The most comfortable mode of getting along is not to call every day and chat every day, but to reply naturally after you send a message and the other party sees it.
You won't be crazy because the other person didn't reply right away, and the other person won't be ashamed that they didn't reply in time.
This is mutual trust and mutual concern.
Don't disturb those who refuse to take care of you, because in the end it is only yourself who will be hurt and uncomfortable.
No one likes loneliness, but sometimes loneliness is more reassuring than disappointment and alternating hot and cold.
NO.1
If you call someone, call one, and the TA doesn't answer, you don't call again, and the person who has you in mind will call the phone at the first time.
If you send a WeChat message to a person, the TA has not returned, you will not send it again, people who really care about you, see your message, will immediately give you a reply.
People who won't pay attention to you, you don't have to ask the ta why, or feel that you're not doing it well yourself, it's not that you're bad, it's that the TA doesn't like it.
This is the case in the world, even if you are good, there are still people who don't like you and don't want to take care of you, even if you are bad, there will still be people who want to hold you and treat you as a treasure.
NO.2
Someone who doesn't like you, don't force him.
When you go to find him again and again, get snubbed again and again, and pull out your heart again and again, you yourself feel very mean, and your heart is also very uncomfortable, in fact, why do you have to beg for food.
NO.3
Loving someone can be humble to the bone, but not down to the dust.
Yes, in a relationship or a relationship, no one is right or wrong, and love itself is not wrong.
But just because I love you doesn't mean I'm so humble and so lowly.
Yes, we can love, let go to love, and love bravely, but don't let yourself lose your dignity, don't lose yourself in love, and don't let love lose its self-esteem.
NO.4
On the road of life, you often have to experience a lot of unpleasant things, do not cling, attachment will not have good results, or even no results.
The path of life often has to experience a lot of unpleasant things, the world is very big, there will always be someone suitable for you.
Abandon the humble love of the moment, do not indulge in this painful love, let yourself suffer, and look for love or friendship to make people happy, not sad.
NO.5
Don't bother people who don't want to contact you, because there are always behaviors that will chill you.
Always in an instant, let you suddenly die of discouragement, let you suddenly break your heart;
There is always a tone of voice that makes you suddenly sad;
There is always something that makes you see a heart clearly when you are not careful.
Don't look too highly at your position in the minds of others, perhaps the other party does not value you very much in their hearts.
Sometimes the more you give, the easier it is to be looked down upon.
NO.6
No one cares, learn to turn around. If no one loves, you should know how to give up.
For things that do not belong to you, do not covet the scenery that is not in your life, maybe as soon as you turn around, you will encounter more beautiful scenery.
Don't be born to please anyone, leave yourself a little arrogant.
You never have to deliberately please each other.
There is no need to wait for the injury to know that you have to leave, the scratcher scrapes out a "thank you" word to stop, do not have to scratch the four words "thank you for patronage".
In short, don't disturb those who don't want to pay attention to you, your enthusiasm can only bother them and disappoint you.
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