The husband of the "village girl" Ada made a fuss and flipped an "expired love letter" from his wife and old lover on the table to make a big fuss, and the humiliated Ada simply abandoned his husband and threw himself into the arms of his lover Frank. Is this the blindness and madness caused by love?
After the "strong woman" Isser fell in love with Frank for a while, he did not hesitate to break up with his fiancé Leon, who had no common language, and has been struggling to support the wedding dress shop career alone ever since. Is this the bravery and determination that love leads to?
"Desperate Woman" Margarine originally had little to do with Frank. Unable to have children, he secretly adopted Abbey, The illegitimate son of Isser and Frank. Later, in order to avoid The increasingly unstoppable light of motherly love by Isser, and shockingly looking more and more like Frank's son, Margarine and her husband left the country to relocate and choose to flee. Is this cowardice and bitterness caused by love?
Frank, the man who also fascinated the "village house girl", "strong woman" and "desperate woman", lived a lonely and lonely single life from beginning to end. He and Ether have lost their passion for being together, Ada, who has been dragged by the child and is unable to return to be his romantic lover, Margarine, in order to protect her rights to motherhood, will not hesitate to leave her husband away from home to take his only son, Bobby, while Frank does not know it. Is this the punishment and lesson of indulging love? Could it be a little more miserable? A little more miserable? Appalling?
"Crossing the Ocean and Falling in Love with You" is undoubtedly a very romantic and cruel love movie. It is said to be romantic because people find long-lost warmth in a beautiful love relationship, and discover and dig a new self. This kind of love makes people more confident, more optimistic, more content, braver, and more radiant; it is cruel because we must take responsibility for the love relationship we choose. In "Crossing the Ocean and Falling in Love with You", whether it is the conscience condemnation and public opinion pressure that Ada received after abandoning her husband and abandoning her son, or the pressure of life and the pain of losing relatives that Isser must bear after her dashing indulgence, or the uproar and lifelong forbearance after Margarine's unexpected childbirth, as well as the loneliness and loneliness and loneliness and oldness after Frank's wanton life, people are full of deep awe for the established laws and objective laws of life. That is, if you plunder too much in one respect, then you must make necessary compensation in the other, and no one can get the whole of life; imperfection is the reality of reality, and perfection is only a legend.
In "Crossing the Ocean and Falling in Love with You", there is a particularly impressive plot that tells the true meaning of life and love. It was Frank, Ada, Esther, Margarine, and Bobby, all of whom had a rare chance to get together and accidentally get together for a wild "road trip." Arriving in a misty mountain range, the adventurous Isser's plan to find a "cave diamond" leads the curious baby Bobby astray and almost dies. Isser's adventurous and aggressive personality has made her a constant driver of life's progression and the initiator of unexpected events. After this incident, Ada repented from his "extramarital affair" and turned back home, Margarin moved the idea of leaving abroad to protect her son, Aiser had to face the great pain of loss of relatives again, Frank, who created all the sorrows and joys, knew nothing about everything, and Bobby was scarred and became the biggest victim of the "love game" in the adult world. According to Frank's train of thought, he was happy to see his beloved surrounded by people; but life has its own trajectory, each person has his own responsibilities and entanglements, and our final choice determines what kind of person we really are. In Ada she could not abandon her family and kindness; in Iser she could not abandon her career dreams; in Margarin she could not face the cold family relationship without the presence of an adopted son; and in Frank he could not abandon his romance and freedom. So in the end, we have an intersection somewhere in our lives, and then we disperse for our own lives. This is almost a helpless fact.
We love each other and our souls depend on each other, but we can't always be together. The love in "Drifting Across the Ocean and Falling in Love with You" is so soul-destroying, swollen and intestines, and people throw themselves into love like poisoning. I especially like Ada, who looks like Zhao Wei inside, has a pair of big eyes and a particularly shy smile, which inadvertently let people see her simplicity.