From ancient times to the present, the marriage of men and women is a great joy, no matter what era, all women hope that they can find a good person and marry the person they love. But in the feudal society of a long time ago, such a simple wish was a luxury for the women of that era.
Especially the princesses born in that era, although they were born in rich families, their final destination was often to become a tool for the interests of the two countries.
Even princesses who have been pampered since childhood will become a tool for marriage when they reach the age of marriage, but there is such a princess in Chinese history, it is said that she is still a complete body at the age of 33, and even the only princess in history who has married 7 times. She is Yehenara Bushiyamala, a very special kind of being in history, and a rather legendary figure.
First, birth is noble
Yehenara Bushiya Mara was born in the 10th year of the Ming Dynasty, also known as Dongge, and it is said that she was born in a Yehe tribe, a branch of the Jurchen clan, when Bushia Mara's father was the leader of the Yehe tribe, named Bu zhai. Legend has it that Yehebu was a shaman at that time, so after the birth of Bushiya Mara, the shaman made a prophecy to the little girl, saying, "This woman can prosper the world, or she can die."
At that time, when Bushiya Mara's father listened to the shaman's prophecy, he wanted to go forward and ask what was going on, but the shaman turned and left, not giving The bhuzai a chance to ask questions.
Soon the people of Yehebu became aware of the shaman's prophecy to Bushiya Mara, and for a time the language was widely circulated among the tribes. As time passed, soon Bushia Mara grew up, and she did indeed appear to be a great beauty, as the shaman priest said.
Soon, the beauty of Bushia Mara spread throughout the Jurchen clan, and in this way, Bushia Mara successfully won the title of the first beautiful woman in Manchuria, and the leader of the Yehe tribe, Bu Zhai, looked at his daughter who was very handsome, how could he miss the opportunity to marry with other tribes. So when Bushia Mara was 9 years old, she was promised by her father as a tool for marriage to One of the larger baylor grandfathers who came to propose to her.
However, it is said that at that time, Bushia Mara's father did not really want to marry his daughter off, but wanted to use his daughter as bait to ambush the tribe, as the plot of Bushia Mara's father developed step by step. On the day of Grandpa Baylor's kissing, Buzhai successfully attacked Grandpa Belle's welcoming party, causing Grandpa Baylor to die in the ambush, and in this way, Bushia Mara's first marriage ended.
Second, become a tool for marriage
Soon after the end of the first marriage, Bushiya Mara ushered in her second marriage, that is, the marriage with Urab Buzhantai, when Bushiya Mara's father, Buzai, wanted to use his daughter's marriage to attract Ulabu to join the "Battle of the Nine Ministries" in order to have a more powerful force against Nurhaci.
But what people did not expect was that in the battle with Nurhaci, Nurhaci won more than nine with few victories, and Bushia Mara's father also died in that battle, so that Bushia Mara's second husband was also captured by Nurhaci in that battle.
In this way, Bushia Mara's second marriage ended with the defeat of the Nine Parts. Bushia Mara's brother was a death-defying ghost at the time, and he feared that Nurhaci would retaliate against them in the future, so he wanted to marry his sister Bushiya Mara to Nurhaci, and Nurhaci became her third husband.
At that time, Nurhaci was naturally very happy to learn that the Yehe clan wanted to marry Bushia Mara to him, but Bushiya Mara was very unhappy, because her father was killed by Nurhaci, and even if she married anyone, she would not marry Nurhaci.
Not only that, but Bushiya Mara also made a public vow that if anyone could kill her father's enemy Nurhaci, she would marry whomever she wanted. At that time, many people were very touched to hear that Bushia Mara's oath was very moving, so they prepared to go to war with Nurhaci, including Menggebu of the Hada tribe who had been coveting The beauty of Bushiya Mara.
In this way, Mengeb succeeded in becoming the fourth husband of Bushiya Mara to marry, but the final result was that Mengbu was not Nurhaci's opponent, and soon Mengbu was defeated by Nurhaci.
After Menggebu was defeated, there were 2 fierce generals who fought against Nurhaci in order to marry Bushiya Mara, but the final result was that they were all killed by Nurhaci, and it seems that the beauty of Bushiya Mara really fascinated many generals at that time.
In this way, Bushiya Mara had already experienced 6 husbands by that time, counting Nurhaci, it can be seen that the hero saddles the beauty of the guan this sentence is not false at all.
Third, the last marriage
Although Bushia Mara had experienced 6 marriages before, she was still a complete body at the age of 33, it can be said that she did not succeed in marrying out until the age of 33, and then Bushiya Mara gave up the reward and was finally given a match by a Mongolian Grandpa Beyler.
The last two people married as they wished, and just when Bushia Mara's life had just returned to peace, she ushered in another misfortune, it is said that at that time, Bushia Mara had just married Mang guldai less than a year ago, she was seriously ill and could not afford it.
In the end, Bushia Mara still failed to survive the level of illness and eventually died, but even though Bushiya Mara died, Nurhaci still had the heart to remember that he had not married Bushiya Mara, so he always wanted to attack Yehebu in his heart.
But at that time, the Yehe clan just allied with the Ming Dynasty again, which made Nurhaci suspicious, so in the end Nurhaci still gave up attacking the Yehe tribe, thinking carefully that The life of Bushiya Mara was actually extremely short, it can be said that Bushiya Mara's life is almost all related to war, although she is a princess, but she has always been involuntary, although she enjoys a superior life, but it frequently involves grassland wars, looking at the princess may not be happy.
4. Summary
Bushia Mara's life was very tragic, she could have lived her life carefree, but she was used as a pawn by her father to fight, no matter how reluctant she was, but being a tribal princess was her destiny.
Fortunately, in the end, Bushia Mara still fought against her unchangeable fate, although her life was only calm for a year, but I believe that year must be the happiest year for Bushia Mara.
Ancient marriages are the fate of the parents, it has always been the parents to decide who the woman should marry, so the vast majority of ancient women are basically unhappy, if you marry a Ruyi Langjun is fine, if you marry a non-person, then this life may be difficult to escape the tragic fate, even if a princess like Bushia Mara, in the end, it is difficult to escape such a fate.