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"Zhuangzi Dasheng" wrote: "Although the chicken has a song, it has not changed, and it looks like a wooden chicken; its virtue is complete, and the chicken has no dare to respond, but it is the opposite." ”
In ancient times, people trained cockfighting. Find ways to make the chicken quiet, have no fear of everything in the outside world, and naturally become strong. Those proud chickens, seeing the "quiet chickens", can only escape with their tails between their legs.
In fact, life is a grinding process, just like training cockfighting, turning off the excess sound, quieting down, either enjoying life or moving forward.
If one day you find yourself getting quieter, it means you're "going uphill."
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Quiet is a kind of maturity.
After Mo Yan won the award, he delivered a speech.
There is a story in the testimonial: the school organized a visit to the suffering exhibition, and most of the students, under the guidance of the teacher, burst into tears. There was only one classmate, there was not a tear on his face, no sound in his mouth, not even the action of covering his face with his hand.
Later, Mo Yan reported the situation to the teacher, resulting in the classmate who did not cry, being punished.
Mo Yan said that whenever he thought of this spirit, he was deeply sorry, and this incident made him realize a truth, that is, when everyone was crying, some people should be allowed not to cry, and when crying became a performance, some people should be allowed not to cry.
Yishu once said: "A mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, and everyone has his difficulties." ”
Everyone's mood is different, and their life experiences are also different, don't expect to "agree". Understanding the difficulties of others, you will also become mature.
Turning life experiences into experiences, you should think quietly, observe others in obscurity, and any hilarity has nothing to do with yourself.
Not proud of the achievements, not sad because of grievances, the silent life, is just "the depth of the water is silent".
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Quietness will enrich life.
Schopenhauer once said, "A man of great spiritual wealth seeks a quiet, simple life." Because the richer a person has in himself, the less he needs things outside his body. ”
What do people need in this life? If you blindly pursue material desires, you will never be satisfied, and your spirit will also wither.
Beginning in July 1845, the writer Thoreau lived on the shores of Lake Walden for more than two years.
On the shore of the lake, he cut down trees with an axe and built log cabins. Cultivate your own land and try to be self-sufficient.
Thoreau summed up the real necessities of food, shelter, clothing, and school supplies. With these, life is rich, and excess things can be thrown away.
In fact, in real life, many people want to live in seclusion, but they are reluctant to the prosperity of the city, and they also think that seclusion requires a lot of money, convenient transportation, and supporting hospitals and schools around.
While longing for quiet, while pursuing materialism, confused, a lifetime has passed.
"Big hidden in the city, small hidden in the wild", if you want to retire, at any time, anywhere, you can, the key is "your heart, can you accept".
When you can freely come and go between quiet and bustling, life reaches a higher realm.
Giving up useless social interactions, cutting off unnecessary thoughts, leaving the place of troubles, your unsociable is the natural blessing that springs out of life.
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Quiet, harmony of the family.
Someone said: "My ideal life is to sleep until I wake up naturally every day, not to do anything, not to take responsibility, to sit and talk with the people I love and who love me, and to laugh and watch the sunset." ”
Who doesn't expect a good family? However, how many families have been in the depths of the water. How many couples, words do not speculate more than half a sentence.
When you take the initiative to bow your head in front of your family and keep quiet, the family will get better.
A slap doesn't make a sound. If you don't speak, your family won't be embarrassed to keep blaming, and your anger will slowly dissipate. When you're smiling with anyone, the surroundings get better.
It is foolish to change oneself and to change others.
Find the reason for everything from yourself, insist on keeping your thoughts in sync with others, and don't disturb others, and you will become a sponge that can absorb all the forces from the outside world - Ezhu Kegang.
A harmonious environment will make you physically and mentally happy, and it will also gather greater strength to push you to a higher place.
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Conclusion.
Ni Ping, in front of the stage is the host, behind the scenes is the writer.
In her lifetime, she wrote many books such as "Days", "Days of Bicycles", "Quotations from Grandmother", "Ni Ping Painting Days" and so on.
Put aside all the hustle and bustle, write quietly by one person, and turn the beauty of experience into words. Such a time is rare and precious.
In an impetuous society, books are a clear stream.
She wrote in the "Quotations of Grandma": "People live all their lives, but the people on the top of the mountain live for several lifetimes." The mountain is windy, it is not easy to climb up, you have worked hard, you do not have to regret it in your life. ”
In this life, people must persist in going to the top of the mountain, which is courage. But when you are tired of walking, you must remember to rest and not force yourself too hard; when you reach the top of the mountain, you must take the initiative to go downhill, and do not "occupy the mountain as king".
Insist on walking, no matter how bitter it is, you are not afraid, as long as you have such a spirit, you will have no shame.
The old ancestors told us that we should cultivate ourselves quietly and cultivate virtue through thriftiness.
When you're busy, remember to quiet yourself down. In addition to working and earning money, there are also scenery along the way.
In this world, the real high place is not the distant sky, nor the square inch of the mountaintop, but the realm of life.
Simple and simple life, quiet and calm days, will make people more and more expensive. If you can do it, you're rich.
For the rest of your life, be a quiet person, not disturbed by external objects, not because of worldly difficulties, and live your life in the way you like.
Remember, if you bloom, the butterflies come, and if you are quiet, all is well.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.