Law this job...

Law this job...

Seeing the hard story of a confirmed case in Beijing looking for a son today seems to have aroused concern and anger online. I really hope that their father and son can be reunited as soon as possible.

I'm not saying I've been through a lot, but the truth is that most of the clients I've met are as bitter as he is, or even more bitter than he is.

I am often angry, but more than anger the emotion is, helpless...

I hate it when people vent their emotions to me, and I explicitly refuse to "empathize" with them (although many times I can't). When the person complains in front of me, I will make it clear that we will talk about the matter of the case, and the emotions you go home to digest, I can confiscate the counselor's share of the money.

In fact, the more real reason is that I can't bear the emotions of the parties at all.

Therefore, when I face the emotions of the parties, I am mostly silent, or even directly interrupt.

My principle is never to complain with the parties about the law or the judge. If I do this, it will not only appear that I am not professional enough, but also shirk my responsibility.

If you lose a case, you can say how the judge is, it is too unleveloped. If the lawyer really has a level, the case that should not be lost will not be lost. If you lose the case, it is very uninteresting to talk about how the judge is. So, in front of the parties, I never complain about the law or the judge.

But believe me, I just want to win the case as much as the client. I feel from the bottom of my heart that every case is my work, and I want to make my work a work of art.

Losing the case, in fact, I was also scolding the mother. In the process of handling cases, I often feel angry...

Being kicked, being sneered at, being ignored, being deliberately provoked, being deliberately harassed, being guarded like a thief... Believe me, this is the norm for lawyers. At least in my work I encounter it every day, probably because I'm not good enough...

If it was because of my mistake, I actually have nothing to say. But a lot of times...

Today, I received a phone call from a certain intermediate court asking me to submit the entrustment procedures for the first instance. I politely agreed and immediately mailed a copy. It's been three months since this verdict came out, so how did you start archiving the entire volume? And you lost my proxy formalities? Are you sure you just can't find my agency formalities? The evidence is not less, right? In fact, it doesn't matter, anyway, the first instance judgment is that I won...

Another retrial case was heard, and the court was half-cut, saying that I had not submitted the formalities for representation. Come on! I am a retrial applicant and there is no representation procedure, will your court accept my case? Also, if I don't submit the formalities, how did you contact me and how did you mail the summons to us?!

In another case, the parties received a complaint but did not receive evidence from the opposing party served by the court. We contacted the court, and the court said that the trial would be held. I went to court to see the evidence of the other party, and I was urged to issue a cross-examination opinion, these evidence parties have not seen or confirmed, how dare I confirm the authenticity?! Of course, I can't cooperate with the court to finish the trial, of course, I have to ask for another trial to organize cross-examination...

Seeing this father who is looking for a son, if it is not diagnosed this time, his heart is sad, how many people can see it?

People have the same heart, and their hearts share this reason.

I often feel that we don't need to be serious and responsible as legal people. The phrase "you are not handling a case, but someone else's life" may make people feel stressed. However, only if we lawyers and judges take other people's affairs as a matter of course, many contradictions will not arise or intensify.

But perhaps, only those who do a good job of people are likely to take other people's affairs as things.