Author: Uncle Bei
How to get to know a man quickly?
Flip through his phone.
As a necessity of our lives, mobile phones not only record the truest appearance of each person, but also hide some secrets that they do not want to be known.
And the man's mobile phone hides 3 such secrets, through them, you can interpret whether this man is reliable or not.
The person he loves the most
When a man falls in love with someone, there must be a lot of traces of the loved one in his mobile phone.
For example, salutation.
He would use affectionate words to address each other because he felt that the names of others were only used to distinguish "who he is", but the nickname for the loved one was to tell himself "who she is me".
So in his notes, any strange word can appear, and the only thing that doesn't appear is the full name of the other party.
Another example is the number of contacts.
The depth of a man's love for someone lies in the number of times they contact each other.
In his WeChat, the number of chats between the two must be the most frequent, and in the call with everyone, the two must be the longest.
In addition to these two obvious traces, it is also possible to pull out the photo of the person from the album and find information about her in the memo.
Love is the desire to hug when we meet, and we will miss it when we are separated.
And the way a man misses someone is by putting the other person in his phone.
So, if you find all of the above information about you in his phone, then you can rest assured that he loves you.
But if you can't find any trace of your presence, no photos, no notes, and little contact, then there's no doubt that you're not the person he loves the most.
After all, there is no you in what he carries closely, so how important can you be to him.
His private life
A man's cell phone is like a diary, silently and calmly recording his private activities, private and authentic.
If you want to understand what a man's real life status looks like, then you might as well take a look at his phone.
If this man's private life is clean, then his WeChat contact list must be full of family, friends, and colleagues.
The mobile phone is not a takeaway phone, work information, or various banks, companies sales sms. On the desktop, there are also mostly financial, video, information and other software, simple to boring.
But if it is a person with a restless private life, then the information in his mobile phone is wonderful.
People who like to seduce their sisters will have a lot of contact information for strange girls on their mobile phones, and there will be various types of dating software on the desktop;
Gamblers will download a variety of gambling software on their mobile phones and receive different loan collection information.
If you do find these situations above, be sure to be wary of this man.
A man whose private life is so messy is either frivolous and casual in his feelings, or he is depressed and eager for success.
It's dangerous to be with a man who doesn't have a sense of responsibility in him and not only fails to give you the happiness you want, but can also drag you into the abyss together.
Love, be sure to ask whether the value is worth it, do not moth fire, to stop the loss in time.
His future
Someone said:
"Working within eight hours determines our social role and professional status, and living outside of eight hours determines what kind of person we can become."
Deeply.
How a man uses his phone outside of work will also determine his future achievements a lot of times.
There is one feature on our phones: Screen Time.
Inside it shows the daily screen usage, and the time spent on each software, down to the minute.
If the above shows that he spends more time on work-study software, then it means that he has been learning new skills and improving his work ability.
Because he knows that the times are progressing, only by allowing himself to continue to grow can he adapt to future changes.
Such a man, I am not sure that he will be rich and wealthy in the future, but at least the strength he has accumulated can ensure that he is not eliminated by society.
But if you spend time on entertainment software, such as playing games and brushing videos, it can at least show that this man is not self-motivated.
It's not that you can't have fun, but you can't have fun all the time. Even if you free up time to spend time with your family and children, at least you can have a happy and harmonious family in the future.
If you only want to enjoy the moment and only want to immerse yourself in the online world, then this man must only be able to spend this life in mediocrity, and even have the possibility of being abandoned by the times.
People must do something in order to do something, and a person who stands still and does not think of making progress will certainly be difficult to protect himself in the future.
Of course, to get to know a person comprehensively, it is not enough to look at the phone. But it can at least provide us with some reference and help, so as not to let ourselves be in the dark and unable to see the truth of the matter.
At the same time, women must also understand that no matter how much they love, they must remain sober and leave a side for themselves.
When people are not ladylike, stop losses in time, and give up decisively if they are not good at knowing people.
Love is expensive, don't waste it on people who don't deserve it.