The water is silent, and the people are steady.
People who are truly hidden, like a pool of deep water under a waterfall, have experienced the noise of life and then slowly become quiet. No one knows his depth, but it's prohibitive.
In the bustling world, everyone is eager to express themselves, hoping to become a person who is in the limelight, can talk on the stage, and people below the stage applaud themselves. It is a person's nature to love liveliness; to like quiet is a kind of wisdom and a strong control.
The truly hidden people, with these characteristics, are strong in life and deserve deep friendship.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >1. People who are hidden in the dark make money very low-key and make a lot of money in a muffled voice. </h1>
The old ancestors told us: "Wealth is not revealed." "If a person flaunts his wealth, or intentionally or unintentionally reveals that he makes money, he will be jealous and hit by others. Let's say you go on a tour with a large sum of cash, and halfway through, you always take the money out and count it over and over again. As a result, when you squeeze the car, you are targeted by pickpockets, and your money is missing.
My classmate Zhang Weimu was very poor when he was a child, so he was very inferior at school. Growing up, he rarely had contact with his classmates. At the last class reunion, we contacted Zhang Weimu's cousin and found his phone number. Several classmates called and invited him to a party, and he "reluctantly" rushed over.
Seeing Zhang Weimu again, he was still the same old man, he didn't like to talk, he just listened to everyone on the side, and he didn't even have the idea of interjecting. I sat down next to him: "Classmate Zhang, what have you been doing lately?" For so many years, I have not seen you join the group of classmates, nor have I revealed your life events. Zhang Weimu said: "I opened a toy factory in Dongguan, just a mess. ”
A person who can run his own factory is also called mixed days, then we migrant workers are "unable to go down". Looking at the class reunion, those students who talked about it seemed to be seen through at a glance, and what they said was difficult to distinguish between true and false, but most of them were false. Thinking about it this way, I admire Zhang Weimu who "mixed days". After graduating from college, he started as an ordinary worker, and then with his excellent knowledge, he did design in a toy factory, and later set up his own factory, and his life was prosperous. It's just that he has always seemed to have some "inferiority", and no one knows how much money he has made.
For money, if you can hide it deeply, your wealth will slowly accumulate. Being jealous is not a good thing, maybe others will become your "roadblock", and even be remembered by evil people. Even if there are more people looking for you to borrow money, you will be very embarrassed, and when you encounter people who borrow money and do not repay it, it will increase your troubles in vain.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >2. The hidden people are very deep in the city government and know how to judge the situation. </h1>
The city government is very deep, which means that a person's heart is many and unpredictable. People who really have no ability will let people see through it at a glance; people who have ability can't see through it, and no one knows his next move, what he has done before, and what he wants to do now.
People who are very deep in the city government, most of the time, show a lot of silence and don't like to talk. The ancients said, "Those who know do not speak, and those who speak do not know." "People who like to talk about it are actually like empty carriages, and they will expose themselves from a long distance, but others will know that there is nothing on the carriage as soon as they hear it."
People who are very deep in the city government will also express their opinions on some occasions, and his words are often "left and right", and will not target anyone or favor anyone. It can give people a feeling of "very reasonable", which is admirable. The reason why he can say such a thing is because he has seen through the current situation and pondered the minds of others. Especially in some troublesome things, he is always able to find a way to deal with problems with a keen sense, and he can also pay attention to some details. There is stillness in movement, thickness and fineness, orderly progress and retreat, and a degree of tension, which reflects that IQ and emotional intelligence are very high.
People who are very deep in the city government know how to judge the hour and size up the situation, and at critical times, they can find a way out and let themselves withdraw from trouble. For example, when other people argue endlessly, you are also involved in it and do not know how to be good. At this time, you keep quiet, do not speak, let others fight, and you may be able to "reap the benefits of the fisherman.".
Having a keen "observation" is really important, this year, "the heart of harming people must not be there, the heart of preventing people is indispensable", in the society mixed, you can not see the real situation, do not understand to start to act, or interact with people, it is easy to be used.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >3. Hidden people are very strong in their hearts and know how to tolerate. </h1>
The afternoon before yesterday, colleague Li Zhou was criticized by his superiors, and I thought that he would be furious when he came to the office, because this matter, from beginning to end, he was doing it alone, and there was no one to help. But this matter was not his share, but another colleague pushed him. The taste of "generations having suffered" is really uncomfortable.
Li Zhou returned to the office, still working silently as usual, talking well with his colleagues. After a while, colleague Xiao Zhao said: "Li Zhou, if you feel very aggrieved, then say it well, so as not to get angry with yourself." Li Zhou said: "The boss criticized me, that is, he did not see the truth of the matter clearly, the person who should be sad is him, why should I complain, to be angry?" ”
I really admire Li Zhou, who can calm down, do not care about the mistakes and blames of the boss, and will not find colleagues who shirk their responsibilities to explain and make noise. The past things, as long as you put it in your heart, needless to say, saying it is amplifying your own bad emotions.
The person who hides deeply, even his mood, you can't guess it. He rarely shows his mood and can hide things in his heart. As the saying goes, "The prime minister can hold a boat in his belly." "A man does not have a broad mind. You can tolerate others, but you can't tolerate yourself.
How many things in life, not all over the clouds, if you are entangled, it is looking for "uncomfortable", living a very painful life. It is better to tolerate everything, let go of what is destined to be unobtainable, give up meaningless, let go of others, and let go of yourself. Only by knowing how to let go can we have more energy to cherish what is worth having.
People who are deeply hidden can also be very self-disciplined, seize opportunities, adjust their mentality, turn in time, take it, and put it down. Such a person, you have to have a deep friendship with him, from his body, learn the truth of how to behave in the world, you can also communicate frankly, do not have to worry about being ridiculed, be falsely rumored.
In life, happiness is your own, savings are your own, you don't have to show off.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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