"When the child had an accident, I was still giving people a massage. In order to make the living conditions of my children better, I left my children in my hometown and went to the big city to work as a foot technician. Tired but the income was OK. Unexpectedly, the child will have an accident. Xiao Yu, the son of Xiang Youqiong, accidentally fell into the oil pot when he was 3 years old, and in addition to his facial features, his entire head and arms were severely burned. Now he seemed to be covered with a layer of skin on the top of his head, his right ear had been cut off, there was no hair, and his scalp was crumpled like a ball of kneaded paper.
On March 22, 2017, a birthday party was held at the home of Xiang Youqiong's neighbor from Qijiang, Chongqing, and a pot of piping hot oil was temporarily placed next to the stove. 3-year-old Xiaoyu chased and fought with the children and accidentally fell into the oil pot. After the incident, looking at Xiao Yu lying in the hot oil moaning, everyone was frightened and dumbfounded, Xiao Yu's aunt rushed forward and pulled Xiao Yu out of the dangerous situation with her bare hands, and rushed to the hospital.
At that time, Xiang Youqiong and her husband were still working in other places, and when they heard the news of the child's accident, they rushed to the hospital like crazy. "When I saw Xiaoyu, the doctor was helping him treat the wound, and I will never forget that heart-wrenching picture." If he hadn't gone out to work, maybe Xiaoyu wouldn't have had such an encounter. At that time, Xiaoyu was like a skinned lamb, and his burned body kept flowing pus out. Although it has been a long time, Xiang Youqiong can't help but cry every time she recalls it.
"Xiao Yu, who was lying on the hospital bed at that time, had already dried her tears and was just staring at the ceiling." The burn area reached 65%, the breathing was once exhausted, and the doctor issued many critical notices, but Xiang Youqiong stubbornly insisted that as long as the child still had a breath, they would not give up. Three days later, Xiaoyu miraculously survived, his weak life wrapped in burned skin like a cocoon, and he was locked up, different from ordinary people. The first thing Xiaoyu said when he woke up was to shout, "Mom, don't go." (If you are willing to help your child, there are ways to help later)
Xiang Youqiong's mother's family is not well-off, leaving her hometown early to work in Chongqing, Henan, Tianjin and other places, running around the foot therapy shops as a foot therapy technician, helping people massage, foot massage shops have become her second "home" in these years. "When I first learned the craft, my fingers had a headache and couldn't bend down, I worked for more than ten hours a day, and I was so tired at night that I didn't even want to say anything. Sometimes I have to face all kinds of criticism, and occasionally drunken guests will use their hands and feet, but I have put up with it, only hoping to make more money and make my children live better in the future. ”
In 2014, Xiang Youqiong married her boyfriend and then had Xiaoyu. The couple left their children to the elderly and chose to go out to work. Every year, the New Year is the happiest day for Xiang Youqiong, and you can go home briefly to see Xiaoyu. After Xiaoyu was burned, Xiang Youqiong's family spent more than 900,000 yuan before and after, most of which came from the help of relatives and friends. Xiaoyu's later rehabilitation treatment costs are even more huge, his severe hypertrophic scars, is still in a primary stage, this scar hyperplasia is very severe, the speed is also quite fast, if the recovery is not complete, it will affect his joint activity and even his development.
After being discharged from the hospital, Xiaoyu became an outlier in the eyes of passers-by, and children of similar age jumped away from him "like a plague", and some stared at him from the beginning to the end. When children of the same age cry out to avoid this "alien", the young Xiaoyu who escaped from death fell into the abyss of inferiority. "He has low self-esteem, rarely goes out to play, because of the burns, he has some problems walking, and some children in the school will laugh at him and bully him." How to integrate into the new world has become the biggest problem.
Xiao Yu timidly asked Xiang Youqiong, "Mom, does my appearance look like a monster?" Xiang Youqiong touched her son's head and said, "Don't be afraid, the next time someone laughs at your scar, you will tell them that it is a burn." Xiao Yu blinked, "I also want to tell them that if you see the oil pot, stay away and don't get burned like me." ”
If you are willing to help the family, you can long press the identification QR code to view the project details and make a donation. If it cannot be recognized, you can save the two-dimensional code to the mobile phone album, open and scan, and select the two-dimensional code from the album to scan and identify. The project was initiated by the 9958 Children's Emergency Rescue Center of the China Children's Charity Aid Foundation, and launched the fundraising on the Internet fundraising information platform "Waterdrop Public Welfare" designated by the Ministry of Civil Affairs, and was responsible for the review, implementation and information feedback of the project. The final interpretation of the project belongs to the China Children's Charity Aid Foundation. Supervision phone: 400-006-9958
The "Photosensitive Project" bridges public welfare photographers, charitable organizations, and fundraising platforms, publishes pictures and stories of families in distress, and helps raise donations. The plan is a photo public welfare project jointly initiated by Today's Toutiao, the China Photographers Association, the China Children's Charity Relief Foundation, the Chinese Welfare Foundation, the China Social Welfare Foundation and other charitable organizations with public fundraising qualifications. If you have difficulties, you can send a private message to the official headline number of the "Photosensitive Plan".