From ancient times to the present, having children has been an extremely risky thing for every woman.
Pregnant in October, a childbirth, in this long gestational period, the slowly growing embryos continue to draw nutrition from the mother's body, but also bring a lot of harm and burden to the mother, the moment of childbirth is like a ghost door closed, severe pain and a variety of unknowable accidents can make people pinch cold sweat.
But all the pain of pregnancy will disappear the moment the child falls to the ground.
I have to sigh that women are weak, for the mother is just, when a woman becomes a mother, the energy she bursts out always makes people can't help but marvel.
Unfortunately, not every woman has the opportunity to become a mother, and many people take more risks for them to conceive a life for a variety of reasons.
For example, Wei Chunlan, a pocket girl who is only 93 centimeters, due to her natural disability, pregnancy and childbirth is a life-threatening thing for her, but in the face of the choice of birth or not, she did not hesitate to choose to give birth to her baby.
Unwanted pregnancy
Wei Chunlan was born in 1986 in Shuitou Village, Qiaoxian Town, Shanglin County, Nanning City, and the arrival of a new life should have brought joy and hope to a family, but her birth made her family unhappy.
It turned out that Wei Chunlan did not get the favor of God, and she was unfortunately diagnosed with "dwarfism" by doctors while she was still swaddling.
Her height is forever fixed at 93 centimeters.
In 2016, 30-year-old Wei Chunlan met her love for the first time, and she and her husband Li Xinqi met through a disabled QQ group.
Li Xinqi is very healthy, but short in stature, only 150 cm tall makes him very inferior, perhaps with the same disease, the two people chatted particularly speculatively, and soon ran and fell in love.
Although Li Xinqi is short in stature, he is quite handsome, and his personality is also very gentle, and he loves Wei Chunlan in every way and regards him as a treasure.
This sweet love was like a light in Wei Chunlan's life, and God finally took care of her once and sent her a true destiny. The two soon entered the palace of marriage.
Li Xinqi's family situation is not good, his father is old and has children, the two rely on each other for their lives, living a life of poverty. In order to reduce his father's burden, Li Xin dropped out of school in the second year of junior high school to go out to work, but due to his low education level, his work also hits walls everywhere, and he can't make any money at all.
The life of poverty did not cast a shadow on their feelings, Li Xinqi gave Wei Chunlan full of love, and Wei Chunlan also did his best to repay Li Xinqi's love.
Although she can't do heavy physical work, she will step on a stool to stir-fry vegetables, wash clothes, and try to share the housework, so that Li Xinqi, who has worked hard to support the family, can relax when he returns home.
The life and beauty of the two after marriage, like glue like paint, soon, the good news came, Wei Chunlan was pregnant!
For a pocket girl, pregnancy is difficult, which makes Wei Chunlan, who is about to become a mother, excited, but the doctor's advice is like a basin of cold water poured down from the head, making her feel cold.
Pocket girls are much shorter than ordinary girls, and their skeletons are relatively small, confined to their physique, and all organs of the body are in an incomplete state, just like children.
After successful conception, as the fetus grows up, it will compress the organs of the body, which is a great test for the mother's heart, liver and kidney function, if the reserve function of Wei Chunlan's heart, liver and kidney is relatively poor, it cannot withstand so many fluctuations, and there may be life danger during childbirth.
The doctor deduced that Wei Chunlan's physical state may not last more than 28 weeks, and it is difficult for the fetus to stay in the mother's body until full term, and the possibility of premature birth is extremely high.
And if Wei Chunlan's "dwarfism" is inherited, it is also irresponsible to let such a child be born.
Doctors and family members advised Wei Chunlan to remove the child.
The persuasion of the people around her made Wei Chunlan extremely painful, and the joy of pregnancy had not lasted long, was she about to say goodbye to this child who was connected to her bloodline?
For Wei Chunlan and Li Xinqi, this child is the best gift that God has given them, bringing her too much hope and joy.
"I have dwarfism caused by a 'genetic mutation.'"
Wei Chunlan firmly believes that the baby in her belly is healthy, and she does not agree with the idea that the child may inherit a dwarf.
In fact, in the Wei Chunlan family, there is no history of dwarf disease, the height of other people in the family is normal, and her dwarf disease is not inherited. When she was first diagnosed, her parents did not believe it, and took her everywhere to seek medical treatment, and finally had to accept the reality.
After thinking about it, Wei Chunlan made an important decision, even if she would pay more than ordinary people, or even take the risk of life, she still did not want to give up, she would fight to give birth to this child.
Seeing that Wei Chunlan was so determined, the doctor and his family were not good enough to say anything more, and the child stayed like this.
Dwelling rental housing
Fast forward to September 2017, Wei Chunlan has entered the 27th week of pregnancy, her stomach is getting bigger and bigger, and the pregnancy image is already very obvious.
The baby in the belly is particularly naughty, from time to time in Wei Chunlan's stomach to make trouble, turn over, stretch out the small arms and legs, make some movement to find a sense of existence, so that Wei Chunlan as a mother is happy because of these fetal movements.
The doctor told Wei Chunlan that if she could last until 32 weeks of pregnancy, then the development of the fetus would be better, and there would be no big problem in giving birth.
However, the growing belly is also on the verge of the limit of Wei Chunlan's body, the baby has been pressed to her chest, lungs, etc., making Wei Chunlan often difficult to breathe, she is facing a huge threat to life because of the baby in her belly.
Under the advice of the doctor, Wei Chunlan and her husband went to the big hospital in Nanning to seek medical treatment and wait for delivery.
Coming to the city, the cost of living increased a lot compared with when they were waiting for work in their hometown, which brought great economic pressure to the already poor couple, but in order to facilitate medical treatment, the two still gritted their teeth and settled down in Nanning.
They rented a rental house of only ten square meters in an urban village in Nanning, living in this small world, quietly waiting for the arrival of small life.
The rental house is very simple, the room is equipped with a bathroom and a cooking stove, there is a bed at the entrance, a table at the head of the bed, plus a table for eating, which is all the facilities in the house.
Although it is rare, it has filled the small space of the rental house.
Although this house is small, it is not cheap at all, and it needs a rent of 500 yuan a month, which is a big expense for Wei Chunlan and his wife, who have no stable income.
In order to survive in Nanning, Li Xinqi had to go out to do some odd jobs to support life in Nanning, but then Wei Chunlan would have no one to take care of.
Weighing it over and over again, in order to better take care of Wei Chunlan, her sister Wei Chunyan, who was working as a nanny in Nanning, quit her job to take care of her sister full-time.
In fact, there are many difficulties that the family needs to face, such as the large treatment costs that may be required for premature birth, the danger of Wei Chunlan's birth, the probability of fetal genetic dwarf disease, etc., these uncertainties are all pressed on the family.
Fortunately, so far, the baby has been healthy.
As soon as Wei Chunlan and his wife arrived in Nanning, they rushed to the Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region People's Hospital for a comprehensive obstetric examination, and from the ultrasound diagnosis report sheet, there was no obvious abnormality in the fetus.
This made Wei Chunlan's heart that had been hanging on settle down a lot.
Since having this baby, perhaps with hope and hope, Wei Chunlan has become more optimistic and strong.
Since she became pregnant, Wei Chunlan's physical pain and psychological pressure have been extremely great, but she seems to have forgotten all her troubles and sorrows, and she always has a smile on her face.
After a busy day, Li Xinqi, who returned to the rental house, always liked to hug Wei Chunlan, gently stroke her high and bulging belly, and look forward to the future together.
This is a quiet time for a family of three, whenever this time, all the stress and troubles are left behind, only the happiness of happiness.
The difficulties of Mr. and Mrs. Wei Chunlan attracted the attention of the media, and after being reported by newspapers and television stations, they received a lot of help from enthusiastic people in society.
The family's optimism in difficult circumstances has infected too many people. They are in darkness but still look forward to the light.
Safe production
The days of waiting for delivery, time flies by quickly.
In the blink of an eye, Wei Chunlan and his wife have been in Nanning for more than 1 month, and it has been a long time since the doctors deduced that Wei Chunlan's physical limit of 28 weeks has passed, and she even survived the 32 weeks that the doctor said that she could try to give birth, and came to the 35th week of pregnancy.
For Wei Chunlan, who is only 93 centimeters, this is a miracle.
The physical pain that followed was also increasing, torturing Wei Chunlan every day.
Her breathing difficulties became more pronounced, to the point where she had to go to the hospital every day for oxygen to save her tires.
The high bulge of her abdomen, which formed a huge visual impact with her petite figure, crushed her lumbar spine like a pain, and every step she took was difficult, even requiring a wheelchair, but she was still persevering.
Normal pregnant women give birth normally 40 to 41 weeks after pregnancy, and Wei Chunlan endures these inhuman tortures in order to make the child develop more fully and stay in the mother's belly like other babies.
At 37 weeks, the child has reached full term, and after carefully evaluating the child's development and Wei Chunlan's physical condition, the doctor decided to help her give birth to the child by caesarean section.
November 23, 2017, is the day of Wei Chunlan's production.
Early in the morning, the doctor methodically helped her to do various examinations, and this special birth was not only a huge test for Wei Chunlan, but also made the doctor who performed the operation nervous.
Wei Chunlan's whole person is very petite, the doctor can't get the pulse, the anesthesia needles and other medical devices that must be used for caesarean section are too big for her, and the doctor needs to have more consideration for the dosage and the way of anesthesia.
Most importantly, whether her childlike heart could withstand the fluctuations of surgery.
Before entering the operating room, Wei Chunlan personally signed the prenatal confirmation.
This confirmation is like her battle book against fate, she declares war on fate with great courage and perseverance, and will do her best to bring her baby to this colorful world safely.
At about three o'clock in the afternoon, Wei Chunlan was pushed into the operating room, her mother, husband, and sister were anxiously waiting at the door, about two hours later, the caesarean section was successfully completed, and a baby girl weighing 5.2 kilograms and 46 centimeters long was born, all indicators were normal, and it was a very healthy baby.
Wei Chunlan succeeded!
In the face of the safe birth of his daughter, Li Xinqi was full of emotions: "From love to pregnancy after marriage, we experienced unimaginable pressures for ordinary people, my wife is very great, she is so small, give birth to a little princess for me, I was very excited at that time"
When asked what name to give the child, Wei Chunlan's sister said excitedly: "We want to name her Li Enshan, that is, we are grateful that everyone has helped us so much." ”
In 2022, Wei Chunlan's daughter is 5 years old and is now attending kindergarten in the local area.
Every day, Wei Chunlan looked for a pick-up for her to and from school, and in the evening they would both wait for Li Xinqi to come home from work and have dinner together.
Even if her parents are mutilated in appearance, Li Enshan has not abandoned her parents in the slightest, and at a young age, she has deeply understood the difficulties of her parents, and often competes to help with housework.
The little broom was a little unstable, and Wei Chunlan and his wife watched the children have fun, so they went with her to see it.
When Wei Chunlan's deeds were first exposed, they were still criticized, and for those who held critical opinions, it was extremely selfish to give birth to a baby who may be genetically seriously ill at the cost of his life.
But parenthood is everyone's right, especially in the minds of many girls, love, marriage, and having children is a complete life, Wei Chunlan's baby is a continuation of her incomplete life, is the hope, is the future, is the gift of heaven, for the baby, she can risk her life, survive the painful and long pregnancy, desperately born.
The final result of the matter is good, Wei Chunlan's baby is very healthy, there is no premature birth and no genetic mother's "dwarf disease", and the mother and child are safe.
But this good result contains the painstaking efforts of Wei Chunlan's whole family and the love of society, without Wei Chunlan's persistence and patience, without the careful observation of doctors, without the care and support of family members, without the help and donation of caring people, this result is difficult to achieve smoothly.
Sources of Information
China Daily