The girl in the ambiguity said that she was cheating, how to reply? Give you three seconds and think about it. I'm sure most guys will quickly refute it and then praise it out of the blue. By doing so, you still don't understand women. Today's article, chestnuts from bronze to gold, to give you an analysis one by one. Different segments of the reply, bring different endings. If you understand, the next time you are asked by a girl, you can give a reply that makes her feel excited.
Bronze segment: directly caters
Most of these boys have no experience in love and rely on intuition. Seeing that the girl said that she was cheating, she would not say such a thing as "it's okay, I can accept it". But the answer is also unremarkable, basically denying the girl's statement first, and then praising her for being good-looking: "No, you are very beautiful." ”
Regardless of whether the girl is being humble or not, she will feel that your answer is very perfunctory. And, once you exaggerate, it becomes blind praise, which will make the chat into embarrassment. It's not wrong to praise her, but the direction of praise is biased, honey! Let's take a look at how the silver segment replies to this question, and you will know where the gap is.
Silver Rank: Firm choice
They understand that when girls ask this question, they don't just want others to praise themselves as beautiful, but to make sure that you have chosen her firmly. Especially girls who are already a little ambiguous with you, the emotional ups and downs are relatively large, and they are easy to think wildly. Hearing you praise her, the first reaction is not to be happy, but to subconsciously think: "He seems to be very unexpected, if he meets a prettier than me, will he change his mind?" ”
The old iron of the silver dan level realized this and understood the inferiority and insecurity of girls at this stage. Their answers will make the girls believe that only they are the most favorite people in the eyes of the other party. Other members of the opposite sex, no matter how good they look, are useless. For example, he would say, "I value your interesting soul more than a good-looking skin bag." Maybe he'll also say, "Don't question my aesthetic, and that could be a mirror problem, you come and see you in my eyes." ”
Such an answer can not only improve the girl's self-confidence, but also bring her a full sense of security, and produce a warm and happy feeling from the bottom of her heart. So why answer such a perfect looking boy, can only be counted as a silver dan? Because they don't understand the side effects of saying this. Love talk is set after set, but the effect is temporary. When the girl reacts, she will feel that you are just talking cleverly, and maybe she will secretly poke and poke you as the king of Shanghai.
Moreover, if the atmosphere is not set off well, such an answer will be slightly greasy. Many boys whose feelings died in the ambiguous period are because their thinking is stuck in the silver level. And if you want to break the game, it is actually very simple, you only need to add two more links on the basis of the silver level, you can become the golden level of real love.
Golden Segment: Emotional ups and downs
Take a chestnut. The girl said, "I'm cheating." You replied, "Indeed. This answer properly broke the girl's psychological expectations, and she must have begun to get angry, thinking, this person is a straight man of steel, right? At this time, you continue to say, "You are more beautiful." ”
Hey, at this time, the girl was relieved because she got the expected answer. But how can it be as simple as that? Your next sentence will be: "Especially the eyes, no more, no less, just two." "The girl must have found it angry and funny, and if you were in front of her, she might want to reach out to you."
At this time, the atmosphere is in place, and you can start the real performance: "Rich people say they are poor, beautiful people say they are ugly, you have so many shining points on you, can't you see it?" And the beauty and ugliness of appearance is not important to me, I like it so much. Especially when you laugh, it will make me feel very happy, and this feeling is something that no one else can give me. ”
After two consecutive emotional roller coasters, he gave her a heartbeat and touch. The stimulation that this dual experience brings to girls, you can't imagine. Believe me, after this battle, your feelings will be greatly sublimated.
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Author | Yellow chestnut Ye
Consultant of the First Psychological Writing Group | Senior Emotional Mentor | Best-selling columnist on the internet