As the saying goes, "The gun strikes the first bird." A person who does not know how to hide himself, even if he has superhuman skills, will inevitably encounter the situation of "two fists are difficult to defeat and four palms", and he will eventually lose the battle. People who don't know how to hide their edges will not last long.
People say that "wood shows in the forest, and the wind will destroy it", which is the same truth. Trees that rise above the forest are always blown by the wind first; people with outstanding talents and character are always susceptible to jealousy and blame by others. Whether it is a person or a thing, it is inevitable that it will be "attacked".
In society, there are always some people who are openly confrontational or hiding in the dark to make bad, if there is no absolute strength to roll over, hard to hit, can only be a lose-lose situation. Know how to hide, dodge right and wrong, secretly exert force, four or two strokes, always win in the end.
01, deep hidden, free to retreat
As the saying goes, "Success is also Xiao He, and defeat is also Xiao He." "A man must be outstanding because he is outstanding; a man who is thrown into the dust must also be because he is too outstanding." Excellence is an inevitable prerequisite for achievement; excellence is also a necessary condition for the jealousy and attack of others.
A person who is sharp, always covers up the sharp edge of others, stands out from the crowd, and inevitably makes people feel jealous and resentful. In this society, not everyone will applaud you, and some people will applaud you, and they want you to fall into the abyss.
If you don't know how to "hide deeply", you are presenting yourself everywhere, it seems that others are complimenting and praising you, in fact, in the black field, it will make you bad and hinder your progress. Whether it is in the official arena or in life, selfishness in human nature, the idea of hoping that "others are not good for themselves" always exists, and there are many.
As a result, all kinds of open and secret battles and wars without gun smoke abound, you don't know that hiding is clumsy, you may hurt others at any time, and lay the "bane" for yourself. Others will give you a fatal blow when you are not paying attention, so that you will never be able to turn over.
People who can always win are always silently observing others, using the intricate relationships between people to use for their own use and waiting for opportunities. Hide yourself, let others be in the light, when danger comes, you can easily avoid it; when the opportunity comes, you can firmly grasp it.
02, deep hidden, humble and noble
Zeng Guofan said: "A man who has been self-sufficient throughout the ages is nothing more than a humble word. "Humility not only reflects a person's demeanor, but also reflects a person's noble character." A person who is aggressive and does not know how to be humble must be a person who is annoying and hateful. Such a person will only make enemies for himself on all sides.
An excellent person knows the truth of humility and convenience with others, so he will not be aggressive, and will always consider the feelings of others, so that the relationship between them can be harmonious, there will be no disputes, and even others secretly denigrate or make you bad.
Everyone has jealousy and pride in their own hearts. If a good person is arrogant to you, you will certainly be uncomfortable in your heart; but when he can be humble to you and give you respect, his heart must be happy, and he will not have bad thoughts about him.
Confucius said: "If you don't know your destiny, you can't think of a gentleman; you don't know etiquette, you can't stand up; you don't know what you say, you can't know who you are." "To be a person, you must know your responsibilities, you must know etiquette, and you must control your words." Since ancient times, the most important etiquette has been to lower your posture and be on par with others.
Do things in a down-to-earth manner, do not be proud of your achievements, and do not be self-righteous. When you are more "humble" than others, you can get the praise of others. Only when a capable person and a humble person can more people follow him and achieve more and higher achievements under the arch of everyone.
03, deep hiding, pure heart
Desire is the booster that pushes people into the abyss. The more desires, the greater the harm. A person who does not know how to "hide deeply" and puts himself on the table must also be a person who has a strong pursuit of desire. When talent and desire go hand in hand, the crisis comes.
A person who likes to show off, even if he has the ability, will not resist the temptation of desire and pursue many things that do not belong to him. The light of the sun needs the support of a huge amount of energy behind it. Flaunting talents and achievements also requires massive material support.
To have more material foundations, it is inseparable from the greed of human nature. Manifestation inevitably leads to covetousness, and covetousness is prone to failure. Even very talented people, in the face of desires, will inevitably embark on the road of no return in the end. If you don't know how to hide deeply, you can only push yourself into the abyss of desire.
People's lifelong pursuits are actually not many. If you can't strictly control your desires, you can only hurt yourself. A person can strictly control his desires, even the greatest temptation, can not make him move, let alone let him fall into trouble.
Desire is a trap, and many capable people fall into it and allow themselves to be completely destroyed. If you hide deeply, you will be able to purify your heart. With control over desires, you know how to restrain yourself. I don't know how to curb my desires, and in the end there is no good ending.
04, know how to hide deeply, you win
There's a saying that goes, "How many secrets does a person need to hide in order to get through this life skillfully?" "Man, what a man must hide in order to accomplish something. Either way, you must understand a "Hidden" word. If you don't know how to hide, expose yourself to the public, it will be difficult to save yourself after all.
Knowing how to hide clumsiness, not only can hide their own sharpness, but also give others the opportunity to perform, and do not let themselves make enemies on all sides, which is their own protection and understanding of others. Only by knowing how to hide emotions can we calm ourselves and deal with complicated and complicated things.
Hiding deeply is a kind of wisdom, but also a person's moral cultivation. Spring planting is long in summer, and autumn harvest is hidden in winter. When you cleverly hide yourself, you are firmly fixing the harvest in your life. The more things you hide, the thicker and more high life becomes.