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Qu Ying and her mother Ding Jiazhen
Qu Ying is a well-known international supermodel, actress and singer, who has been popular from the 1990s to the present. Her brother Qu Yali's fate was very different from hers, he had been laid off, sold insurance, divorced, and thought of committing suicide because of depression, and a series of troubles in life were caught up by him.
Qu Yali was born in 1968 in Changde City, Hunan Province, and is 54 years old this year.
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Qu Yali has been introverted since childhood, not good at words, simple thinking, and easy to believe people. And Qu Ying is bold and bold, dare to say and dare to do. Qu Yali is three years older than his sister, but it is his sister who protects him from childhood.
As a child, Qu Yali was with his mother and sister
When Qu Yali was a child, he and his sister lived in Changde with his mother Ding Jiazhen, and his father Qu followed him as a well-known actor in the Hunan Provincial Flower Drum Drama Theater, working and living in Changsha for many years. Therefore, Qu Yali rarely saw his father when he was a child.
Father came back once in a while, either out drinking with friends or fishing, and Mom stumbled with Dad for this, which laid a hidden danger for their marriage.
Qu Yali was born with a good voice and can sing tenor. Qu Ying's literary and artistic talent is even more outstanding. In 1986, Qu Yali and his sister went to apply for the Hunan Provincial Art School, and the brothers and sisters took a long-distance bus to Changsha.
Learning from his father that the annual tuition fee of the provincial art school is 1500 yuan, Qu Yali's heart suddenly dimmed. Mom and Dad both live on wages, and they have to support the elderly on both sides, and they can't afford to go to art school with their sister at the same time.
Qu Ying and her brother Qu Yali
So Qu Yali did not enter the examination room to take the exam, and sat at the school gate waiting for his sister. Qu Ying came out after the exam and asked his brother, "How did you do in the exam?" Qu Yali said darkly, "I didn't go in for the exam." ”
Under the questioning of his sister, Qu Yali said the reason. Qu Ying wept sadly.
In 1986, Qu Ying was admitted to the provincial art school, and Qu Yali went to a technical secondary school in Changde. Two years later, Qu Yali graduated from the technical school and entered the Changde Machinery Factory as a worker.
In 1988, Qu Yali's parents divorced, and he and his sister chose to follow their mother.
Qu Ying
After graduating from the Provincial Art School, Qu Ying was assigned to work as an actress in the Hunan Provincial Drama Theatre. At that time, there were few dramas in the troupe, Qu Ying had nothing to do all day long, and she felt that her beautiful years could not be wasted like this, so she went to the Beijing modeling industry to develop.
When she first arrived in Beijing, Qu Ying lived in a bungalow and ate the cheapest box lunch. Qu Yali works in a machinery factory and his salary is not high, but he often sends money to his sister.
In 1998, the machinery factory closed down due to poor efficiency, and Qu Yali was laid off. At that time, Qu Ying had become a popular model and singer all over the country, and her mother asked her if she had any acquaintances and whether she could help her brother find a job in Changde.
Don't look at Qu Ying as a big star, but she only has a few friends in the circle such as singer Xin Xin, does not know anyone outside the circle, and has no ability to help her brother find a job. And finding a job isn't that easy.
Therefore, Qu Yali entered an insurance company in Changde to sell insurance. Those complicated insurance terms, Qu Yali memorized well, word for word.
Young Qu Ying and his brother
Every morning at 8 o'clock, Qu Yali went out to sell insurance with his bag on his back, and often stayed busy until 9 p.m. to go home. He was honest and never said a word of exaggeration. Sometimes when a peer sells insurance, he says something ambiguous, and he will point it out on the spot, so that colleagues can't get off the stage.
As a result, some colleagues began to isolate him. Qu Ying introduced that her brother had sold several insurances among acquaintances, but Qu Yali himself did not sell a single insurance.
Later, he asked his sister and mother to buy one each. Qu Yali also wanted to go to his relatives' homes to sell insurance like his colleagues, but the relatives avoided him.
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In 1998, Qu Yali got married, and his wife was from rural Changde and had no job. His matrimonial house was bought by his sister and his mother.
In the second year after marriage, Qu Yali's son was born. His income at the insurance company was getting lower and lower, and he simply couldn't support his family.
Ding Jiazhen
In 1999, Qu Yali voluntarily left the insurance company. In order to help her brother, Qu Ying asked her brother to come to Beijing to work as an agent for herself. Qu Yali is not good at words, does not know how to deal with people, and simply cannot adapt to the work of an agent.
As soon as he heard that he was going to negotiate a contract with the performer, he was nervous and broke down. In this case, Qu Ying had to let her brother return to Changde.
In 2003, Qu Ying sponsored her brother to open a small clothing store in Changde, and Qu Yali handed over his son to his mother to take care of, and he and his wife sold clothes in the store.
At first, everyone heard that Qu Ying's brother and sister-in-law opened a clothing store, and they all rushed to join in the fun, wanting to see what Qu Ying's brother and sister-in-law looked like.
As Qu Ying's celebrity effect dissipated, the clothing store's business became worse and worse, and sometimes it could not sell a single piece of clothing for several days.
Qu Ying's siblings and mother
In 2005, the clothing store closed down, which hit Qu Yali hard. He shut himself in his home all day and did not leave the house, and his wife went to work in a shopping mall to earn a meager income to support the family.
Qu Yali has a tendon and a very general IQ, Ding Jiazhen is worried about his son doing stupid things, and every day he holds his grandson to see Qu Yali. She tiptoed to see her son lying on the bed eating biscuits through the window glass, and then she relaxed her mind.
At noon, Qu Yali did not want to go to his mother's house to eat, and Ding Jiazhen had to send the meal after making it. This kind of life has brought great troubles and pressures to Ding Jiazhen.
Learning from her mother about her brother's current situation, Qu Ying's heart was scorched, and if her brother continued like this, her sister-in-law had to divorce him.
In 2006, Qu Ying funded his brother with a sum of money to open a beauty salon in Changde. Competition in this industry is also extremely fierce, Qu Yali's beauty salon has never won a profit, and it closed down in 2007.
Qu Ying and her mother
Some business partners felt that Qu Yali was Qu Ying's brother and that the funds were not a problem, so they pulled him together to do the health product business. The wife firmly disagreed and quarreled with her husband at home.
She also told her mother-in-law about this, and Ding Jiazhen came over to enlighten her son: "Are you the material for business?" Don't toss it, honestly go get a job. ”
Qu Yali was bent on doing the health products business to turn around, he couldn't listen to it at all, he hid his mother and wife to call his sister to borrow money, and woven a lie that he was forced into debt by the creditor, and if he did not pay off 100,000 yuan within two days, the other party would cripple him.
Qu Ying was in a hurry and quickly got in touch with her mother.
Ding Jiazhen did not expect that her son would weave such a lie, so she told her daughter the truth. Qu Ying resolutely opposed her brother from doing business again and did not start a fund for her brother.
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Qu Yali was in a bad mood, often lost his temper at home, and the husband and wife quarreled continuously. In October 2008, Qu Yali divorced and his son lived with him.
In fact, from childhood to adulthood, Qu Yali did not have any heart for his son, it was Ding Jiazhen who brought up his grandson with his own hands.
His career was not going well, and he suffered the blow of divorce, and Qu Yali suffered from depression. Twice, he revealed the idea of jumping into the river to commit suicide, which scared his mother enough. Qu Ying returned to Changde to accompany his brother for a period of time, sent him to see a doctor, and let his brother receive medication.
In 2011, Qu Yali's depression basically recovered. It was also in this year that Qu Yali remarried, and his wife was a rural woman with no job. They didn't have any more children after marriage.
Qu Ying sponsored her brother and sister-in-law to open a small photo studio in Changde. After experiencing the hardships of life, Qu Yali became mature and rational, and waited in the store all day long to wait for customers.
Teacher Ding Jiazhen (front row, third from left) with her art troupe
Ding Jiazhen is the leader of the Changde Silver Age Art Troupe, and often leads the team to perform in the province. Qu Yali went with the group many times to take pictures and help them set up the stage.
Who knew that in 2019, Qu Yali's depression recurred, and he also suffered from high blood pressure. He was emotionally unstable, often dizzy, and no longer able to run the photo studio.
In the autumn of that year, Qu Yali transferred the photo studio. After that, he recovered from illness at home, and his wife went outside to work.
Qu Yali is Ding Jiazhen's only son, and the status quo of her son makes her cry with heartache, and Qu Ying is also worried about the fate of her brother.
Qu Yali's son was admitted to university in 2017, and he could not afford his son, but his sister and mother helped him raise him.
Qu Yali has no financial resources to nurse illness at home, and Ding Jiazhen is worried that her daughter-in-law has ideas, so she takes out 2,000 yuan per month from her pension to support her son's family.
Qu Ying and her brother
In January 2022, Qu Yali was 54 years old, and his depression was sometimes committed and has not been completely cured.
He has a high blood pressure, can't go out to work, and has been recuperating at home. His remarried wife showed rare patience and generosity and was always by his side.
But Qu Ying and her mother are very worried about Qu Yali's current situation, and they don't know where fate will push their brother in the future?
epilogue:
"Tasting Celebrities" Comments: The author is an old friend of Teacher Ding Jiazhen, who has twice visited Teacher Ding's home and met Qu Yali in the photo studio.
Teacher Ding is kind and enthusiastic, versatile and temperamental. When she led the author to eat dog meat hot pot, the customers in the store almost greeted her warmly, which showed her good popularity.
Teacher Ding's younger brother and daughter-in-law opened a flower shop in front of the gate of Changde No. 1 Middle School, and the author and Teacher Ding went to the flower shop. The sister-in-law has a good relationship with Teacher Ding.
Originally, Teacher Ding's retirement life was very happy, she had a retirement salary, good health, long-term teaching at Changde University for the Elderly, and was also hired as a teacher by many schools in Taoyuan County, but her son Qu Yali was her heart disease. She worries about her son's future.
Her son is only in his early 50s, his health is not good, and he has no source of income, so she does not know what will happen to his son's future life?
In the interview, I saw a mom's anxiety and heartache. Here, the author hopes that Qu Yali will actively exercise, cooperate with doctors, and strive for early recovery to eliminate the knots in the hearts of his sister and mother.
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