Romain Rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, to love life after recognizing the truth of life. ”
The three major illusions of life, may you recognize them earlier and live more thoroughly.
Take yourself seriously
What people lack the most, the more they tend to show off.
People who are truly capable are often low-key and humble.
Zeng Guofan was a literati, but he could command 300,000 Xiang troops.
After pacifying the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, Zeng Guofan wrote a letter to the imperial court.
He ceded the head to Hu Linyi and the battle merit to the Green Battalion general Doron A.
And he himself did not dare to take credit at all, and even took the initiative to dismiss the Xiang Army, so that his younger brother also resigned and returned to his hometown.
Zeng Guofan understood a simple truth: one will achieve ten thousand bones.
Behind their own success, there are countless people's efforts.
Without these people fighting on the battlefield, he couldn't do anything.
Zeng Guofan often warned his descendants: "Modesty in heaven and earth is the way to carry blessings." Arrogance is full, full is pouring.
Modesty and low-key, in order to bring themselves blessings;
Pride leads to complacency, and complacency leads to evil.
Whenever and wherever you are, you should maintain a humble mindset:
The water is formed into a sea because of the good, and the mountain does not compete for height and becomes a peak.
Don't look up to yourself too much, take yourself too seriously.
One can be confident, but not arrogant; one can be wild, but not arrogant.
Don't be complacent when you are in good times, and don't be blindly inferior in times of bad times.
Not arrogant and impatient, maintain an empty cup mentality, in order to go steady and far on the road of life.
Make networking your skills
Confucius said: "A gentleman asks for himself, and a villain asks for everyone." ”
On the long road of life, isolation is the norm.
Many times, it is better to seek others than to seek oneself, and it is better to be angry than to be angry.
I am most afraid that you will do nothing, and comfort yourself with the ordinary and precious.
I am even more afraid that you have great ambitions, but let yourself waste time.
When things really happen, no one can be trusted unless you are useful.
Even if others can help you for a while, they can't help you for a lifetime.
Only by putting aside those flukes and taking every step down-to-earth can we embrace our own happy life.
Everyone has their own life problems:
Opportunities are won by oneself; fate is up to oneself to grasp.
Your greatest noble person is actually yourself.
Instead of bothering with networking, spend more time on yourself.
True connections are not stumped.
Only when they are at the same height can they carry each other.
It is often said, "If you bloom, the breeze will come." ”
When you work hard enough and are good enough, the whole world will choose to help you.
All successful people in the world will be willing to become your network.
Make money a small thing
The confidence of adults is given by money.
Making money is hard, but days without making money will only make it harder.
The most difficult thing in the world is to turn your palms upwards and ask people for money.
People are poor and inevitably have short aspirations, and the truth is that you will understand the lack of money once.
There is a saying in the Book of Fu Lei: "The more you despise matter, the more you need to control it."
To maintain your dignity, the independence of your personality, and the control of material things have become the most urgent and most needed prerequisites. ”
The economy cannot be independent, either look at the face of others or be wronged by yourself.
When people are shy in their pockets, the waist plate is not straight, and they are a little underwhelmed in speaking and doing things.
The reality is so cruel, the more you have no money, the easier it is to feel the malice of life.
Money is like an iron that irons the folds of life.
Your ability to earn money directly determines the level of education of your children and the quality of your parents' lives in their later years.
Rich people can buy whatever they want, wherever they want.
You have to be able to make money to make yourself a decent life and give your family a better life.
A person must be able to support himself, support his parents, and raise his children.
Then it is qualified to say: money is not everything.
To make more money is to leave a way out for yourself and your family.