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I have heard such a sentence, in the world of emotions, when a person is missing another person in his heart, it is an emotion that cannot be hidden, and it is an emotion that cannot be hidden, that is to say, even if the 2 words "miss" are not spoken directly from the mouth, but the person can also feel that he is missed and worried about the breath in his heart.
Deeply believed, especially in real life, there are many couples or couples for various reasons can not accompany each other's side, even if they do not directly say "miss", even if they do not directly say "I miss you" to this person, but they can get along with each other from the clues of two people getting along, from the words and lines of communication between two people, you can feel the feelings from the beloved person's thoughts, and the meaning of admiration.
Although it is said that once a female friend falls in love, once she likes a male friend and has a true feeling for her, she likes to stick to the side of her male friend in her daily life, and she likes to be with her beloved, and even female friends will be eager to stay with male friends for twenty-four hours a day, and not leave the beloved person for half a step.
However, the reality is often very cruel, but also does not allow this to do, many couples or couples because of work or family and other reasons, can only be separated by two places, that is, the so-called "long-distance love" or "long-distance couple", even if sometimes miss each other very much, very much want to see each other, there is no way to meet, not to mention other intimate contact, so only can all the love and affection for ta, all are pinned on the miss.
Especially when a female friend is missing a male friend, the heart will not help but want to contact each other, want to know where the other party is, and what things are being done, so they will always send messages to male friends, call male friends, to put it bluntly, female friends just want to chat with male friends, talk, the most important thing is that two people can flirt together, talk about love.
After all, in the end, the "love" thing has never been hidden, let alone covered, even for those more reserved female creatures, but sometimes, their expression of love for a person is often not so direct, especially in the aspect of confessing love to the man they like.
But don't forget, the so-called obscure expression of love is also a way of expression, but for those careless, or emotional intelligence is not very high male friends, it is often very difficult to understand, but for female friends the most commonly used way of expression is the obscure way of speaking, especially through the side of the two people chatting and talking to knock on the side of the male friend, to hint at the male friend.
Therefore, male friends should know that when a female friend dares to say these 4 sentences to herself, it actually means that women miss men too much in their hearts, that is, they are "flirting" with men, and they are confessing to men, don't understand!
"Come to me"
The writer Jian Wei wrote such a sentence in the "Private Room Book", if you ask me how heavy my thoughts are, not heavy, like the fallen leaves of an autumn mountain. Yes, especially in feelings, when a person misses another person to a certain point, to a certain realm, they want to see each other immediately, they can touch each other, and even a quarter of an hour of time does not want to delay and waste. After all, for two people who have fallen into love, it must be the kind of scene where the two can hold hands together, shoulder to shoulder, and hug each other face to face, which is the most desired and most expected thing in the heart.
Especially when a female friend falls in love with a male friend, has a true feeling for a male friend, and is a male friend in her heart, of course, the female friend is very much looking forward to seeing the male friend, looking forward to the male friend can immediately appear in front of him. And the more female friends miss their male friends, the more eager they are to meet their male friends, and the more impatient they are.
Therefore, male friends should understand that when female friends open their mouths and say to themselves, "Come to me", it is enough to show that the female friends' hearts have missed male friends to an extreme, and they no longer want to endure the feelings and misses of male friends. To put it bluntly, female friends only want to meet male friends, want to be able to have close contact with male friends, want to be able to hide in the arms of male friends, so that male friends can hold themselves tightly, only by doing so, female friends have a full sense of security in their hearts.
Maybe in the dreams of female friends, male friends have appeared countless times, or male friends have found female friends countless times, but after all, it is just a dream. Once the female friend wakes up from sleep, the moment she opens her eyes, she will fully understand that it is just a dream, and she will be lost at once, even if there is still a trace of satisfaction in her heart, after all, how happy it is for two people who love each other to meet each other in the dream.
That feeling makes people feel very happy and real, in the end, female friends are missing male friends, just wanting to meet male friends, and hoping that they can really meet men, not just in dreams.
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"What are you doing?"
In real life, two people who love each other can not accompany each other, miss a person's emotions will gush into the heart, even in the bottom of the heart will continue to ponder and consider, now at this moment where the other party is, and what things are being done, there will be a variety of ideas and pictures in the mind, and can't help but want to pick up the phone to send a message to the beloved, or call the ta, is just listening to the other's voice is also good.
So male friends should know that when a female friend sends herself "What are you doing?" "When, it is enough to prove that female friends miss male friends, in fact, the heart of female friends has been hesitating for a long time, whether to contact male friends, whether to send this message to male friends, but female friends are afraid of disturbing male friends, at the same time they miss female friends very much, so they hold the attitude of trying it out, ask what male friends are doing, ask female friends what they are busy with, if male friends work really very busy, then, Then female friends will no longer bother male friends.
Do not underestimate this simple 4 words, in fact, it contains a lot of female friends for male friends, as well as the meaning of admiration, and female friends will deliberately pretend to be calm as water on the surface, and do not show their inner miss for male friends like a turbulent spring, to know that women are like water, the feelings of missing men will also flow slowly like babbling water.
At this time, it is often a very test of male friends, and perhaps some male friends with more delicate personalities can feel their deep miss for themselves, but some male friends with more careless personalities cannot feel their feelings for their own thoughts, and even do not take the sentence sent to them by the other party as a thing.
"It's Dark Again"
Li Shangyin wrote in "Le You Yuan": The sunset is infinitely good, but it is near dusk.
How to say, in the feelings, when a female friend falls in love with a male friend, when the heart contains each other, but can not accompany their beloved man, female friends will suddenly feel that time passes quickly, but also sigh the passage of time, to put it bluntly, ta is to miss male friends, how much I hope that male friends can accompany themselves, can be with themselves tired.
However, the reality is that male friends not only can not accompany themselves, but also may spend the whole day alone, the so-called sun sunrise and sunset, eyes closed and open, a day's time is given so much.
So you male friends should know that whenever a female friend sends this "the sky is dark again" message, it is enough to prove that the female friend is deeply missing the male friend in her heart, and in the days when there is no male friend around her, the female friend will not only feel lonely and unbearable, but also feel very sad, especially at night, the female friend's heart is as dark as the night, and she does not feel any light.
Female friends do not like to come down from dark, and they are a little worried about the coming of the night, after all, once the night comes, it means that the missing feelings of female friends for male friends will become more and more fierce, and they will become more and more unable to resist. Especially for female friends who are missing male friends, they often prefer daytime, because during the day, they still have work or work to do, so the miss for male friends can still be covered, and their energy can also be dispersed by some work.
However, whenever the night comes, when the night is quiet, the female friend's inner feelings of missing the male friend may no longer be able to cover up, and in turn will be deeply surrounded by all the missed emotions, and even engulf his entire soul, which will inevitably make him feel a little painful.
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"Time is so slow"
We all know that whether it is love or marriage, lovers who love each other can accompany each other, and they will always feel very happy and sweet in their hearts, and they will always feel that the time between two people will pass very quickly, and even directly want to freeze the time, so that the two of you can always be tired and crooked together, and you can always enjoy the sweetness and happiness of the two-person world.
On the contrary, once two lovers who are in love with each other cannot be together and cannot accompany each other, they will feel that time passes very slowly and there is no meaning, and they will try to pass their boring and boring time alone.
So you male friends should know that whenever they receive this "time is so slow" message from female friends, it proves that female friends are secretly thinking about you in their hearts, she is not only lamenting their boredom, lamenting that time passes very slowly, the most important thing is that they feel lonely and lonely alone, there is no male friend around the day, every day female friends are very boring and boring, and they don't know how to pass the time at all.
And how female friends hope that the days can pass a little faster, their time can pass a little faster, that way, they can also meet with male friends as soon as possible, you can talk to male friends about the feelings of missing each other, admiration, you can also do some intimate contact with male friends, such as two people holding hands together, hugging together, and even kissing, etc., just think about it is very sweet and happy!
Faye Wong has such a classic lyric in the song "I Do": "Missing is a very mysterious thing, like a shadow, silent, haunting the heart." ”
In the final analysis, in the process of interpersonal communication, a woman who likes a male friend, has a true feeling for a male friend, and is deeply missing a male friend in her heart, will look forward to meeting male friends every day and meeting male friends.
After all, to tell the truth, sometimes with more sweet words, no matter how much honey love words, can not alleviate the pain of lovesickness in their minds for their beloved, but also can not express their own inner love of all the miss of their beloved, only when two people meet and embrace each other, can they heal each other's heartbreak, can heal each other's thoughts.
To know that in real life, every female friend's heart is still very eager for love, and they all hope that they can meet such a good person, not only do they really love themselves, but also have themselves in their hearts, and they can accompany themselves, they will not always let themselves be alone, they can only miss each other endlessly, and then two people can work together to grow old and accompany this life.
Therefore, male friends, when you feel the miss of female friends, you must know how to comfort and comfort female friends, if you can, try to take more time to accompany your beloved, give each other a little more care, give each other a little more warmth, let each other enjoy some of the sweetness of love, let each other enjoy some of the happiness of love, I believe she will give you back more abundant care, warmth and love.
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