who have just broken up are always crying so much that they feel like the sky is about to fall.
It's just a feeling. Doesn't say anything. At this time, they couldn't listen to anyone's words.
Therefore, it will take more time for them to slowly understand on their own. After you really accept it, you can naturally let go.
Only by letting go can we move forward lightly. The same is true in the world of feelings. If you have been clinging to past feelings and not letting go. You can only carry the weight forward. Nor will it accept new relationships.
In fact, we all have to understand a truth. In the world of feelings, once lost, there is no going back to the past.
Some people will say, isn't there a broken mirror re-rounding?
Maybe that exists. But have you ever wondered if this mirror is still the same mirror that came before?
Even at this moment, we need to let go. If you can't put it down, even if the broken mirror is reunited, there will still be more gaps between you.
It can be seen that no matter when, it is important to let go.
Back to the topic just now. If you want to know if you have let go of it. Just see how you react when you hear about him.
If at this time, you can't do it without being alarmed. Don't blame yourself. After all, it takes time to let go of a person.
As long as you can understand this truth, that is, to let go in order to really move forward.
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