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Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

In June 1965, Li Zongren returned to China with Guo Dejie and was received by the state leaders.

Drifting for more than a decade has finally stabilized

However, before he and his wife could enjoy life well, Guo Dejie was responsible

Died of breast cancer.

The year Guo Dejie died, Li Zongren was already 75 years old, and he didn't want to

Spend the rest of your life alone,

He wanted to find the original match, Li Xiuwen, hoping that she could return from the United States and spend the rest of her life with herself.

However, Li Xiuwen did not

Ignoring his demands,

After that, Li Zongren married another wife, which is what we know

Butterfly daughter Hu Yousong.

Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

Li Zongren Hu Yousong

However, this time only three years after marriage, Li Zongren's life was over

Came to the end,

Before dying, he asked Hu Yousong to take out a photo of Li Xiuwen.

Touched and touched and looked and looked.

Perhaps at this moment he remembered Li Xiuwen's goodness and regretted what he had done.

Li Xiuwen was born in 1891, is a native of Guilin, Guangxi, and has three older sisters and an older brother above her, because of the many children, she is also a female baby, so she was not valued at first.

The family did not ask her for her name, but only called the fourth sister according to the rank.

Until she was 5 years old, she had an illness, and her parents invited a Langzhong for her, and Langzhong looked at it and prescribed a pair of medicines, saying that it would be good to drink it.

Who knows that after drinking the medicine, not only will it not be good,

On the contrary, it was more serious, and fell into a coma,

At that time, the family was busy with farming, and no one could take care of this little girl, so her mother carried her to a small room.

With tears in her eyes, he said that she would resign herself to fate,

He went to work in the fields.

Who knew that when she returned the next day, she found that the fourth sister was alive and well, and said that she was hungry, which made her mother

Tears rain down,

Neighbors also heard about her resurrection and congratulated her parents.

Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

Pictured, not Li Xiuwen

It just so happened that there was a gentleman in the village who looked at each other, and Father Li went to calculate a gua for her.

As soon as she heard the eight characters of her birthday, she repeatedly said that this girl had a good life, was a noble person, and would be rich and noble in the future.

It was this kind of guaxiang, coupled with the fact that the fourth sister did not get well for a long time, the mother became pregnant, and after October gave birth to a younger brother, and let the father take her

Made a treasure.

So she has never worked since then, only sewing and mending at home, and when she grew up, her father was also very careful about her relatives, but he never had the right one.

Until Li Zongren came to propose to him, at first his father felt that Li Zongren's family was not well-off.

But the fourth sister didn't care,

She threatened that this was her destiny, so she married her.

Both were 20 years old at the year of marriage, and

Li Zongren is tough and handsome, and the fourth sister is beautiful as a flower,

It is a real match, and after marriage, the two people also lived a sweet life.

Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

Li Zongren also named his fourth sister: Li Xiuwen, and for her

Invited a lady,

Teach her culture. From this point of view, their relationship was still very good in the beginning.

Later, Li Zongren joined the army and led soldiers around to fight, Li Xiuwen took care of his in-laws in his hometown, and was later taken in by Li Zongren to xinhui, and also gave birth to a son for Li Zongren, named

Li Youlin.

At that time, life was the most satisfactory to Li Xiuwen,

She took her son to live in Xinhui and stayed by her husband's side,

However, this life soon ended.

After the outbreak of the Two Cantons War, Li Xiuwen and his son were sent back to their hometown and have lived since then

Keep a widowed life.

In 1923, Li Zongren met Guo Dejie in Guiping, fell in love with him at first sight, and married him the following year, Guo Dejie knew that Li Zongren had a wife and children.

But she didn't mind.

Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

In those days,

It is still common for men to have three wives and four concubines, and Li Xiuwen is not unacceptable.

It was just that when Li Zongren na Guo Dejie was a concubine, he did not tell her and his family.

When she knew that she could not change in the future, but she still took her son to the military camp and saw Guo Dejie, for this woman who accompanied her husband all day, Li Xiuwen was dissatisfied, but she could not change, she could only accept,

This dissatisfaction was suppressed in the bottom of my heart.

After she lived with her husband for a while, the Northern Expedition began, Guo Dejie followed Li Zongren north, and Li Xiuwen and her son were arranged to Hong Kong.

Later, Li Zongren suffered successive defeats in 1929.

He couldn't take care of Li Xiuwen and his son, so he let them return to Guangzhou.

Therefore, in the eyes of his son Li Youlin, Li Zongren, the father, has never fulfilled the responsibilities of his husband and father.

Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

Li Xiuwen took his son to live in his hometown,

Accompanied by her in-laws, and later her father-in-law died, leaving her ten thousand silver dollars,

Li Xiuwen took this money to buy an industry, built a small western-style building, and never wronged himself in life, but psychologically

Full of loneliness,

He was even more dissatisfied with Li Zongren and Guo Dejie, and this dissatisfaction finally broke out at the funeral of Li Zongren's mother.

Guo Dejie is a very

Proud woman,

After she married Li Zongren, she followed him to the south to fight in the north, and even went to the battlefield to kill the enemy.

During the Battle of Taierzhuang, Guo Dejie also went to comfort the soldiers as Lady Li Zongren.

So in the eyes of the outside world, only know

Li Zongren's wife is Guo Dejie, but she does not know that there is also a big house Li Xiuwen.

It was also under such circumstances that Guo Dejie was very dissatisfied with Li Xiuwen's occupation of the position, and such dissatisfaction also broke out at the funeral of Li Zongren's mother.

The Li family is a large family, so when paying tribute, follow the rules,

Male is a column, female is a column, the leader is naturally the eldest son, Guo Dejie is the second room, kneeling behind Li Xiuwen should be deserved.

Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

But when she knelt down, she began

Pulling Li Xiuwen's hair,

Li Xiuwen's feelings with her mother-in-law are very deep, coupled with her dissatisfaction with Guo Dejie, she made trouble in this situation, naturally angry, twisted over and pushed Guo Dejie.

Guo Dejie took the opportunity to make trouble, and Li Zongren was also very angry, after all, this was his mother's funeral, so he reprimanded both of them.

After that, he took Guo Dejie and left.

The remaining Li Xiuwen was completely chilled. So she prepared to spend the rest of her life with her son, but after the War of Resistance Against Japan, Li Zongren took Li Youlin

Sent to the United States to study.

So the in-laws died, and the sons went overseas, leaving only Li Xiuwen to guard his hometown.

This was kept until 1947,

The son returned with an American wife and a four-year-old daughter.

Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

Seeing that his son was very happy, Li Xiuwen was finally satisfied, and then his son and his wife returned to the United States, but they could not rest assured of their mother, and they tossed and turned for several years.

Finally, in 1958, Li Xiuwen was brought to the United States, and since then Li Xiuwen has begun to enjoy the joy of heaven.

Ironically, Li Zongren also came to the United States with Guo Dejie in 1949, lived for 16 years, but rarely saw his son and wife.

Until later, when he returned to China, Guo Dejie died,

I want to spend the rest of my life with Li Xiuwen,

But Li Xiuwen was not willing, so he married Hu Yousong.

However, before dying, I kept looking at Li Xiuwen's photos, and I thought about it

regret

Right?

On the other hand, Li Xiuwen returned to China in 1973 and lived with her nephew and niece, who often accompanied her, heard from her mouth, and wrote a book

"Me and Li Zongren".

In 1992, at the age of 102, Li Xiuwen died, and after his death, her son Li Youlin cried:

My mother lived for a hundred years, but she was widowed for 70 years.

Li Zongren's son Li Youlin: His father let his mother stay widowed for 70 years, but he married one room after another

Li Youlin is distressed about her mother, but also very loving and protective of her mother, in the second year after Li Xiuwen's death,

He died thinking of his mother.....

In this life, Li Xiuwen is indeed as the fortune teller said, there is no shortage of glory and wealth, but he has been widowed for 70 years, suffered 70 years of loneliness, and watched her husband marry one room after another.

Fortunately, she had a good son and a good old age.

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