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Backstage received a private message from a male reader friend surnamed Zhong who said that he loves women so much, and is usually very good to his girlfriend, very considerate and gentle, and follows the news, but why does the girlfriend still have to choose to break up with herself, so ruthlessly leave herself?
It seems that not only this male reader friend, after many male friends in real life are broken up, they will often complain about their girlfriends or wives, why they obviously love ta so much, so good to ta, but ta still have to choose to break up with themselves, even if they are bitterly begging each other, ta still choose to leave themselves.
But in fact, have you male friends thought carefully, have you reflected on this question, is it that the other party can't receive their own love, or the way they love is wrong? I know that there are still many affectionate men in love, who really love the woman they love very much, and they are sincere to women, and they really want to grow old with women and accompany this life.
But you may have forgotten that there is nothing wrong with loving someone, but in the wrong way. Have you ever considered from the perspective of a woman what a woman wants most in her heart, and what she needs the most, just as there was a saying on the Internet, although what I gave you is not what you want, but it is definitely the best in my opinion.
From an objective point of view, the starting point of this sentence itself is wrong, and even more or less with a little "moral kidnapping" flavor, after all, in the process of interpersonal communication, men do not ask women what they want, always think that they give their best, most precious things to women, but this is not what women want most in their hearts, or women do not like men, do not have any feelings for men, of course, women also have the right to refuse, more reasons to reject men.
After all, as the so-called, the water is overflowing, the moon is full of loss; sometimes in the feelings, love is too full, and even overflowing, not only will not make this person full of joy, but will also be more and more disgusted with themselves, because love to the deep meaning, not as good as love just right, a person's feelings are too much, it will make the other party stressed, but also let the ta breathless.
Therefore, in the relationship, sometimes, men learn to properly snub women, which is really just the right "love". Especially these 3 methods of "snubbing" women, I believe that if you learn it, you will always think about it in your heart, and the woman who is worried about her stomach will love herself more and more, but she must know how to combine her actual situation, learn to analyze the problem specifically, as long as you know how to use it a little, I think men will be able to get what they want, and I believe that the loved ones will love themselves more and more, and they are more and more inseparable from themselves.
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When you chase her, you can intermittently snub her;
In real life, once many male friends like a woman, once they look at a woman, they will desperately chase after women, but often in the end, not only can not catch up with the woman they like, but also will make people hate themselves.
Why, because the love method used by men to chase women is itself wrong, or they don't understand any love skills at all, of course, it does not mean that when men first start chasing women, they must snub women as soon as they come up, but they must know how to learn to snub women intermittently;
Especially when a man falls in love with a woman, there is a woman in his heart, and when he has moved his true feelings for a woman, he is now in the stage of desperately chasing women, and has been in contact with women for a period of time, but women have always maintained a hesitant and indecisive attitude towards themselves, every time at this time, men can learn to snub women slightly, they can intermittently snub each other, but they must pay attention to grasp the measure.
For example, two people in your usual life often chat and talk, and women have become accustomed to the existence of men, habitual chat with men, and then men suddenly leave women, not actively looking for women to chat, then women will start to be uncomfortable at this time, will slowly begin to nervous men, the mind will be more of a question about this strange practice of men, why men suddenly do not look for themselves to chat, why men suddenly cold to themselves?
Therefore, women will start to think about men, worry about men, and even remember, but to remind all male friends, do not oversnate women, otherwise not only will there be no effect, but it will be counterproductive.
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When she is busy, you can appropriately snub her;
I know that in love, whether it is a woman or a man, when a person really falls in love with another person, has each other in his heart, and really moves his true feelings for him, then he will want to be with each other all the time, and he will put all his energy and time on each other, and he will also want to occupy all the time and energy of the other party.
But sometimes, when men like women too much, care too much about women, too clingy to women, have occupied all the time in women's lives, but women are very disgusted with men's practices, and they will feel that men are particularly bored, and even more and more annoying to men, the more they do not regard men as a thing.
After all, just imagine, especially when you are very busy at work, you may be too busy to even drink time, the more men want to find women, the more they want to talk to women on the pole, women will become more and more disgusted with men, so more and more tired of men.
So male friends remember that when the woman herself has a job to deal with, or when the woman says to the man that she is busy, then the man should not bother the woman at this time, and do not continue to chat with the woman, otherwise it is easier to get the woman's disgust.
Whenever a woman is busy with work or other things, men can appropriately snub women, maybe women will feel that men are very different, think that men know how to understand themselves, but women will therefore worry about men in their hearts, worry about men, only when women are more worried about men, the more they will take men seriously, and will in turn take the initiative to contact men, understand?
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When two people quarrel or have a conflict, you can learn to snub her;
In fact, whether it is in love or marriage, once two people quarrel or have a conflict, the other party is just angry, at this time you talk about what is useless, the other party not only can not listen, but will listen to the more angry, often you can choose to snub the woman;
However, male friends should pay attention to the fact that it is not to let men specifically snub women, but to let men calm down first, after all, when male friends and female friends quarrel or have contradictions, the original male friends have an innate advantage in appearance and strength, female friends and male friends compared to them, not only petite appearance, strength is more disparity, if the two of you really quarrel to the point of moving, female friends where is the opponent of male friends.
And I really don't support the use of force to solve problems, oh, there have been a lot of news about this kind of news lately, which makes me shudder and sad. So in my opinion, if a man is a man who stands tall in the sky, is a really good man, then men must learn to let their emotions calm down first, even if it is not their own mistakes, they must also learn to be soft, to admit their mistakes, men, be a little more atmospheric, don't always worry about women.
In this way, on the contrary, you can first stabilize the woman's emotions, can make women no longer angry and lose their temper, only when the woman really calms down, and when the woman recovers happiness or happiness, often at this time, men will talk to the woman about some big truths, put some facts, give some examples, and then tell the woman which person is doing it right, which person is wrong, the woman can listen to it and accept it. As the cartoon "McDougal" says, don't reason with women, especially angry women
Eason Chan has a song called "Red Rose" that sings very well: "Those who are loved have no fear, and those who cannot get are always in turmoil." ”
In short, in the process of gender exchanges, in fact, each of us loves a person in a different way, and the way of treating love is also different, but only by learning to manage feelings well can the feelings of both men and women be more long-lasting, and the two of you can go further.
Therefore, all male friends, want to make a female friend fall in love with themselves, have themselves in their hearts, and think about themselves, not only to contact women every day, but to learn to use these 3 methods to snub women, that way, women will love men more and more, miss men more and more, and even in the end there is no way to leave men, and they will never forget men.
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