People live in the world, there will always be some people who are just episodes in your life, and between you, it is only a "one period and one meeting" relationship.
Just as when the other party comes and goes with you, just take advantage of you and want to get benefits from you, when the other party gets what he wants from you, or finds that he can't get what he wants from you, at this time, he will put on a cold face to you, say some cold words, and finally whisk away, leaving you with boundless loneliness and irreparable pain.
For such a person, when encountered, you can only blame yourself for "meeting people unladylike", but don't blame yourself too much, when you should let go, you must let go, and you must not deceive yourself, so as not to bring endless distress to your life.
In fact, this kind of person to you, is the "interlude" in your life, meet, learn to face the reality, when it is time to let go, you must know how to let go.
1. Failed your trust.
The reason why two people can have feelings is that they have paid their hearts and trusted each other.
It is not easy to establish a friendship, two people can recognize each other, trust each other, support each other, and be able to stand up to each other, so that the relationship between two people can be maintained for a long time.
Friends talk about morality, couples talk about loyalty, first of all, we must trust each other, if the other party does not know how to cherish, always do some perfidious things.
If the other party promises you that you can't do things, repeatedly deceive you, do things that can't stand you, will easily give up the love between you for personal gain, at this time, you should learn to face reality, when it's time to let go, don't stay nostalgic.
2. Don't think about your feelings.
The reason why two people have deep interactions together is because two people can respect each other, understand each other, and can bring some positive impact to each other's lives.
Two people can trust each other and help each other, one side has difficulties, the other party is generous and helpful, and they can share hardships and hardships, so that such a relationship can be maintained for a long time.
At the same time, the other party can understand your situation, can take care of your feelings, is willing to listen to your opinions, and treats you in the way you expect, rather than treating you with your own people and kidnapping you with morality.
It is precisely because the other party can be honest with you, can take into account your feelings, can give you some help in some urgent moments of your life, and he can listen to your words and is willing to accommodate you, which makes you feel very comfortable with the other party.
On the contrary, the other party is with you, always ignore your feelings, do not put you in your heart, often do something that makes you feel embarrassed, you have repeatedly put forward your own opinions to him, hoping that he can restrain himself, the other party is not willing to accommodate you, which makes you feel that he is too egotistical, it is simply difficult to get along, at this time, you should understand that you are two people after all, it is difficult to communicate for a long time.
3. Disrespect you and take advantage of you.
The maintenance of a relationship depends on two people to maintain together, each other should pay their time and energy for this relationship, and when necessary, it is necessary to share resources and information.
If the other party does not understand this, does not respect you, and asks you for it in the name of love or friendship, but he does not pull a dime on you, he does not take you seriously, which often shows that he is not rare in his heart and does not take you seriously.
At the same time, such a person who harms you and lacks empathy and altruism is not worth associating with, at this time, you should think for the long term, when you should let go, you should let go.