My wife was paralyzed for 6 years, the nanny Juanzi was at my house for 6 years, the wife just died, Juanzi said to resign, the reason for the resignation made me unacceptable, and then I found my son to discuss it

My wife was paralyzed for 6 years, the nanny Juanzi was in my house for 6 years, the wife just died, Juanzi said to resign, the reason for resignation made me unacceptable, and then I found my son to discuss it, and the son gave us an idea, Juanzi happily agreed after listening, but I did not want to!

I am 67 years old, my wife is two years younger than me, after we retired, life was very comfortable, but unexpectedly, my wife had an accident.

6 years ago, my wife and I went out with the old people's group, in a farm, my wife saw a mulberry tree, the tree was full of mulberries, so that my wife could not help but think of picking mulberries in the village when I was a child, she said: When I was a child, I could not grab others, I could only pick some not very sweet to eat, today I will eat a full.

So she pulled up her cuffs and began to pluck them, but there were few mulberries in the short places, so she wanted to go up to the tree. I strongly opposed it at that time, after all, this age tree is not safe, but the wife did not listen to advice, insisted on going up, and an accident occurred in the back, she fell down, injured the lumbar spine. Since then, he has been paralyzed.

After she was paralyzed, in order to take better care of her, I hired a babysitter, the nanny Juanzi came to my house at that time, Juanzi is a rural person, 45 years old at the time, her husband died a few years ago, she went to the city to make up for her son's college expenses.

Juanzi has been working in my house for six years, doing her best for my wife, and getting along very well with us before. Until my wife died last week, I finished my business. Juanzi offered to resign.

I was very surprised, so I tried my best to keep her, and I thought she was underpaid! As she said no, I asked why. She said: Now that your wife has died, and you and I are single, it is inconvenient for me to stay in your house and serve you, and I don't want to be gossiped about.

It turned out to be this reason, but even so, I really didn't want Juanzi to go, first of all, they were together for six years, everyone was familiar with each other, and Juanzi was a person who worked hard and cooked delicious food. If she leaves, I'll ask someone else again, I'm afraid I'm not used to it.

So I told her that I would need to discuss it with my son in two days, because when I first invited Juanzi to come, it was the housekeeping company that my son went to.

After my son came to my house, at the dinner table, my son asked Juanzi: Auntie, where do you plan to go after you resign from my house?

Juanzi said: I am older now, I can't do anything else, then I may continue to be a nanny!

My son said: Auntie, you were 45 years old when you came to my house, and now you are 51 years old, if you go to nanny again, it may not be easy to find a job, since you still want to be a nanny, just stay in my house, and our salary will increase you a little. Mainly my dad is used to you as a person, then change a babysitter, but also need to run in.

But Juanzi looked embarrassed, and my son immediately understood her pain, so he said: If you are afraid of others gossiping, I have a good idea, if you agree, this matter will be easy to handle!

Juanzi asked: What is the idea?

My son looked at me, then at Juanzi, paused and said, "Why don't you just live with my dad, so that you don't have to be afraid of gossip, and we pay the nanny's salary."

Juanzi listened, stunned, and after thinking about it for a few minutes, she nodded her head and agreed!

But after I listened to what my son said, I felt something strange in my heart. Although Juanzi is really good, can cook, people are easy to get along with, and it is definitely good to live with her. But less than ten days after my wife died, I immediately found someone to live with. It is inevitable that some of the feelings in my heart are sorry for my wife, and it is difficult to accept it for a while.

But if I don't agree to my son's proposal, Juanzi is really gone, what should I do?

Since Juanzi can agree, it means that she is also affectionate to you, everyone has been running together for six years, it is not easy to get along so well, if she leaves, and then another nanny comes over, it is estimated that it will be difficult to accept for a while.

And now your son's proposal, I think it's really good. This is probably the best ending, if you don't want Juanzi to go, it can only be so, but if you feel that you are too unwilling to go, you can let Juanzi go back for a while first, just take a long vacation. When you adjust, let Juanzi come back!