Find, find a friend, find a good friend, salute and shake hands, we are good friends

The Language of Love -------- the Ability to Develop Friendships, Learning "Intimacy" Awareness Sharing, January 20, 2022

Find someone to marry, experience life in chai rice oil and salt, a place of chicken feathers, our ultimate goal is to become good friends. Being a good friend is much more comfortable than being a wife and husband, because there are not so many expectations, and my good friends and I will have our own boundaries and will not often quarrel because of differences. To be a good friend is to spend time together, to do what your good friend wants you to do for him, to give a good friend time to get along, to praise a good friend, to support and help a good friend, to give a good friend small gift and to hold hands and hug more.

I reflect on how much I and my good friends can do in these five languages of love. The first is one-on-one time together, since having children, almost nothing, my life is either to work or with children or a family of three, two people get along with too little time. It seems that two people have never gone to see a movie together since they got married, maybe they have to arrange it. The second compliment, this I will remind myself every day to find good qualities to praise my good friend, I am also always reminding myself to do it, not to mention my good friend. Praise also persists.

Third service, in the past 2021, my good friend had a minimally invasive surgery and rested for a whole year, I felt like I was doing my best to support him and help him, hoping that he could receive my love. Fourth, small gifts. I kept thinking that I was going to give him a small gift on New Year's Eve to surprise him, but when I thought about it, thinking that the Lunar New Year was coming, I still couldn't think of any gifts. Because he had never given a gift before, and he didn't know what gift he liked. Think again

Fifth, physical contact. Taking advantage of the sunshine, we recently went to the park for a few picnics. The child ran in front, the two of us dragged hands and followed behind, and I did receive a lot of love.

Whether it is a good friend, or a husband and wife, I think it takes time to accompany, constant praise, heartfelt support and help, and occasional small gifts and sincere hugs, remember these five love languages, we can handle our interpersonal relationships.