Love has always been a dance of two people, not a carnival of one person.
In love, it is not a matter of giving, you can get rewards. Not all hard work can usher in a fruitful harvest.
In love, it is not humble to please, you can exchange the same love for each other. In the humble dust, there will never be a brilliant flower.
Feelings also need to be managed with heart and managed with wisdom.
In the relationship, we must understand each other's hearts, but also learn to maintain ourselves, stick to our own principles, and be a woman who loves decently and elegantly.
The so-called understanding is to learn to be considerate of men, understand men, praise men, think about problems from his point of view, think for him, and maintain his dignity.
The so-called self-preservation is to love others on the basis of loving yourself, and not to lose yourself and give up yourself for love.
Blind love, not valued. Love without dignity cannot be cherished.
If you want to get the favor of a man, using these three methods is more effective than any flattery.
01. Praise the merits of men and be a considerate woman
It is human nature to desire to be praised by others.
There is no one who does not like to be praised by others and get positive evaluations of themselves by others.
Especially in the world of love, men's hearts will become sensitive, fragile, and emotional, eager to get women's praise for themselves.
In today's fast-paced society, men face extremely heavy pressures. They are old at the top and small at the bottom, and they need to work hard outside and support their families.
If a man comes home after work, he will have to face the complaints and accusations of women, face the chatter of women, you can imagine how broken his heart is, how helpless.
Over time, the man's heart will produce a feeling of resistance and boredom, thus deepening the estrangement between the two, making the two gradually drift apart, like a strange road.
If you want to get the love of men, you must learn to be a considerate woman, often praise the advantages of men, the shining points of men, and give him positive evaluations.
Say more words of appreciation in his ear, let him be a proud man, be a confident man. He will cherish you more and respect you.
02. Affirm the man's efforts and be a contented woman
Modern society is full of materialism, and it is difficult to satisfy people's growing desires and ambitions.
When you don't have a house, you long to have a house of your own. After buying a house, I want to change to a house with a better location, a larger area and more luxurious decoration.
Some women, always envious of others having a handsome husband, or a rich husband, feel that their men seem too mediocre to decorate their own table.
As a line in the TV series "I May Not Love You": People always like to envy what they don't have.
In the eyes of the world, what is not obtained is always the best. As everyone knows, your happiness is actually in the eyes of others.
When you envy others, others are also envious of your considerate and tolerant husband.
If you want to truly get a sense of happiness, you must learn to be a contented woman, feel everything you have with your heart, and perceive the advantages of men.
Learn to affirm men's efforts, contentment and happiness, in order to get men's respect and pity.
03. Express your opinion and be an opinionated woman
We often say that women should be gentle and show a bird-like appearance in order to make men feel sad.
However, the so-called gentleness does not mean cowardice and timidity, no opinion.
What really makes men feel sorry for is that women who are gentle on the surface and strong on the inside.
Women who are too strong will make men feel depressed and suffocated. Women who are too weak will make men despise and tiresome.
What can really win the love of men is always the kind of woman who exudes a strong hint of gentleness. You can be gentle, but you must have your own opinions and stick to your own principles and bottom lines.
Don't go with the flow, don't follow the crowd, don't have your own thoughts, so you will only live without self, without a little feminine charm.
What makes men pampered is always the kind of woman who has an opinion, a woman who dares to express her own views. A woman with an opinion can maintain her dignity in her feelings and live out the most beautiful posture and the most confident appearance in love.
Emotional Message:
To get the favor of men, it is never a humble flattery, but these three methods.
Learn to praise men's merits, affirm men's efforts, express their own views, and be a considerate, contented and assertive woman.
In this way, your efforts can be recognized, and you can win the respect and love of men.
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