Last summer, when I hurried to catch the bus bound for Funing, the bus had already started, and I quickly found my seat and sat down. My daughter likes to play with my aunt's little sister, so I won't let me take her over for the summer vacation. At this time, I have not been told, in the congested urban area to stop and go, with the driver one foot brake throttle switch gasoline smell from time to time into the car, everyone wearing a mask is even more uncomfortable, many people have begun to motion sickness, want to find a comfortable position to sleep on the destination. So everyone turned the backrest of the seat back and found a comfortable position to prepare for sleep. When I also tried to slowly adjust the backrest to the backward state, I felt that I had touched the person behind me before I could move much. Looking back, I saw a girl with short hair and glasses who looked like a student. At this point she was tiptoeing, leaning her knees back as far as possible so that I could have room to lean back. Because she sat in the last row of seats, she could not adjust, and the seats were a little higher than the penultimate row. This caused me to hit her knees as long as I had to sit back. She smiled shyly and slightly apologetically, which made me feel embarrassed. So I pulled the seat back until it was almost 90° to the cushion, and barely left her a little legroom, he smiled at me slightly, and I nodded in response. Since the back row can't move, pay attention to the front row. Looking at the big brother sitting in front of me, who was already snoring at this time, and then looking at the size of the big brother, I was interested in dismissing the idea of letting him put away the chair. This way, I sat quite depressed and couldn't sleep.
With headphones like this for nearly five hours, finally entered the Yancheng boundary, the destination is almost arrived, I breathed a sigh of relief, looked out the window, just wanted to stretch out, I saw that the outside did not know when it was cloudy, and it rained in a short while. And it's getting bigger and bigger, and I didn't have an umbrella when I went out. There are still ten kilometers to Funing, and the fatal thing is that this car is not a direct car. After entering Funing County, they will unload me. It's okay to put it aside, there will be a tricycle on the side of the road to bring people, and thirty yuan is almost for you to bring. Now it's pouring rain, and the tricycle is long gone. Just when I was sitting restlessly and panicking. The driver shouted: "Funing got off the bus and woke up, the front is here!" It's awesome. At this moment, I felt someone in the back pulling on my clothes, and it turned out to be the girl in the back row. At this point, she stood up, only to find that she was really tall, and it was no wonder that she would hit her legs. "You also go to Funing, see you haven't found an umbrella in your bag for half a day, my dad drove to pick me up, and he will let him send you back!" "What do you two ink, can't get down" The driver was already impatient.
"Dad, this is a friend I just met in the car, wait for you to send him down, it's raining so much!" When she got in the car, she said to her dad, "Howler! He looked back at me: "No, you are such a shy and introverted person, you have met friends in the car for a few hours, this is not like you, honestly," her father laughed. She directly reached out and twisted Her father's ear, "Hey hey, let you talk nonsense." "Poof!" I couldn't help but laugh. Don't make a fuss! Someone, under her father's request for forgiveness, let go of her hand, and saw that she and her father were friends. So she put it in the car, and to make some legroom for her, I sat down uncomfortably. "My girlfriend is really a good person!" He smiled and touched the wet hair of the co-pilot's daughter, which had just been wet from the two of them hitting an umbrella.
Then she said something that made me unforgettable, "You can't say it so tall, but he helped me before I decided to send him." However, before that he didn't know that it would rain heavily in Funing, he didn't know that you would pick me up, but he still made room for me, which was his aimless kindness to me. If it hadn't rained today, then each other would have been passers-by, and at best they would have thanked him in their hearts. In general, I have two principles when helping strangers: one is that the other person has helped me before, or I feel the kindness of the other person. Second, it will not cause too much trouble for yourself. "Well, go ahead!" His dad was interested. "Because I don't intend to reciprocate when I help others, even when I can." If I help anyone, the first will be very tired, the second will take up a lot of time, and the third when you help others for no reason, others will doubt your true intentions. Since helping unrelated people is more troublesome than beneficial, when helping strangers, I choose those who show goodwill to me at the beginning, so that even if helping others brings trouble, I will not regret it too much. If I leave him in the rain today, then I will feel guilty in my heart, after all, he has helped me without expecting anything in return. In addition, I assessed the risks of this help. First of all, in terms of safety, the safety risk in Dad's car does not exist. Second, since he got off here, it means that his destination is not far from here, at most about thirty kilometers. There won't be too much trouble, that's what I meant! Otherwise you see two more here in the rain behind you get off, why not take them with you. Maybe you want to take them, but they will think that you are going to ask them to charge a high fee, but also to explain, no mistake! "It really surprised me that a little girl in her 10s and 20 years old saw things so clearly and reasonably. His father smacked his lips, "When my daughter grows up, I don't have to worry about it!" ”
Oh, yes! When it comes to strangers, we tend to help out with kindness even if we are within our means. But when others show you purposeless kindness, we are often obligated to help. In fact, we can start with the subtleties, such as giving enough space to the back row colleagues when taking the shuttle. When taking the elevator, wait for colleagues who are arriving; give encouragement and support to team members in their daily work. In this way, you may meet your own nobles earlier, but with the help of them, it is a qualitative leap for us. Maybe you will wonder why others always meet noble people, but you are always unhappy. In fact, you have to ask yourself about this, are you a person who deserves the help of a noble person? If the mind is full of ideas of quick success and quick profit, even if there are really noble people will be scared away by you, in fact, to help others is to help themselves, but to do good deeds, do not ask about the future, our real nobles are actually ourselves.