The plot development of "North and South" is also too exciting!
Compared with emotional problems such as "Dai Xiaoyu was broken up by Xiao San" and "Feng Xi was broken up", the louder thunder is still behind, that is, Si Meng's husband was "jumped by immortals".
I have to say that Feng Xiaogang is also too dare to shoot, set sensitive and realistic problems of both sexes, step by step to bury mines.
And "Du Shijun", who plays Si Meng's husband, is also an old acquaintance of the audience. He is the "Huazi" in "Struggle", the "Chu Mu" in "The Nth Power of Home", and he is the xiaosheng who was once popular, Zhu Yuchen.
From the original first choice of male number one, to now playing soy sauce in the female group portrait drama, Zhu Yuchen's high opening and low walking make people sigh.
Emotionally 42 years old is still alone, and the goddesses are attracted to his talent and dissuaded by his mother.
After all, such a mother-in-law is too suffocating, even her own son Zhu Yuchen is difficult to resist, and she cannot escape the puppet life.
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Zhu Yuchen's love sinus first opened, coming quickly and violently.
Outside the examination room of the Chinese opera, the students who took the exam were nervous, and the primary students all relied on the exchange of preparation experience to ease the tension, and the same was true of 18-year-old Zhu Yuchen.
A few days after the exam, Zhu Yuchen actually met a female classmate chatting outside the examination room, this time there was no oppressive environment, both of them relaxed a lot, the world is north and south.
The more they talked, the more they found that he had endless topics with the girl in front of him. In an instant, the heartbeat sent a signal to the teenager.
He must not have imagined that in the future, this girl would be extremely popular, and the girl would be Tang Wei.
But in any exam, if there is a high score, there will be a fall. Unfortunately, this year, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei both entered the list of drops.
With a companion, there is a motivation to play again, so the two choose to re-read and sprint again.
In 1998, Zhu Yuchen, who played in World War II, successfully landed, but Tang Wei was not so lucky, and once again regretted to fall off the list.
Fortunately, when Zhu Yuchen came to Beijing to study, Tang Wei chose to go north to accompany him and rented a small house next to the school, with a monthly rent of 300 yuan.
And Zhu Yuchen's meticulous mother was also on the way to come.
In Mother Zhu's own words, her care for her son was top of two Filipino maids, and this kind of control in the name of love was even jaw-dropping to even the newborn roommate who saw Mother Zhu for the first time.
When the new students reported, Zhu Yuchen's mother personally helped Zhu Yuchen make the bed, and also asked Zhu Yuchen's roommates one by one whether they could snore, afraid of affecting her son's rest.
This made the roommates very embarrassed, and zhu Yuchen wanted to find a seam to drill into, which was still behind.
One of the major features of the Chinese opera campus is that the ivy trees crawling outside the students' dormitories are bright green and crisp, which is particularly vibrant.
But Mother Zhu was particularly dissatisfied with these ivy vines, worried about attracting insects to bite her son, and even wanted to burn them to death with boiling water.
Fortunately, he was stopped by Zhu Yuchen in time, otherwise he would have "died in the society" on the first day of college.
Obviously, the grinning Tang Wei could not resist such a meticulous mother-in-law, but she had not yet reached the step of fighting wits and courage with Zhu Ma, and she first had a disagreement with Zhu Yuchen.
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In 2000, after losing the college entrance examination for 3 consecutive years, Tang Wei was finally admitted to the Chinese opera as he wished.
However, this joy, Zhu Yuchen did not share with her, because on the eve of Tang Wei's college entrance examination, the two broke up due to contradictions and never communicated again.
Recalling this youthful first love, Zhu Yuchen could only say with regret on his face:
It was too green and unrestrained.
After graduation, Zhu Yuchen also experienced a period of confusion for several years of newcomers, but he soon met an important Bole in his life, Zhao Baogang.
In the domestic dramas in those years, the TV dramas directed by Zhao Baogang were both quality and word-of-mouth double harvest, highly sought after by young people, and Zhao Baogang was also called "star-making myth" by the industry.
In 2007, Zhao Baogang's "Struggle" was broadcast and was a great success, and several leading actors in the play were all popular, and Zhu Yuchen's wanton and uninhibited "Huazi" played in the play also ate the dividends of the blockbuster drama.
This role was won by Zhu Yuchen with strength, and the one who was defeated by him was also a powerful actor Ren Zhong.
Probably Zhu Yuchen's free personality of playing musical instruments and playing billiards in private is very similar to "Huazi", so he got the admission ticket first.
This cooperation Zhao Baogang is also very satisfied with him, so in "Who Decides My Youth", he once again found Zhu Yuchen and Wang Luodan to pair up.
After her son became popular, Mother Zhu couldn't stay idle and personally followed the group to take care of his diet and living.
Every day, I got up at 4 o'clock to cook for my son, and I also had to squeeze juice and cook soup for my son, and the bottles and cans were divided, and I also had zhu Yuchen's staff tell me to drink the drinks on time.
After drinking these drinks, Zhu Yuchen could not drink a few mouthfuls of pure water all day, and his stomach was all stuffed with Zhu Ma's soup.
And Zhu's mother is busy with these meals in the morning, but also to prepare for noon and evening, if the son's shooting task is heavy, she will make a full day's meal in the morning and bring it to her son in separate packages.
Zhu Yuchen also wanted to throw away the meal rebelliously, but remembering his mother's busy back, he always couldn't bear it, and he had to drink the drink with his urine.
If it is only to take care of life, even the content posted by Zhu Yuchen on the social platform, Zhu Yuchen's mother will have to copy down each article seriously.
This made Zhu Yuchen feel more stressed, and slowly reduced the release of social dynamics, and even the vent of emotions was gone.
And the appropriate age also makes it difficult for him to find a girlfriend, because Zhu's mother's standards for her future son are too high, almost like choosing a nanny, which makes many girls stay away.
However, there are exceptions, there is a girl who appears like a light in Zhu Yuchen's repressed life.
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In 2012, Zhu Yuchen and his former rival ren Chong, today's good brother, collaborated on a drama "The Story of Time and Yin".
This drama allowed Zhu Yuchen to get acquainted with Jiang Yan, who is cheerful and can take care of people, but during the filming process, he always thought that such a thoughtful girl must have a boyfriend, so he did not take the initiative.
Jiang Yan's personality is indeed very pleasing, when filming in the crew, she often brings a few pots of self-cooked things, improves the food of the crew, and the good cooking skills conquer the stomach of colleagues, and everyone likes her.
Hard-working and generous and lively, many predecessors appreciate Jiang Yan's character, and Song Dandan even regards her as a "dry daughter" and affectionately calls her "two fat".
Mother Zhu's recognition of Jiang Yan began with a plate of cucumbers.
Jiang Yan made a very test knife cucumber, wanting Zhu Yuchen to bring to the friends in the same group, he was unintentionally seen by Zhu Mama when he went home to get a drink.
Zhu Ma, who is busy in the kitchen all day, is an expert in cooking, and at a glance, she can see that the girl's cooking skills are not bad, so she encourages her son to contact this actress.
Zhu Yuchen himself is also very talented, so after learning that Jiang Yan did not have a boyfriend after killing Qingqing, he quickly took the initiative to pursue and hugged the beauty.
Jiang Yan, who was already virtuous, did not expect that Mother Zhu's ceiling was higher, and even once self-doubted, she also boiled soup for Zhu Yuchen.
Fortunately, Jiang Yan is not completely lost in herself, and she will also ask Zhu Yuchen:
You don't come to me because I can cook and take care of people, do you think I'm suitable for you, or do you think I'm suitable to be a wife?
Thinking about it, Jiang Yan was also aware that Mother Zhu's high requirements for her daughter-in-law were not met by few little girls.
Zhu Yuchen, on the other hand, always used words to change the subject.
Just when the outside world thought that the two "heavenly unions" would be in love with each other, the two accidentally broke up.
What forced Jiang Yan to "go crazy" was not to get up at 4 a.m. to stew pear soup, but another "strange request" of Zhu Mama.
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Zhu's mother once said on a variety show that she did not like girls dressed in revealing clothes.
But in that era, small suspenders and small shorts were standard for fashionable girls, not to mention female stars who were at the forefront of the trend.
And Jiang Yan also has a good figure with a convex back, fitness, swimming are her hobbies, it is a pity to cover it with long clothes and pants.
This question seems to be a contradiction in dressing, but in fact it is a difference in concept.
From Mother Zhu's high requirements for her daughter-in-law's cooking and taking care of people, to the strict standards of dressing scale, it can be seen that she is an old man living in the old concept, and uses "virtuous and virtuous virtue" as a ruler to measure her daughter-in-law.
At a deep level, it is implied that after marriage, the daughter-in-law should have three from four virtues, a good wife and a good mother, put her husband and family first, and always revolve around her husband and children to live as the next self.
Even if Jiang Yan loves Zhu Yuchen again, she will still distinguish what is the "fire pit", so she still chooses to end this relationship.
I think that even if Tang Wei and his feelings persist until now, they are bound to be beaten by Mother Zhu because of the scale.
Different from Zhu Yuchen's sadness, Zhu Yuchen's mother had her own calculations in her heart, and she also found the next daughter-in-law candidate.
Zhu Yuchen and Huo Siyan once worked together to shoot a scene, when the shooting was hot, both of them had stye, Zhu's mother was distressed about her son, so she sent boiling Chinese medicine to the crew every day.
One day, Zhu Yuchen poured a bowl for Huo Siyan to taste, and Huo Siyan felt that the taste was not bitter, but also very delicious. This casual sentence was heard by Mother Zhu, and since then, she has boiled double servings of Chinese medicine soup every day and personally sent it to the crew, watching Zhu Yuchen and Huo Siyan drink it.
Compared with her son's rebellion against Tang Tangshui, Huo Siyan's well-behaved and sensible mouth was sweet, so that Mother Zhu liked it in her eyes, so she openly shouted to the media and wanted Huo Siyan to be her daughter-in-law.
But Huo Siyan's well-behaved is only polite, in fact, refined, who dares to live under the eyes of such a mother-in-law?
So on the interview program, Huo Siyan made it clear that she was superficially obedient, in fact, she was a larger woman and was very fierce to her boyfriend. Subtext: Let the old lady serve people, no way!
In addition, Huo Siyan also pointed out to the point that the Zhu family's criteria for selecting a daughter-in-law are to marry a bride, marry a bride, and marry a new bride.
This statement has made my attitude clear: this fire pit, I do not jump.
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In 2018, the 39-year-old Zhu Yuchen appeared on mango stage's variety show "My Family's That Kid", showing his suffocating maternal love in all directions.
Mother Zhu said that taking care of my son is my main job. She had to intervene in every relationship of her son, and she did not feel her offside, but instead thought that she was treating her son with her whole life.
The family's big and small affairs have to handle Zhu's mother, and Zhu Yuchen has also become a puppet, and has been stifled by his ability to live independently.
Zhu Yuchen also tried to resist, and when he was a child, he was even forced to write a suicide note, and when he grew up, he insisted on leaving home to go to school in Beijing, but he still could not escape his mother's love.
Watching his peers get married and have children, 39-year-old Zhu Yuchen is still alone, he broke down and cried:
How come none of them want to be by my side.
Forming a new family is more like a life-saving straw for Zhu Yuchen, saving his life that has been suppressed for nearly 40 years, but unfortunately no girl is willing to marry a puppet.
Shortly after the end of the show, Zhu Yuchen was exposed to a new relationship, and the woman was a designer. In the photos of the two being secretly photographed, the girlfriend is wearing a low-cut crop top.
Netizens have said that do not let Mama Zhu see, otherwise they will break up again.
After the woman's social account was pulled out, the tide dress and tattoos on her body were obviously the style that Mother Zhu did not like, so after the relationship was exposed, there was no following.
And Zhu Yuchen was also poured with fresh juice with high sugar content for more than 10 years by Zhu Ma, his face was covered with acne pits, and his waist was slowly blessed, no longer regaining his original sense of youth.
Not only has it had an irreversible impact on her son's life, but even Zhu Yuchen's own sister, because of her mother's attitude towards the family, has been living in the shadow of marriage fear, and is still unmarried at the age of 40.
Zhu's mother also admitted that the reason why her daughter is single is because she sees my attitude towards my son from childhood to adulthood, she said that she can't take on this responsibility, and my family knows it.
The children's lives are overwhelmed by this suffocating maternal love, and perhaps even Mother Zhu did not expect this ending.
Now Zhu Yuchen is 42 years old and is still alone.
The career has not recovered from the situation, from the original strength of the small student to a corner figure. And these tragic results are all the causes buried by Mother Zhu. The British psychologist Sylvia once said:
All love in this world is for the ultimate purpose of convergence, and there is only one kind of love whose purpose is separation, and that is the love of parents for their children.
The true successful love of parents is to separate the child from your life as an independent individual as soon as possible, and the sooner this separation, the more successful you will be.
If Mother Zhu does not want her son to grow old alone for the rest of his life, then she still has to find the boundary between mother and son and endure the pain of letting go.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, do not turn love into a cage, trap the child for a lifetime.