Perhaps we have seen so much falsehood, the falsehood of the human heart, the falsehood of feelings, the falsehood of values, the falsehood of freedom, that our desire for truth has intensified.
People in this era are no longer willing to believe these false things, even if the false cloak is gorgeous, but there are very few people who can face the truth and accept the truth.
Most people overestimate their ability to bear it, as if to tell the truth, a person is very low, and one person says that he is pocket-sized and tough, and he can accept it.
But if another person says he's "low, you're not yet one meter six," will he be okay with that?
The truth is often harsh, harsh is ugly, how many people can accept it? Today we will take a constellation as an example to explore this problem in depth.
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In fact, without mixing other illusory factors, there are two kinds of people who can get along well with Scorpio people, one is a sincere and real person, and the other is a person who can "fly" with the help of Scorpio's power.
Although both kinds of people can get along well with Scorpio people, but their nature is different, we will explain this difference by age, the first type of person is a young person who does not involve marriage, and the second is a person who is closely related to the problem of survival and involves a marriage relationship.
We will not say the second kind, there is no point, we choose to re-talk about the first kind of person today.
Many people say that it is too difficult to get along with Scorpio people, and even "difficulty" has become a kind of torture.
However, from an objective point of view, the difficulty of interacting with Scorpio is indeed not low, and in terms of the difficulty of 12 constellations, Scorpio is at most 9 stars, and it is not enough to reach the full star.
You may be curious about why, the reason is very simple, Scorpio people are truth-telling, emotional, and pursuing emotional communion, after all, this is a water sign.
If you don't talk about these things, the difficulty can reach full stars.
But even so, the difficulty of interacting with Scorpio is still a big problem, and there is a core logic about this problem:
"Whether you are sincere about Scorpio is not what you do or say, but how Scorpio views this question, what is Scorpio's own answer."
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Suspicious heart disease everyone should know that many scorpions who have sensitive symptoms in their feelings will have suspicious heart disease to some extent, and they will constantly suspect and judge, the other party's true attitude towards themselves, and how the real heart is.
But the Scorpio community doesn't express this kind of thinking through behavior, they don't let you know that they're watching you, they're doubting you, so externally they're going to act very rationally, rationally, both in words and in behavior.
This behavior is a two-way behavior, and their outward performance does not make you suspicious "they are doubting you".
So for you, what you say in the process of getting along, some behavior, the Scorpion community will stare at these things.
Let's take a simple example, for example, on a Sunday, you and Scorpio are watching TV at home, and your friend asks you to go out and play, how will you answer?
You don't have to ask the Scorpio around you, you don't have to ask for any opinions, you ask questions in vain, they are duplicitous, they will not interfere with your choice, but will observe and summarize your true inner thoughts from your choices.
If that's the case, you hang up the phone and turn your head to see Scorpio expressionless, or you're still watching TV intently, and you think it's okay to go out.
Is it really okay to do this, do you have a number in mind?
And if you hang up the phone and turn your head to see that Scorpio is obviously unhappy, you are not ready to go out, but you are not strong, complain, and finally force the complaint to continue watching TV with Scorpio.
But the state you show in this state of mind will definitely be detected by Scorpio.
To put it simply, Scorpio is to see how you choose and how to do it.
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If you complain in your heart, but the surface is fine, the scorpion will also detect it, so the correct approach should be that you first consider the feelings of the scorpion from the heart, do this thing first, and after the scorpion knows the true thoughts in your heart, they will let you out.
But if you are pretending, then the result can be imagined, this kind of thing will become a fuse for your contradictions in the future.
The more Scorpio experiences, the more they distrust people, especially the outward manifestations and behaviors of people, and they only believe in the results of their observations.
In addition to being good at deliberately trying to find something to tempt, they are also good at observing your unconscious behavior.
The fact of getting along with Scorpio is "you're pretty much with a detective".
This detective is still specialized in detecting your heart, you are invincible, and then Scorpio judges your heart through his own observation and summed up things, your true attitude towards Scorpio.
At the same time, the results of these Scorpions themselves will also serve as the basis for judging the question of "whether you have a future or not, and whether you are suitable to be together".
Scorpio does not waste his feelings and energy on relationships that do not conform to the positive measurement of self.
Another detail is the problem of the water sign's sense of security, and Scorpio needs a different sense of security than Pisces Cancer.
The sense of security that Scorpio needs is also derived from the fact that he has summed up from his own observations.
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It means that you don't think that you behave well with them, they must think that you are good to them, they don't believe this, on the contrary, the more you behave well, the more they don't believe it.
So on the issue of security, Scorpio detection is an all-round, multi-role detection, and they will see how you are with the people around you, how you get along, how you are with your friends, and how you are with your relatives.
Then there's the central question of "what to do to himself," and Scorpio will weigh and compare, and it's important to state an important logic about this that "Scorpio people don't think you're the same to anybody." ”
Then on this issue, Libra and Scorpio are easy to quarrel, which is a natural confrontation.
So Scorpio's sense of security is actually such a logic as "to confirm that your kindness, attitude, and heart to him are unique." ”
To put it in more detail, this question is actually an important or unimportant position problem, your attitude towards people who think it is important is definitely good, the attitude towards unimportant people is definitely not good, Scorpio looks at this, and will also judge your heart through this.
Now let's talk about the opposite side, if Scorpio, through his own observation, finds that your perfunctory and indifference to him is real, and you will only do this to him.
The scorpion cannot be firm, and other contradictions are the same logic, how do you deal with one contradiction, and how do you deal with two contradictions.
They judge whether you are firm in your heart and whether you are suitable for you and have a future through the results of your processing.
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Having said all this, in fact, the choice highlights a problem:
The more Scorpio tosses and torments a person, the more he wants to be firm with a person, and the more he is attached to a person.
But the state they show is probing or deliberately finding problems to stimulate you, whether you can stand it or not is one thing, whether you are really determined is the same thing.
They have to be sure that you are firm, and then they will be firm with you, and when they see your true heart, your true feelings, they will let go of some of their suspicions and temptations.
They want to confirm that you are worthy and firm to him, and also to confirm that they are worthy of you, firm, and that it is a relationship with a future.
What Scorpio needs is real, so to speak, even if you do it wrong, you are not a good person, you will not make people happy, they can accept this fact, because this is the real you.
Even if you're stupid, it's acceptable, and as long as your heart is real, they have a source of security.
But if you are not real, you often cheat, deliberately act, pretend, or deliberately do what scenes to cover up your truth, deceive and conceal, then how can they have a sense of security?
Even if they open their hearts to you, you may not be able to walk in and enter his heart.
What Scorpio needs is the other person's unique preference, which also shows that they also want to give this person a unique preference, provided that both parties have such a will and sincerity.
One-way they don't want and won't receive.
This kind of thing is really difficult to say, it is simple to say simple, everything depends on fate, and the essential reason for the difficulty of communication is here.
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