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Friend Xiaohui has just recently changed her new job, still in the probation period, after working for a few days, sighed and said, "I am not without work experience, and it feels very unreasonable to set a probationary period for someone like me." ”
As a friend, I can understand her mood, but from the perspective of workplace rules, unless you are really strong, it is better to honestly accept the probation period, because there is no basis for verbal arguments, you say that you are very capable of working, what proof?
In the early years, when I was still in the workplace, the company recruited a new editor who did not like the probation period, and on the first day of the company's report, he said that the company should let him directly turn positive. I thought he would be very capable, but after a few days of trial, I found that he was not as good as a fresh graduate. He did not pass the probation period, and when he was opened, he was very unconvinced, saying that the company did not want him to be the company's vision, "there is no grandfather here, there is a place to stay."
A person is really good, and nature will not be buried. Moreover, a truly excellent person will know the truth of steady and steady fighting, and will know how to prove his strength with actions and achievements. It is often those half-hangers who have no ability and like to talk without words, and such people are difficult to like everywhere. And, the more you talk in the beginning, the more you lose later.
The same principle is followed by the affection, and love should actually set a "probationary period" so that it will not plunge into it and then escape with scars.
The following reader is a person who sets a "probationary period" for love, let's hear what she has to say.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Donglin teacher, hello:</h1>
When many friends mention me, they will be consistent and say that I am a person with rich emotional experience. Every time I hear them say this about me, I can only laugh.
On a quantitative level, I do experience more emotion than my friends around me. However, in terms of quality, I am not as good as the friends around me who have only talked about love once or twice, at least they can hit it with one hit, and I have been wandering on the edge of love, either I pass through other people's lives or others pass by my whole world.
The reason why this situation occurs is because I am not serious enough about feelings, and I always don't have a long memory, and the mistakes I made in the previous relationship will appear a second time in the next relationship. Every time I thought I had met a fate, but going to the back proved that my cognition was wrong.
Now, the reason why I put myself in the empty window of love is because I have experienced an unforgettable love before. Compared to the previous relationship, that relationship lasted longer and was deeper, and I thought it would last a long time, but I gradually discovered his unbearable side.
One day I stumbled upon his chat with his mother and felt chilling because they were trying to drop the bride price and say that as long as I was pregnant, I wouldn't have to spend money on marriage.
To prove that I thought too much, I lied that I was pregnant, and he really started playing a rogue, asking me to marry him as soon as possible and not giving me a penny of the bride price.
His ulterior motives have broken my good feelings for him, there is no possibility of repair, I have to tell him the truth, temporarily let love sleep, first let myself enter the love window period.
In the empty window period, the reason why I set a "trial period" for love, first, because I no longer believe in fate, and secondly because I just changed jobs, I was in the probation period, and suddenly realized that love can also set a "trial period" like work, and the more I think about it, the more reasonable I feel, with the probation period, I will take my feelings seriously in a limited time, hoping that this can improve the quality of my feelings, and don't let me swim away on the edge of love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Donglin Xiting emotional suggestion:</h1>
When you are working, you are in the probation period, if you like that job, you will invisibly be strict with yourself, so that you can turn positive after the end of the probationary period.
Setting a "trial period" for love can have the same effect. If you do like a person, you will be in the other person's love trial period, and you will be better able to express your love. If others really like you, during your love trial period, they will naturally show their hearts.
People who don't like their jobs, or who don't care about their jobs, basically can't pass the probationary period, and may even lose their jobs during the probationary period. In the same way, if a person does not really like you, during your love trial period, it is difficult for him to be attentive, so that you do not need to judge how to figure out whether love is necessary to continue.
Setting up a love probation period can not only stay in the sense of form, but also rise to a sense of ceremony, the purpose of setting up a probation period is to meet the right person, in order to get happiness. This practice is actually a disguised test of whether we are careful about love, you are careful, do not need to set a special probation period, you will also take feelings seriously. And if you are not self-disciplined enough, setting up a love trial period can play a great auxiliary role in your choice of love.
Text/Donglin Xiting, if you have a story, come to me.
Will you set a "trial period" for your love?