Text: Wendy
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Hello everyone, I'm Wendy.
A few nights ago, when I was watching TV, I picked up my mobile phone and took a look at it, and found that a post suddenly went viral on the Internet - "Wang Bing ice collapsed the house."
Originally, there were already a lot of melons in 21 years, and when I saw similar news, I was not surprised, but the reason why Wang Bingbing collapsed the house still surprised me.
"The first exam of the fourth level only scored more than three hundred points, and it was not enough to pass."
"I fell in love with someone else when I was young, got married, and now I'm divorced."
What the??
In 2022, it is not even acceptable that you have not even taken the fourth level once?
Ever been in love, married, divorced again, so what?
Wang Bingbing's academic bully personality is collapsed, but she has not set up this person.
In 2020, Wang Bingbing once became popular with his sweet looks, and in the winter of that year, the video of Wang Bingbing eating fathead fish in a large iron pot in the northeast was only released for six minutes, and the number of hits exceeded 15 million, nearly 190,000 comments, and 2.8 million fans.
This speed is unmatched by any top star.
In November, the "Youth Study" was hosted by Wang Bingbing, which once led to the paralysis of the system.
Wang Bingbing, a CCTV reporter who once had unlimited scenery, collapsed overnight.
01
Wang Bingbing's example exposes only a common problem.
People always have unrealistic false illusions about the public figures they like.
When the public thinks that Wang Bingbing is "a scholar" and "pure", these false expectations will be projected on her, and under the cloak of absolute perfection, there will be no room for the slightest flaw.
This is the most common problem after the "lens saint effect" quickly spread.
In "The Ragtag", it is said,
"Whoever can provide them with illusions can easily become their masters; those who disillusion them will become their victims."
At this moment, Wang Bingbing is a victim.
Because I like Wang Bingbing's "pure" appearance, the background of graduating from a famous school, and the unrealistic expectations of the public have built a high wall for Wang Bingbing.
Wang Bingbing, who does not listen to a single bit of justification, but likes to be meticulously packaged.
When the public climbed over the high wall and saw a Wang Bingbing who was different from what they imagined, they began to loudly accuse and scold.
It's very unfair, very unfair.
Celebrities are also people, an ordinary person, not a perfect commodity.
When Liu Xiang became an Olympic champion, he was also famous for a while, but he played abnormally in the last competition, and walked down the altar lonely in a scolding.
If we like a person, we accept his imperfections, and we like not only this perfect him, but also a living person.
02
It should not be a blessing in disguise.
After Wang Bingbing was deeply pickpocketed by netizens, her growth process began to be understood by more people.
Wang Bingbing was born in a very humble small village in Jilin Province, with a poor family, and was forced by his family to quit school at the age of 19 and marry his relatives.
Unwilling to be driven by fate, she chose to escape.
Working as a waitress in the field, he lost contact with his family.
Finally, relying on self-study, he was admitted to the Journalism Department of Jilin University.
With excellent skills, he entered CCTV and became a resident foreign correspondent in Jilin Province, standing for seven or eight hours in an environment of minus tens of degrees, just for a few minutes in front of the camera.
She said, I especially hope that my experience is also a kind of enlightenment for everyone, maybe when you have a road, you are tired, you are tired, you just need to change the direction a little, the road over there, maybe there is a bigger storm.
Some time ago, there was a Ted talk that went viral across the internet:
Girls don't have to be perfect, they need courage.
Modern society has too many requirements and too many constraints on girls, so that women do not have full confidence to chase their dreams.
One study showed that men submit resumes when they meet 60% of the interview requirements, while women do not submit resumes until they reach 100% of the interview requirements.
Society's requirements for women are often conservative and withdrawn, and men are always encouraged to actively overcome difficulties and achieve their own breakthroughs.
In contrast, Wang Bingbing, who was born in the countryside, can have such a broad mind and courage, break through the shackles of fate, escape the fate arranged by his parents, and go to college.
From an ordinary girl, she became the host of CCTV, relying on her own efforts step by step to achieve herself.
Maybe she wasn't good enough, but she was trying to grow into a better version of herself.
Hopefully, next time, we'll all be more sane.
I also hope that Wang Bingbing believes that anything is difficult for me, as long as I work hard, I can shine.
Girls don't need to be perfect, they just need more courage to pursue their dreams.