Li Youlin, son of Li Zongren: His father married his wife again, and he was uneven, and his birth mother cried bitterly in public at the 100th birthday feast
Recommendation: It is said that children are the continuation of parents' hopes, we grew up under the care of our parents, but also grew up under the ardent expectations of our parents, the biggest regret in the world is that the child wants to raise and does not wait, so in our lifetime, we must be kind to our parents, do not let regret accompany us.
Speaking of Li Zongren, I believe that everyone is no stranger, Li Zongren lived in the United States in his later years, although he once fought on behalf of the Nationalist government and the Communist Party of China, but in the War of Resistance Against Japan, he also contributed, and in his later years to see the vigorous development of New China, Li Zongren was also very happy and excited.
Although it is said that once we were each the masters, but all that flowed in our bones was the cause of China, as sons and daughters of China, seeing that the cause of the motherland was thriving, Li Zongren once sighed, fortunately, the Communist Party has won the world!
1. The loveless marriage between parents makes Li Youlin feel extra sorry for her mother
Compared with Li Zongren, his eldest son is a bit unknown, Li Zongren's eldest son is named Li Youlin, and Li Zongren gave his son this name in the hope that the child can inherit his ambition.
Li Zongren hopes that his children can follow in his footsteps and pursue the glory of his political career, but everything is not as he wishes.
Li Youlin did not like the military as his father wished, and his body was very weak since he was a child, and the only thing that resembled Li Zongren was the stubborn temper that the nine cows could not pull back.
When Li Youlin was four or five years old, Li Zongren married a female student Guo Dejie, fearing that his daughter-in-law would be snubbed, and under the arrangement of Li Youlin's grandparents, his mother took Li Youlin to live in the army.
When he was a child, Li Youlin also spent a happy time with his father, and at that time Li Zongren was very fond of his son. For Li Youlin, that happy childhood time always has some regrets, because the marriage between father and mother has long been extinct. Li Youlin was raised by her mother, and her relationship with her mother is also particularly close.
Because he loved his mother deeply, he knew the suffering in her heart, and in his impression, her mother had been lonely all her life, and all this was due to her father. In Li Youlin's eyes, the mother is a perfect woman, filial piety and in-laws are loyal to their husbands, but they have not been able to get her husband's favor.
2. Li Youlin is reluctant to take the career path
In the study career in a foreign country, Li Youlin misses her mother very much, and whenever she thinks of her mother, she will always shed tears unconsciously, she knows that her mother is waiting for her return from school in her hometown, and her mother will rely on herself for the rest of her life. Finally, Li Youlin graduated from college in 1942, but Li Zongren was not satisfied with this.
Because he hopes that his son can choose the military, and his son's choice has nothing to do with the military.
Li Zongren wanted to induce his son to enter the military and political circles, but Li Youlin did not have any desire for career at all, and later Li Youlin began his study abroad career, seeing that the eldest son did not have any desire for career, Li Zongren turned to cultivating an adopted son.
Until 1947, Li Youlin returned to China after completing his studies, when he was already married and had children, at that time Li Zongren held an important position in Beijing, he wanted to arrange a position for his son, but Li Youlin had no interest in this, in order to be able to keep his son, Li Zongren arranged a foreign trade commissioner position for Li Youlin in Nanjing. In just a few months of doing this job, Li Youlin became disgusted and proposed to his father to leave his job, he did not want to have any contact with the corrupt government, and then Li Youlin went to the United States.
Li Youlin's family
3. Crying on my mother's 100th birthday
For Li Youlin, he witnessed the tragic encounter of his mother's life, in 1990, on his mother's 100th birthday, Li Youlin thought of his mother's emotional misery in this life, such as a fish in the throat, tears flowed unconsciously, although at this time the mother has lived for 100 years, but in the 70 years of life she is lonely.
Summary: For Li Youlin's mother, her marriage is unfortunate, but she has a son who knows that she loves herself, which has also become a great blessing in her misfortune, are you right?
Reference "Li Youlin"