When a person starts lying, it actually shows that there is already a problem in life. In the relationship, it is often when you do something sorry for the other party, or something that makes the other party feel unhappy, in order to achieve the purpose of making the other party happy, or not to doubt, so you say some lies.
"Paper can't contain fire."
Even if a person lies, in this time period, you have crossed the sea, but one day the other party will find out your lies, you will also show some horse feet, at this time there may be a crisis in the relationship between the two of you.
Women tend to lie more easily than men because women are good at using language to communicate with others, which shows that women say more than men in a day, Chinese there is a sentence that says:
"More words are lost".
When a person talks more, the shorter the person may say that the leaky thing will be, and sometimes a woman, if the leak, then at this time, the woman may have to lie to make up for her mistake of saying the leak, so that the man no longer doubts himself.
In marriage, if a woman begins to be restless, she will tell these three lies, and men should not be unaware.
Going out a lot, it's going out with friends
If a woman has been going out a lot lately, and always says that she went with her friends when she goes out, but you find out after inquiring that she didn't go with her friends at all, then at this time you must be clear that women must not be very honest.
Men can sometimes think differently, if a man becomes uneasy in marriage or love, at this time, the man has to go out to find other women, or find other people to drink and chat.
Then if the man is still worried about the love of two people, he will tell the other party that he and his friends have gone out to play, and will not tell the other party that he has gone out to find another woman, and he will not tell the other party that he has gone out to spend the day and drink.
Therefore, if women also lie like this, men must know that in fact, their hearts are the same as your state, so at this time you must be wary of each other, if the other party really goes to find their friends, then this matter is not so serious, because people must have several good friends after all.
But if the other party went to a bar after being with his friend, or was with this friend and found another male friend, at this time men must pay attention to it.
And under normal circumstances, if a woman is open and honest to find a male friend, it will not lie, so it is very likely that women have become less peaceful at this time, so men must pay attention to, at this time, if many things have not happened, they must know how to stop it in time, otherwise they will only regret it.
I don't go home at night because I work overtime at night
There are many people, when they don't go home at night, always tell each other that they are working overtime, in fact, sometimes there is no overtime at all, and we use overtime as an excuse.
In many film and television works, if a woman does not go home at night, she will always say that she has worked overtime to her husband, in fact, women may go outside with colleagues in the company, which is a very serious thing, but such things often happen in real life.
Work is an indispensable part of our lives, because of work, so we have a lot less convenience, because work we also have a lot more convenience.
What is inconvenient is that if we want to go to work, then time is not so free, so we will be limited when we do other things; if we go to work when it is convenient, if we want to do what we want to do, at this time we can tell the people in the family that we are going to work by ourselves, so we will tell the people in the family, such a lie, we will also be free.
So many people take work as a shield, they don't love each other, but they don't want to say it, at this time they haven't thought about whether to separate from each other, so they often lie like this, dragging each other, and they will not treat each other sincerely.
Whether it is a man or a woman, such a thing should not be done, if you feel that you are not happy with each other in life, then at this time, you can tell the other party, instead of procrastinating.
One thing to be afraid of in love is not to say that the other party does not love you, but that the other party does not love you, and then will not say it, do some things that make you sad all day, but things that make you feel confused, and things that make you feel particularly angry, make you feel embarrassed and overwhelmed.
If a woman has this kind of behavior, the man must know how to carefully observe the woman, on the other hand, the man should not be discouraged, and there may be room for maneuver in things.
As a woman, if you don't love a man anymore, you should also be bold and say it, don't do something sneaky, and don't have much respect for yourself.
Being with someone is just for work things
If a woman often tells a man:
"I'm with this guy, just for work."
If such a situation happens once or twice, it doesn't matter, but if it happens all the time, even if you don't go home at night, you are saying that you are with each other for work, and the man at this time must know that the other party may have given you a hat.
A few years ago, Liu Kaiwei and an actress spent the night in a room, which caused a big sensation.
At that time, Yang Mi sent a message on Weibo that he would believe his husband, but after many years, the two people were divorced, which shows that in fact, two people of the opposite sex, if you say that you spend the night in a room, then this matter is very serious, it is very likely that something will really happen to two people.
And after you spend the night with each other, you also say that the two of you are for work, in fact, in today's society, everyone is not so stupid, so it is only a matter of time before such a lie is exposed.
In love or marriage, women begin to be restless, they will lie to men, and often say the above lies, so men should pay attention to these lies, if your woman has been telling these four lies, you must be careful.
"Fate is predestined, happiness is your own."
Every marriage, every relationship is not easy, so we should cherish it well.
Chen Xiaochun said:
"Once I get married, I don't think about getting a divorce, even if the other party betrays me one day, I won't be in a hurry to divorce the other party, and I may continue to live with the other party for the sake of marriage." 」
That's because this person hasn't met a man who can betray him, and if he had, he might not have said so.