Two people together, whether it is to be friends, or to be lovers, the most important thing is to be sincere and relative, be honest with each other, accept each other, tolerate each other, respect each other, consider each other more, do some things for each other, and give each other more help when they encounter difficulties, only in this way will the relationship between the two people be maintained for a long time.
If the other party "does not know things", does not know how to create a sense of lifelong memory, always snubs you, ignores you, treats you as an outsider, and does not ask you; or he does not respect you, always aggressive, arrogant, and puts forward some excessive demands on you, which makes you feel very difficult.
At this time, you often have two choices: one is to speak out your dissatisfaction and ask the other party to respect you, otherwise you will "forget it"; the other is to go against the grain, humble and please the other party, and maintain a relationship that looks good on the surface.
Obviously, the first option is the right solution, at least, which will make you feel comfortable. Never try to please, do you know the people who treat you like this?
1. People who cheat on you repeatedly, who are not honest with you.
If two people want to have a back and forth, they need to trust each other, if there is no cornerstone of trust, whether it is friendship or love, it is difficult to maintain.
If the other party does not understand these things, it is always dishonest, dishonest to you, lies to deceive you, and repeatedly betrays your trust in him and disappoints you.
At this time, there is no need for you to trust him anymore.
Especially after the other party is untrustworthy, defend yourself, seek your understanding, you can give him the opportunity appropriately, if he does not cherish, then there is no need to come and go, he is difficult to trust, it seems "unreliable", there is really no need to communicate.
2. People who are inching forward and like to take advantage.
When two people communicate, if the other party knows how to respect you, he will be willing to be good to you, pay you something, when you encounter an emergency, he will come to your side, help you out of the predicament, the other party will treat you with all his heart, indicating that he is sincere with you, treating you as his own person, such a person is worth coming and going.
On the contrary, when the other party interacts with you, they do not know how to respect people, always want to take advantage of you, take your good for granted, and repeatedly squeeze you.
In daily life, he is always doing his own thing, harming your self-interest, for this, you have expressed dissatisfaction, but he always can't listen, the other party will treat you like this, indicating that there is no place for you in his heart, he does not care about you. Such a person is not worth associating with, even if you value the affection between you, there is no need to humble him.
3. Ignore your people and snub your people for a long time.
When two people are together, he can treat you as his own person, he will not see you outside, he will care about your life, when you are successful, he will applaud you, when you are frustrated, he will give you encouragement, and give you some help, say some heart-warming words to enlighten you.
After separating from you, he will pay attention to your affairs, often take the initiative to contact you, on some important days, he will always show something, the other party sincerely intersects with you, will release such a signal, such a person, is worth treating with sincerity.
On the contrary, when the other party comes and goes with you, he always snubs you, when you meet, treat you as a transparent person, do not want to chat with you, after separating from you, never take the initiative to contact you, the attitude towards you is extremely cold, he only contacts you when he needs your help, he does not contact you at all on weekdays, the other party will get along with you like this, obviously he did not treat you as his own, he is not rare to you.
Since the other party is not rare to you, there is no need for you to revolve around him and take him as the center of life, and there is no need to humble and please the other party, just because it is not worth it, don't understand.