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In the journey of life, there are many people who do not understand love when they leave this world!
What is love?
First of all, we must be clear about the connection and difference between like and love.
Liking a person is a superficial manifestation of feelings, simple and direct, showing a desire for control and possessiveness;
Love is the inner expression of feelings, implicit and indirect, showing reason and euphemism.
Like is the premise of love, love is the evolution of the feelings of like! Like short and rough, love is long and gentle!
Why is the divorce rate so high in today's society? It is because many people just stay in the like stage and rush into the palace of marriage, resulting in a short period of like emotional flame extinguished, the two no more lit matches, except for divorce, there is no other way!
Liking a person is just liking her strengths, loving someone requires loving her all!
After understanding the definition of love, what is a good love?
It is not Qiong Yao's life that you do not marry, nor does it not marry Ru, nor is it that you die in the TV series, and I will not be separated in my life!
All of these are sensationalistic gimmicks that infect readers and viewers, but they lead to many people's wrong understanding of love!
In fact, the beautiful love in life should have four characteristics:
1. Be excited when you first see it!
When you see a person and suddenly feel that you are overwhelmed and have no way to breathe, then you must be in love with the other person.
Even if there is no love at first sight, at least there must be an eye rim, think that the other party is not bad, at least not annoying, not exclusive!
"If life is only like the first sight", you can see the beauty of the first sight and the simplicity of liking!
High-rise buildings are flat, like is the cornerstone of love, there is no cornerstone paving, there is no follow-up love wonderful!
2. Be appreciative when you meet!
After the heartbeat of the first sight, people who like each other enter the stage of acquaintance.
People are fond of the new and tired of the old, and simple love of emotions can easily fade with time. At this time, after contact with each other, the advantages of each will be revealed!
Be good at discovery, but also be good at performance, each other appreciate each other's advantages, worship each other's abilities!
At this time, the two are sweet in each other's eyes, and it is also the most beautiful picture of love!
3. Be tolerant after knowing each other!
After going through the stage of hot love, we have come to the cooling off period of each other!
No matter how sweet the candy is eaten, it will be tired, and no matter how beautiful the scenery is, it will be boring for a long time! What's more, no one is perfect, and everyone has their own shortcomings.
This time is also the stage of high divorce rate, because each other magnifies the shortcomings of the other in their eyes!
And beautiful love is to know how to tolerate, to accept, to know how to love each other's everything, of course, including her flaws!
4. Be a bland one!
Many loves can withstand the wind and rain, but they can't stand the blandness, because they have not seen through the true meaning of love!
The true meaning of love is not the brilliance of blooming, nor the surging of passion, but the plainness of keeping each other!
Love always belongs to life, and life is chai rice oil and salt, parents are short, filial piety and long children!
Love must ultimately come to responsibility, and responsibility is to resist temptation, not to abandon, to support to the end!
Born lonely, short and long!
And it is this beautiful love that fills the emptiness of the heart, fills the intake of nutrition, and confirms the meaning of this life!
If you understand it, you will understand it! When you understand it, you will be complete! If you are complete, you will be satisfied!
Finally, I wish you all who have finished reading this article, know each other and be happy!
Little hands a little attention, thank you!
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