I finally believe that every road that comes up has a reason why it has to trek like that; every road that it has to go down has a direction that it has to choose that way! --Xi Murong [Heart Language] survived the necessary suffering in order to live a life that he liked. Before everything gets better, we always have to go through some unhappy days, these days may be long, maybe just wake up, so be patient and give good luck a little time! In life, there will be some good things, and there will be some bad things. I can afford good things, and I can bear bad things. It's not bad to be an ordinary person like this. There is a perception: do not be friends with colleagues, for reasons such as: fear of competition, secret betrayal after being known by colleagues, separation of work and life, this is not professional, and so on. I'm glad I wasn't influenced by the above ideas, and I made some friends in the companies I worked for, but I was more passive in turning my colleagues into friends. Earlier, a former colleague and good friend recommended "Achievement", one of the authors is former Google CEO Eric, the content is to remember his coach Bill Campbell. Bill Campbell was originally a college football coach, entered the business world, served as an Apple executive, CEO of INTUIT, and later became the coach of many business leaders in Silicon Valley, teaching Apple's Jobs and Google's Larry Page. The most impressive thing about the book is that Campbell and his colleagues are close friends and have become very good friends. He and Jobs were originally colleagues and later became close friends, and when Jobs was seriously ill, Campbell visited him almost every day. In his eyes, work and life are a whole, not only to care about the work of colleagues, but also to care about the lives of colleagues, monday regular meeting, everyone first talk about what interesting things were done on the weekend, how to live. Because he has always adhered to this philosophy, many colleagues have become his friends and consider him to be their best friends. In today's professional society, everyone is more role-oriented, we only see the side of the colleague at work, whether his family is good or not, whether it is smooth, we do not know or care, everyone has become a familiar stranger. Working with familiar strangers every day, we are prone to feeling stressed, irritable, and insecure. If you can change your mindset and become friends with colleagues, you may have the same unexpected gains as Campbell: more understanding and recognition, good interpersonal relationships in the organization, more friends, more opportunities in the career. Ecological field happy travel originates from nature as expensive as gold!
