After my son was diagnosed, I always took him to seek medical treatment in a strange city. Many people say that I am stupid, despite the opposition of my family, I have to treat my son with cerebral palsy, and spend so much money, it is better to take advantage of my youth to have another one. But my son is the flesh that fell from my body, and everyone gives up on him and I will not give up on him. No matter what he becomes in the future, I just want him to live well in this world. Thinking of my son, I couldn't control my tears any longer. The picture shows the mother Zhang Qinxiu sad for her son's illness.
My name is Zhang Qinxiu, I am 27 years old, from Dongchuan District, Kunming City, Yunnan Province. In the winter of 2014, I met and married my son's father, Wu Xingyao. In the hope of the family, I became pregnant. However, when I went to the maternity check-up once in the seventh month of pregnancy, because I took the bus bumpy, my son was born prematurely that night. At that time, the child was born prematurely and had difficult delivery and lack of oxygen, and the situation was particularly critical, but fortunately, his son Wu Guoxuan was still born. The arrival of his son has brought great happiness to the family, but who would have thought that bad luck was quietly coming. The picture shows Zhang Qinxiu holding his son back to the rental house.
When my son was 1 year old, I helped him learn to walk, and found that his heels could not touch the ground, and the deformity of his lower limbs became more and more serious. I didn't feel normal, so I took my son to the hospital for examination. I will always remember the day the child was diagnosed, and the medical certificate was written in black and white about cerebral palsy and compound deformities of both lower limbs. "How can a child have cerebral palsy?" I was covered in blood as if flowing backwards, and I couldn't help but cry bitterly. Why does my child get this disease? He was only born shortly after his death sentence was sentenced to "death" by a medical certificate. The picture shows the child's diagnosis certificate.
Doctors say rehabilitation treatment costs tens of thousands of yuan a month. "Those rehabilitation treatments are all scams for the rich, where do the poor have the money to do it?" In this case of our family, you have to raise your body and ask for another one. "Although my mother-in-law couldn't bear it, she still persuaded me to give up." You know this situation in our family, too poor to be cured. The husband said to me with red eyes and choking. My family did not agree to continue the treatment, so after two days in the hospital, I could only carry my son home. The picture shows the small national pine on the hospital bed.
The indifferent attitude of the family made me chill, but looking at the child's innocent smiling face strengthened my determination to cure the baby. Because I have no money, I can only teach myself some massage and rehabilitation knowledge, go to the clothing store to work odd jobs during the day to earn money, and come home from work at night to massage my son for rehabilitation. Every day is busy until late at night, and I can't stop for a day. I didn't feel a little bitter, so I looked forward to taking my son to treatment as soon as possible. The picture shows Zhang Qinxiu taking his son to recover.
In May 2019, his son's two legs were severely deformed and he could no longer stand up. I knew I couldn't drag it on, so I took a little money from part-time work and took my son on the train in Kunming alone. It was my first time out, and when I got to the hospital upstairs and downstairs I carried my son like a headless fly. I broke down and stood sweating profusely in the hospital hall with my son on my back, tears abounding. But my son's words made me particularly moved: "Mom, don't be afraid, I accompany you." "This is how we mother and son support each other in a strange city. The picture shows Zhang Qinxiu pushing the small national chamber ward.
The doctor told me that as long as I insisted on rehabilitation, my son could correct the deformity, which gave me hope. But the ordeal of rehabilitation training was beyond my imagination, because the muscle tone was too high, and my son would cry out in pain every time he rehabilitated: "Mom, I hurt!" Mom, save me! "What is more difficult is acupuncture treatment, and my son's head and body are full of long needles. Whenever he mentions acupuncture, his son will cry and have nightmares at night. Looking at my son's pained look, my heart was broken. The picture shows Xiao Guoxuan on a hospital bed wearing corrective shoes.
After more than a month of treatment, we spent the last penny of our money and had to take our son home. I walked out of the hospital gate with my son in my arms, and I couldn't hold on any longer, sitting at the hospital door and crying bitterly. The son had a hard time ushering in hope, and he was not saved when he was discharged from the hospital. The picture shows Xiao Guoxuan crying in his mother's arms.
I carried my son home and discussed with my husband: "The child calls you Dad, this is our flesh and bones." The doctor said that as long as you insist on rehabilitation training, you can restore your health. Such a cute child, how can you give up. Now is the critical period of his son's recovery, and there is no hope of delay. "I begged my family to continue to treat my son, and the guilty family finally agreed to continue to treat my son. The picture shows that after rehabilitation, Xiao Guoxun can already waddle and walk.
In July 2020, I took the borrowed money to take my son back to the hospital for surgery. After being hospitalized and examined, Xiao Guoxun was pushed into the operating room. When I entered the operating room, my son was very brave and did not cry, and when he saw me crying, he comforted me: "Mom, I am not afraid, you don't cry." I knew he was gritting his teeth when he said this, but his heart was particularly afraid. The picture shows the mother and son in the ward.
The operation was done for more than three hours, and after the son came out in tears, he said: "It hurts, it hurts." "Looking at my son's two feet full of steel needles, my heart is like a needle. My son was so sore that he couldn't sleep at all, so I watched over him at the hospital bed, hoping he would recover sooner. The picture shows Zhang Qinxiu teaching his son to recognize words.
After staying in the hospital for 27 days, we were discharged home with steel needles full of legs. Back at home, my son had to practice walking on his feet every day, and he wore a steel frame for three months and never slept a good night's sleep. I finally could remove the steel needle from my leg, and at that moment I thought that the child had finally survived, but the doctor said that the child would still have to wear corrective shoes. The picture shows the mother and son in the hospital who are in trouble because of the treatment fee. Original works, it is strictly forbidden to reprint in any form, infringement will be investigated! #Selfie My Story#@Selfie