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Many things in this world have a fixed time, you look at the cycle of the four seasons, look at the flow of night and day, they will never be easily disturbed by anything, but according to their own rhythm in an orderly manner.
Many things have their own fixed numbers, when to come, will come at what time, will not be advanced, will not be postponed, can not be changed manually.
Sometimes you want to get it ahead of time and can't wait to make some changes, but in the end you can only be empty-handed.
This is especially true of love. At what stage you will meet, in fact, it is already doomed. Sometimes you wonder if you didn't meet him if you didn't go to that place that day, but in fact, the person you meet will eventually meet even if you miss it.
Some people are destined for you, you can't escape, even if he gives you endless harm, even if you regret it, but you still can't avoid it, even if you start over and give you another chance, you will still make the same choice in that moment.
And some people should be your fate, you will not miss, those who miss do not have to regret, all misses are fixed, in the end just to prove that that person is not your good person, the right person has someone else.
I know that in the time of waiting for love, you will be a little anxious, especially when you see the people around you in pairs, slowly entering marriage and forming a family, only you are alone, your heart will become more and more anxious.
I also know that although a person's time is very cool, it is inevitable that it will be a little lonely, waiting for a long time, you will keep playing drums in your heart, is it really impossible to meet the right person, is it really going to be lonely and old?
In fact, I can understand this feeling, but I still have to advise you not to be in a hurry, the love that belongs to you will come sooner or later, you just need to wait patiently.
Don't make the mistake of loving because you're lonely
When people are lonely and lonely, they often make some wrong decisions, and they can't wait to enter a relationship, and they don't have time to consider whether the other party is the right person.
We often think that loneliness is the most difficult emotion to dispel, only two people can soothe that feeling of loneliness, so there is no way to endure a person's time, always thinking that as long as you find a companion.
But later I found out that what is more terrible than loneliness is wrong love, and being with a wrong person is more lonely than when I am alone.
A reader told me about her story, she worked alone in the big city, had no close friends, had good working hours, was wrapped in work, had colleagues who could talk, and came home alone too lonely to endure a life alone.
Wrapped in this loneliness for a long time, when a member of the opposite sex appears around her, she eagerly enters a relationship, she thinks that it will be good to have a companion around her, but in fact, in the end, the relationship exhausts her.
Two people often quarrel because of a little sesame garlic skin small things, he cares about things she does not understand, she loves things he does not understand, obviously is not a world of people, but hard together, bringing her double loneliness.
Don't get into a relationship because of loneliness, don't make the wrong love because of loneliness, this is what I can wake up to everyone.
Don't lose faith in love
Some people are more and more suspicious of love because they have been hurt.
Once loved a person deeply, originally thought that two people can go on for a long time, when he first loved himself, he took care of everything, and then said that he did not love, so that we slowly doubted whether all love will not start well, is love really overdue?
Because a deep love affair did not get the desired result, so it lost confidence in love, while expecting love, but also did not dare to believe in love, just between wandering and hesitation, has been delaying.
Some people have become more and more suspicious of love because they have been waiting for a long time, and many single friends around me have asked me more than once: Do you say that I can't find the person I really like?
I have also met some similar people, not that no one pursues, or it is almost interesting. Even if you are urged by the people around you, even if you are really anxious, you still can't get around with people who are almost interesting.
In fact, what I want to say is that there is no need to lose confidence in love because of a person, and there is no need to believe in love because love is a little late, love is early and late, the reason why it did not come, just because the time is not enough, do not easily lose confidence in love.
Alone, take care of yourself
Love is not urgent, it needs to sink down and wait patiently.
But the so-called waiting is not a negative attitude, nor does it mean that you do nothing yourself, that is, wait and wait every day, but actively use the way you can do to cope, and use the best of yourself to wait for the arrival of love.
Instead of spending all your thoughts on self-hatred and self-pity, on doubting love, it is better to calm down and take care of yourself.
Some people are very negative, while longing for an excellent other half, but not to act, always envious of others can get sweet love, can be pursued by high-quality men, while complaining about their own fate, not favored by fate.
What kind of other half you want, you have to force yourself to become what kind of person. Love has never been a charcoal in the snow, but the icing on the cake, and it has never been a game of poverty alleviation, but a combination of strong and powerful.
When you are alone, don't think about things, calm down to do what you want to do, become the person you want to be, and then everything you want will come quietly.
Don't worry, give love a little more time
All the good things take time to slowly sculpt, and those things that are within reach are easy to come by, but they are not long-lasting and not complete enough.
Fireworks are brilliant but do not last, but the ephemeral flowers are beautiful but easy to wither. When you plant a seed, it also takes long enough to bloom a beautiful flower.
Each flower has its own flowering period, some long and some short, just as our love is the same, some come early, some come late. You may belong to the one who comes late, do not have to envy others, do not have to lose confidence in love, good food is not afraid of late, real love is worth waiting for.
Don't worry, give love a little more time, he may already be on the way to find you, you are waiting while he is also looking forward to meeting you, you give each other a little more patience, sooner or later will meet.