A decision by Venus 25 years ago changed her life! When asked "is it a man or a woman", the domineering response - introduction.
【The main author of this article: Heaven eats】
On April 5, a "die-hard fan" of Venus posted on a personal social networking site: Thank you for your bravery and persistence, let me see the real you, and matched it with a photo of Venus. Subsequently, Venus forwarded and expressed his gratitude with a love icon.
It turned out that April 5, 1995, was Venus' "Day of Rebirth." On this day, Venus completed his dream and rewrote his life trajectory.
Fast forward 25 years, Venus is not only a well-known dancer at home and abroad, but also a host of the audience's pinning downs. Today's Venus, not only a successful career, love is as sweet as ever.
In everyone's eyes, Venus is confident, brave, optimistic, and she has become a role model for thousands of women.
However, behind this brilliance, Venus has also experienced unbearable pain for ordinary people.
【The boy's dancing talent is amazing, and he won the grand prize to study abroad】
In the summer of 1967, Venus was born in Shenyang, Liaoning Province. Perhaps, Venus's parents did not think that the couple, who had no artistic cells, would have a child with amazing dancing talent.
When I was a child, Venus was white and pure, very popular. Although he has not received professional training, Little Venus has always been interested in dance and is definitely an "active member" of the school's literary and artistic activities. At that time, the school wanted to select a few children to learn to dance, and Venus was successfully selected, which started his dance career.
As it turned out, the teachers didn't pick the wrong person. Although Venus is a little boy, his body is very soft, and his dance understanding is also very high, which is a good seedling worth cultivating.
At a time when other children were still playing carefreely, Venus, who was only 9 years old, was sent to the literary troupe to practice dance.
It is precisely because of this experience of leaving home at a young age that Venus is not only able to take care of herself in life, but also develops the ability to think of her own way in case of trouble, and "independence" has become one of the biggest personality characteristics of Venus.
Recalling the "hard days" of this training brings Venus not only the improvement of skills, but also the spirit of hard-working. The youngest student to join the group, Venus insisted on practicing basic skills with his brothers and sisters.
Unfortunately, at that time, the little Venus was not tall, there were not too many performance opportunities, Venus was not impatient, helped to make props in his free time, and practiced hard when he seized the opportunity.
Opportunity is always favored by those who are prepared, and the "little gold" of Venus finally waits for the opportunity to shine. Venus, who took the stage as a substitute actor, seized the hard-won opportunity to shine on the stage and was unanimously affirmed by the teachers.
In 1984, Jin Xing successfully graduated from the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts and was assigned to the Shenyang Song and Dance Troupe.
Venus knows that although he carries an "iron rice bowl", he does not have a strong backstage and seems to never jump to the protagonist. Lucky Venus has once again ushered in a good opportunity - the "Tao Li Cup" dance competition. With excellent dance skills, Venus won the first place in the junior group.
In the following years, Venus not only won various honors, but also performed in South Korea, France and other countries, and Venus gradually became famous in the dance world.
[The daughter bravely broke through the ghost door in front of her, and almost lost her legs and could not dance]
In the eyes of others, but in his early 20s, Venus has achieved so many achievements in his career, which is really enviable.
In fact, Venus has always had a heart that has bothered her for many years - she wants to become a real daughter.
Netizens who have watched the documentary "Miss Venus" should know that Venus said that when he was 6 years old, he already had the illusion of being a woman.
Such an idea, even now, will attract the eyes of others, let alone more than twenty years ago?
However, all along, Venus is a very assertive person, as long as it is something she has decided, no matter how difficult it is, she must try it.
Venus's idea is supported by parents, and in the eyes of parents, as long as Venus is happy, parents can understand.
In fact, Venus is also the only son in the family, if it is not the parents who really want their children to be happy, who wants to let their children suffer that sin?
For Venus, the encouragement and companionship of her family is an indispensable courage on her way forward, and it is this courage that makes Venus completely reborn.
Venus said in her autobiography that the surgery was divided into four parts, the most painful of which were throat knots and hair removal.
In order to be able to clear the beard off the mouth, the doctor had to turn the skin and flesh from the mouth line and then remove the hair follicles one by one. In order to better achieve the effect of surgery, Venus chose not to use anesthesia.
Is this kind of pain in the heart that ordinary people can endure?
However, for Venus at that time, he had only one idea: to become a woman, he had to pass this hurdle.
Finally, the sex reassignment surgery was successfully completed.
But unfortunately, because one of the lower legs in the operation was pressed for 16 hours, the muscles and nerves died, and it was difficult to recover for a while.
Venus once wrote in the book, "It is difficult to recover, and even if it is recovered, it is a cripple." ”
As we all know, the most important thing for a dancer is his legs, and finally he has to make his own Venus, do you have to pay for your legs?
The strong Venus has always wanted to control her own destiny, but she did not bow her head, insisted on rehabilitation, and re-entered the stage a year later.
[Be true to yourself, meet love, and adopt three children with Hans]
Perhaps after passing through the ghost door a few times, Venus seems to have a more transparent view of life.
She used to know that only when she became a successful person could society accept her as different. However, the truth is that Venus, after experiencing many difficulties to be herself, is still treated harshly.
Venus once asked the host on a talk show: "Are you a boy or a girl?" ”
Obviously, this is deliberately trying to embarrass Venus, but Venus's answer makes the audience can't help but applaud. Venus said unashamedly, "This is my life!" ”
I have to say that Venus's short sentence not only expresses her attitude, but also shows her super high emotional intelligence and eloquence.
And this kind of self-confidence and bravery has also become the biggest personality charm of Venus, and even the German Hans is deeply attracted to Venus.
The encounter between Venus and Hans is beautiful and romantic, and it does not lose the idol drama at all.
Hans did not buy economy class, changed to first class, and it was Venus sitting next to him.
At that time, Venus was already a daughter, exuding the charm of oriental women, and Hans fell in love with Venus at first sight. As a German, Hans was open-minded and broad-minded, willing to understand the fullness of Venus, even accepting the fact that they could not have children of their own.
In this way, Venus and Hans fell in love and entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, they adopted three children and formed a healthy, enlightened and warm family. In the show, Venus also often shares family fun, which is very enviable.
In order to allow the children to have a legal hukou and successfully enroll in school, Venus chose to divorce Hans and solve the problem of the children's schooling.
Many netizens said that they did not dare to do this, in case the husband "ran" what to do?
Venus, who has always been self-reliant, is not without such worries, in her opinion: "You marry men, I marry love!" ”
It can be seen that the relationship between Venus and Hans is very stable.
In 2018, Venus and Hans remarried as promised, and Hans gave Venus an oil-like engagement photo, which was very romantic.
【Conclusion】
Some time ago, the "female host" Venus also shared her photos on social platforms. In the photo, she is holding flowers in her hand, even if she wears a mask, people can feel the happiness and ease she feels from the bottom of her heart.
Many netizens commented: Sister Jin, living has become the most envied appearance of women!
As Venus herself said: If "transgender" is my only flaw, then my life is "perfect"!
Indeed, for Venus, following her heart is her law of life, and even if she has suffered pain, it is an indispensable experience in life.
At any time, as long as you live your true self, you are the most beautiful!