Love chooses one of three
The Chinese translation of the movie analyzed today is called Love Three Choices, but if you use the original English movie name literal translation, it is called Defineitely Maybe, which is certain. I still prefer the second name, which is more representative of the connotation revealed in this film.
The first is the appearance of our male protagonist, Will Hayes, tall and handsome, positive, with great goals of becoming president of the United States, and noble character loyal to love. Like all beginners in the love field, innocent and persistent.
More importantly, he has a beautiful and charming girlfriend, Emily (Emily), two people love to die and live, like glue, the development of the story in the male protagonist to go to the big city of New York for two months, the beautiful girlfriend left in his hometown and roommates together, the roommate gave the male protagonist a preventive injection in advance, told him that you are gone I can not be polite to your girlfriend, the result of the male protagonist ignored it, resolutely went, but also laid the groundwork for the subsequent betrayal.
Came to New York, the hustle and bustle of the big city is naturally incomparable to the small city, even the smoke is expensive a lot of male protagonists here through their own struggle gradually found their own position, two months soon arrived, he is ready to propose to his girlfriend Emily, everything is so smooth, but suddenly her girlfriend raided to New York, told the male protagonist, he and his roommate in the end is sleeping, after saying a feeling of relief, the boyfriend who is still reciting the marriage proposal line to the shock of speechless condensation.
Emily
At that moment, I could feel Emily's happiness and relief after saying that she had cheated on her, and I could also feel the pain and helplessness of the male protagonist. Of course, this is love, the tip of the knife adds blood, betrayal and failure are often sudden, there is no way to explain, there is no need to explain.
Emily, the woman, couldn't tell if she was a scumbag or a green tea. Such accusations are not objective, frankly speaking, in fact, betrayal is a precursor, when the male protagonist drank too much and called his girlfriend Emily, the girlfriend expressed his emptiness and loneliness, but the male protagonist said that he was tolerant and immediately fine.
Maybe the male protagonist did not think that your nong and my girlfriend actually couldn't stand it for two months, and after coming, it was not an apology and forgiveness, but I cheated, let's break up. Dumped directly. People who did nothing wrong ended up getting all the hurt. I can only boil it down to the fact that men are unladylike. Of course, this is to consider the problem from the perspective of the male protagonist, and it may be a long time for a young and beautiful Emily to be two months. So this kind of thing can't be said right or wrong, only that it is suitable or not, and it is obvious that Emily is not suitable.
As for the male protagonist's injury this time, my comment is that it is inevitable that this is the inevitable cost on the road of love, the male protagonist has not done anything wrong, and there is no need to blame himself.
In this movie, all the people who appear do not explain their family background, and can only say that the family background is deliberately ignored. It's like experimenting in physics and the principles of economics. Building some models, ignoring some factors, does not affect the right conclusions.
In this movie, the family situation factor is ignored, so the model that appears in this movie can only go to the stage of love, which is a love model. It's not a marriage model. Because no matter in any country, at least in China, the family factor is one of the factors that cannot be ignored in marriage, but the proportion is different in different countries.
In view of the above factors, men only have two major interpersonal relationships in this movie, love and career, and family affection is not mentioned here, because there is no such thing as in the movie. Therefore, the love field is frustrated, and the male protagonist who is proud of the workplace is not too miserable, five or five.
Summer
Emily ended first, and of course two women appeared in the process, Summer and April, the other two women in love.
Let's talk about this Aibo first, everyone who has watched the film knows that in the end the two people held hands successfully. When this Ai Bo first appeared, he was still a printing house sister, liked to smoke, there was no ideal, when he first met the male protagonist, he just had an empty window of feelings, and when he saw the male protagonist who graduated from a famous university, his eyes lit up, and he seduced and talked, but the male protagonist had a belonging at that time, and through talking with the female protagonist, he found that the two people were not at one level at all, the three views were not in line, the social status was not consistent, and there was nothing to talk about. The real two are not people of the same world, there is really nothing to talk about.
Later, the only intersection between the two was the meeting of the male protagonist's colleagues, the male protagonist drank too much, the male protagonist came to New York for a long time, as lonely as his girlfriend, and when he talked to his girlfriend on the phone, he also described his loneliness. The two people met in the store, and then the ghost made the gods mixed together, and finally almost something indescribable happened in the heroine's home, but fortunately, the last man had the determination to withdraw at the critical moment, but his girlfriend at the time, Emily, did not have such a good concentration in her hometown, and it was still indescribable in the end. Therefore, don't blame the environment, the final decision of the matter is still personal cultivation.
In fact, at this stage, Ai Bo and the male protagonist have no chance at all, because the male protagonist is flying in the sky with a spring breeze, and Ai Bo is crawling on the ground, and the two people are not a level of people at all, doomed to have no way to produce love. The story of the two men came to an end.
The next woman to appear is ShaMo, in the male protagonist workplace triumphant love field frustrated window period, met the love field workplace are frustrated ShaMo, the first time the two met the male protagonist is still a stunned youth, met to his mentor as a mistress Shamo, Shamo also took the initiative to kiss the male protagonist when he left. Truth be told, if Emily is a kitten who can't stand emptiness and loneliness, then Summer is an ambitious tiger. One is too weak and the other is too strong, taking two extremes, and it is not suitable for the male protagonist.
Especially when the heroine first met, she said: You haven't tried to sleep with a 60-year-old person, then you are not qualified to comment on me. This sentence looks reasonable, but it is actually bastard logic. If you've had a woman in your emotional life talking to you like that, trust me, leave her immediately, because you two aren't from the same world.
April
Summer was dumped by his mentor, but the mentor was very interesting enough to introduce Summer to the boss of the male protagonist to write a report, Summer wrote an article with a good response, since then Summer began to use the male protagonist's career resources step by step to rise, the relationship between the two people is also you understand, began to heat up, dry wood fire.
Once again, our man felt that he had met true love, and he had prepared the ring for marriage. Unfortunately, later reversed, under the direction of Shamo's mentor, Shamo dug deep into the black material of the male boss, and in order to expose the bottom of the male boss in order to reveal the bottom of the male boss, directly causing the male protagonist's love career to collapse across the board. The poor male protagonist was betrayed again, but unlike the last time, this betrayal directly destroyed all the social relations of the male protagonist. The sequelae are also far-reaching, and have been depressed by the male protagonist for several years.
In fact, at present, Summer's behavior is also doomed, he can let his thesis pass, let himself have a better upward channel, can sleep with the 60-year-old mentor, of course, you can abandon the so-called feelings for your future career, in the eyes of This type of woman in Summer, the interests are greater than the emotions, when the interests of two people coincide, it is naturally like glue, but once the interests are contrary, the fastest face turn is also her.
In fact, this matter is also the norm of life, career betrayal and Waterloo is also the norm, but this is difficult for the male protagonist to accept is that the betrayal of his own is his beloved woman who wants to live a lifetime. The loss of emotions and interests of colleagues, the loss of love and unemployment, the average person is unbearable.
The male protagonist crawled for several years in the state of the trough, this time Ai Bo appeared in the life of the male lord again, before Ai Bo fell in love with the male lead when the male lord was about to propose to Sha Mo, Ai Bo was disappointed under the two people lost contact for a long time, and now the male lead and Ai Bo are relatively matched, the male lead is also in the trough after drinking too much to Express love to Ai Bo, but Ai Bo is still sober and directly pointed out: Why don't you say you love me when you are good, you are a mess now. In fact, the subtext is that I am just a placebo for your lows.
The words are not rough, it is said that this is the case, when you can't do it, don't crave love, because when you do, you can't look at this love. And most people are poor and love the rich, there are countless people around you when you are doing it, and no one pays attention to you when you can't. Inflammation has been the norm since ancient times, and Amber can now find a bunch of men at the same level as you, why are they looking for you, not to mention that you have deeply hurt others.
Speaking of egg pain, the male protagonist also began to spray back after being accused, spending Ono: You don't seek progress, you mess around all day, what qualifications do you have to say me. After saying that, Ai Bo was angry and ignored her and left. You don't have any high value at all, and you still suppress people, and people blame you.
The male protagonist regretted his words, so he went to the house all day long to apologize, and also went to find the Jane Eyre left by the heroine's father, and finally found it to return to the family, found that the family lived with the new boyfriend, and he slipped away, which was a strong frustration, and the girl he didn't like before actually chose me to be arched by a separate pig's head, and the deep frustration made the male protagonist flee without a fight.
When the roadside barbecue stall doubts life, the male protagonist meets the old Aisamo, who invites the male protagonist to her own queue for a gathering, and meets Emily at the party. When I saw this paragraph, I deeply felt that this was an intentional arrangement, and the male protagonist was very excited to see Emily, the two went out for a walk, emily said that since breaking up with the male protagonist, she was very confused. Of course, confused, can not be confused, betrayed the feelings of the person, the final betrayal is not others, but their own, so the confusion will always accompany him. The confusion mentioned by the male protagonist is another level of confusion, in fact, a large part has nothing to do with feelings, but the confusion about the future of the career, these two confused people are together.
Seeing this, I can't help but complain, it's really good scars forget the pain, is it not enough to be sentenced once, of course, I am not saying that this woman is unforgivable, of course, can be forgiven, be a friend, and dare to marry back as a wife. This also laid the groundwork for the male protagonist's later marriage change, although the film did not specifically explain the reasons why the two people were in a mess, but it was inseparable from the original betrayal and the woman's disposition.
Later, things expanded from memory to reality, the male protagonist signed, divorced, and took out the Jane Love of Aibo's father who was found at the beginning to send to Aibo, specifically because he himself may not know, why he had to send it after divorce, it is estimated that he has his own careful thinking, he wants to continue the frontier, after all, now his career is not bad, there is no way to continue to struggle for his own Li Xiang, working for the advertising agency every day, and divorced. It is estimated that I will not know a better woman, but Amber is a good choice.
As a result, when I arrived at the place, I found that people have now become well-known painters, and the career has been prosperous, and it is also due to the fact that the male protagonist satirized people with words, and the result is that the male protagonist is still stupid and sweet, and after sending the book to the lie, he will not say one, directly saying that the book has been placed here for a long time, and has not been given to her, Ai Bo must be angry, let the male protagonist directly get out of the egg.
Later, the male protagonist directly found Ai Bo at the instigation of his daughter to send a wave of confessions late at night, in fact, I feel that there is no confession at all, Ai Bo still likes the male protagonist in his bones, because although he has a career now, but the feelings of this thing need to be managed as well as the career, and people are more inclined to find a familiar person to be with after growing up in society, and finally a happy end.
After telling the complex, in fact, I feel that this story is not as happy as we seem on the surface, on the surface it is a comedy love story, but it cannot hide the dark nature of society.
From this, as a love mentor, I have summarized a few points for you
1, the needs of love is constantly changing, based on win-win cooperation, emotional bondage, interest binding. Every link that has a problem leads back to the breakdown of love.
2, do not give others a second chance to hurt you, do not get good scars and forget the pain.
3, men do not have strength, there will be no love. True feelings are evenly matched.
4, career can have problems, marriage can also have problems, but do not let the two problems at the same time, will crush you.
5, looking for a daughter-in-law is a very deep learning, need to learn.