In life, we often hear such words, flesh and bones, mother and child (female) connection, etc., in fact, these words are not empty nests.
Just like when we first met with your baby, just by looking at him, your heart was filled with love and joy. Blood relations are sometimes so wonderful.
As you spend time with your baby day by day, your love for him or her becomes deeper and deeper, and you are eager to move the whole world to him or her.
The baby is so small, how do you know if he (she) has a deeper understanding of you, you can see the baby's feelings for you from the following small actions.
First, hide in your mother's arms
Many people think that babies are relatively small and have a weak ability to perceive everything in the outside world. Actually, no, they are more sensitive than we think.
When a baby comes to an unfamiliar environment, in addition to being curious about everything around him, there is also uneasiness and fear.
Especially when the mother takes the baby out, she will meet some acquaintances, see such a cute child, she will not help but tease him or hug him, often at this time the baby's first reaction is to hide in the mother's arms and seek a sense of security.
If your baby has this reaction, it means that you occupy a very important position in your child's psychology, and he trusts you very much.
Of course, when the baby appears to recognize the behavior of birth, many mothers will also be very worried about whether the baby will be too shy in the future and will not be able to integrate into the large group.
Don't worry too much, it's normal. If the baby's behavior is too serious, you can usually take the child to the mall, park and other places where there are more people to visit, so that the baby can feel different atmospheres.
Under the guidance of his parents, he can touch more things, such as leaves, flowers, etc., and even let him try to play with other children.
Second, stare at your mother and smile
A few days ago, I chatted with my friend Xiaoyue and said that her daughter was particularly clingy to her. Once I wanted to make milk powder for her, I would let my husband play with my daughter for a while.
As a result, my husband took the toy to tease his daughter, and his eyes did not even look at him, and he kept staring at me to make milk powder for her. Then I was sure to respond to my daughter, and she kept smiling at me.
At that moment, it was as if I saw a little angel. Our mother and daughter raised eyebrows, and the child and her father became a wall of air.
The husband looked up at the sky and sighed, "The two little lovers don't pay attention to me, and I am so good to them every day." No way, who made me love them. ”
After listening to this sentence, my heart was warm and I was very happy. Looking at her friend Xiao Yue's smile, she silently swallowed this mouthful of rations into her stomach.
The baby's behavior shows that the baby has known the mother and is very close to you. He will always pay attention to your dynamics, and at the same time hope to get your response.
When your baby is born, he sleeps for almost a dozen hours a day. In his few awake states, he usually stared at people, but there was no feeling in his head for this person.
But as your baby grows up day by day, many things will have their own perceptions. Gradually, he got a concept of "Mom", stared at Mom intently, and smiled at you, which is how he expressed his love for you.
Love is sometimes reflected in these small details, unconsciously flowing into the heart.
There is an invisible little tree between us and our children, which needs to be watered with our hearts, in order to continue to grow taller and thicker, in order to continue to grow new leaves and fruits.
And these are precisely the expressions of the love we give to each other. Let's water it with our hearts!