"Any of you can live today, not their family!"
"If you want to think about it, first give the toll, thirty thousand yuan, not a penny less!".
In 2013, on a village road in Pengjia Village, Wan'an County, Jiangxi Province, an old man and a young man stood in the middle of the road in a menacing manner, stopping a small car full of goods.
And what they stopped was no one else, it was Peng Fuxiang, the son of his neighbor Peng Xiaoping.
This is not the first time that the Peng family has encountered such a situation, and the Deng Qingjia family has obstructed their family from taking this road since the beginning of this year and demanded 30,000 yuan for tolls.
But at this time, Peng Fuxiang was very anxious in his heart, because his wedding would be held in two days, and if his neighbors continued to make such a fuss, whether the wedding could be held smoothly would be unknown.
It is said that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, what contradictions are there between these two families, and why did they get to this step?
Report a gap
In 1958, in order to support the economic development of the old revolutionary areas in Jiangxi, the state decided to build a water conservancy project in Wan'an County, the middle reaches of the Ganjiang River, the Wan'an Hydropower Station.
But it wasn't until the 1980s that the Wan'an Hydropower Station was completed to store water. Deng Qingjia's family lived on the ganjiang river, which happened to belong to the submerged area of the reservoir area.
For the sake of national construction, the Deng family became immigrants and were resettled to the current place - Pengjia Village, Wan'an County.
Soon after, Deng Qingjia had his own son Deng Qilin, although he settled down in a place where he was not familiar with life, after several years of hard work, the family's life gradually improved.
After graduating from junior high school, Deng Qilin went out to work, and this time it was several years.
Watching Deng Qilin grow up day by day, he soon reached the age of talking about marriage, and the family also began to make blind dates for him.
But as soon as the other party saw a dilapidated old house of the Deng family, they turned around and left, and the Deng family understood that if they wanted their son to marry his daughter-in-law, he must have a new house.
Fortunately, in these years, the family also saved some money, enough to build a new house, so the Deng family discussed the matter of building a house.
Soon the procedures for building the house were approved, and the Deng family happily chose an auspicious day and demolished the old house and started construction. But I didn't expect that the building of the house was not going well.
After learning that the old Deng family wanted to build a house, the next door neighbor Peng Xiaoping's family was a little unhappy, they felt that the place where the Deng family built the house was too close to their own well, and if they built a house there, it would inevitably affect the safety of their own drinking water.
So they sent a report letter to the village on the grounds that the Deng family illegally occupied cultivated land for construction, and when they saw that it did not work, they complained to the town government and various functional departments of the county.
However, the answers received were that there was no problem of illegal construction, and even the Deng family had come up with their own house construction procedures, and the Peng family still did not forgive.
In particular, Peng Xiaoping's mother, who is more than 70 years old, when she built a house in the Deng family, she jumped and scolded at the new house, and it was a good toss.
And in the countryside, the new house is cursed, which is a very faceless and unlucky thing.
In the eyes of the Deng family, the Liu family just feels that they are locals, and the Deng family moved from other places, so they target the Deng family everywhere, which is obviously bullying.
Therefore, although in the end the Deng family still built a new house, the beams of the two families were settled, especially in the eyes of the Deng family, they felt that they would have to get their face back sooner or later, and the opportunity came quickly.
Building a house has been disputed again
With the development of the economy, cars are becoming more and more popular, Peng Xiaoping, who has been repairing cars outside, has opened an auto repair shop with the money he has saved over the years, and his son Peng Fuxiang also followed his father to start a repair shop after graduating from middle school, and the business is becoming more and more prosperous.
Because of his craftsmanship and diligence, Peng Fuxiang quickly found a partner and began to talk about marriage. In order to let his daughter-in-law's scenery get started, Peng Xiaoping also decided to go back to his hometown to build a new house.
In 2011, the Peng family's new house began to be built, and the Deng family, who had been waiting impatiently for a long time, saw the opportunity for revenge, and if you were not kind, don't blame me for being unjust.
As soon as the Peng family's new house was built on the first floor, the Deng family came to the door and resolutely did not allow the Peng family to start construction, and the reason was also very grand.
Because the Peng family's new house is built next to the Deng family's field, although it does not occupy their own land, the Deng family believes that the new house built will block the lighting of their own family field, thus affecting the harvest.
Listening to the absurd reasons of the Deng family, the Peng family is angry and does not fight, is this not obvious that the Deng family is estimating to be looking for stubble?
It is good to say that the Deng family just did not agree and resolutely disagreed with the Peng family to build a new house.
At this time, the village committee came out to mediate again, and after some consultation, the Peng family finally agreed to take out a piece of land to plant for the Deng family, and the Deng family could not obstruct the Peng family from building a house.
Because when the house was built, there were still crops planted in the field, and the Peng family said that they would wait for the harvest of the crops in the field after autumn and then give them to the Deng family for use.
In this way, the Peng family's new house was successfully built, as long as the two sides handed over the land, the matter was temporarily over.
But unexpectedly, things made waves again.
After the autumn harvest, the Deng family came to the door to ask for the promised land.
But at this time, the Peng family did not agree, because Peng Xiaoping found that the orientation of his house did not have any impact on the lighting of the Deng family's land after building the house, which was obviously the Deng family deliberately looking for trouble.
If he agreed, wouldn't this show that his family was afraid of their Deng family?
The Deng family did not agree even more, and when they first said that they would compensate us, we agreed to build a house for you.
Now it's good, the house is built, but the things that are said are good but they regret it, which is obviously playing our Deng family.
Coupled with the thought of the various difficulties of the Peng family when they built their own house before, the Deng family felt that it was better to count the new hatred and the old hatred together.
So a new conflict between the two families began to brew again.
Cement road into chips
The Peng family, who thought that the matter was over, did not think much about it and continued to do their own business in the city.
But soon they realized that things were far from over.
In the Spring Festival of 2013, the old Peng family bought a new car, and the family sat on the car with joy and joy, preparing to go home to worship their ancestors, but they did not expect that when they were about to arrive home, a person stopped in the middle of the road.
Peng Xiaoping took a closer look, isn't this the neighbor's Deng Qingjia?
Deng Qingjia
So he quickly let the other party let go, but even after shouting a few times, Deng Qingjia did not have any reaction. The Peng family realized that trouble was coming.
Sure enough, before the Peng family could speak, Deng Qingjia said, From now on, if you Peng family wants to go on this road, you must give money to pass.
This really echoes the old saying: This mountain is opened by me, this tree is planted by me, and if you want to live from now on, you will stay and buy road money.
In broad daylight, isn't the Deng family equivalent to blocking the road and robbing?
On the road, the state repaired, why did the Deng family ask for money, and where did the confidence come from?
Originally, the Deng family felt that when the state built this road, it was not a new one built alone, but occupied the dirt roadbed that was originally built by the family, and this road had its own share.
Therefore, he did not agree with the Peng family, and also released a word: anyone in china can live, but the Peng family cannot.
In the end, the Peng family had to turn around and return to the city first, and the Deng family did even more desperately.
Not only the car will not let pass, not even people, every time the Peng family wants to go home, they have to go around from the vegetable floor of other people's homes, which makes the Peng family hold a stomach fire.
Seeing that the two sides had reached the point where water and fire were intolerable, the village committee came forward to mediate, so that the Deng family finally relaxed and no longer insisted on the Peng family's land.
They said that as long as the Peng family promised not to build another house next to the new house in the future, the Deng family would no longer stop the Peng family from passing by the road.
In the end, the two parties signed a mediation agreement. But just when everyone thought that the matter was finally over, things escalated again, and this time the two sides were completely out of room.
The conflict has escalated across the board
In the second half of 2013, Peng Fuxiang's girlfriend who had been in love for 5 years suddenly became pregnant.
This made the Peng family very happy, since the raw rice was ripe for rice, let's hurry up and handle the marriage, so the two newlyweds quickly received a marriage license.
The new house in the family has long been repaired, and when the furniture is purchased, it can be done to open the wine and take the daughter-in-law into the door.
But this news soon reached the ears of the Deng family, perhaps feeling that the Peng family was unwilling to let go.
Or maybe they remembered the way they were bullied by the Peng family in their own home, they felt that the opportunity to make the Peng family ugly had come, and if you wanted to do a happy event, I would let you not do a happy event.
Soon, the Peng family bought sofas, wardrobes, beds and other furniture to send to the new house.
But before they could wait for the door, they looked at the familiar figure in the middle of the road - Deng Qingjia!
Peng Xiaoping immediately got out of the car and theorized: "Deng Qingjia, hasn't Murakami already reached an agreement, and which one of you Deng family is making trouble?" ”。
"Are you allowed to repent, but are we not allowed to repent?" I still remember the things that our family repaired the house clearly"!
Peng Xiaoping only then understood that it turned out that the Deng family had been targeting himself because he had reported them for violating the construction, and Peng Xiaoping thought that after so many years, things had long passed, and he thought that the Deng family had actually mentioned the old things again.
Thinking that his own family had been harassed by the Deng family in the previous two years to repair the house, and now that his own family had married his daughter-in-law, he would be harassed by the Deng family, Peng Xiaoping could not bear it any longer, and as soon as he grabbed Deng Qingjia, he was about to pull it to the side, and Deng Qingjia immediately shouted: Hit people, beat people, the Peng family beat people.
Deng Qingjia's son and daughter-in-law heard her father's shouts and immediately rushed out and twisted with Peng Xiaoping.
Not to be outdone, the Peng family all rushed up, and the contradictions between the two sides were stimulated to the peak.
In the process of tearing, Deng Qingjia's daughter-in-law accidentally fell and scratched the skin at the corner of her eyes. She cried and called the emergency and police numbers.
Ambulances and police cars soon heard the news and rushed to the scene, at this time the two sides have been persuaded to leave by the villagers who have learned the news, fortunately, after the doctor's examination, the Deng family's daughter-in-law's injuries are minor, and the police have not made any treatment, and they have left after educating both sides.
Both sides dispersed unhappily, but there was a fire in their hearts.
The big wedding is about to cause trouble
But the son's marriage can not be untied, because of the obstruction of the Deng family, the Peng family is also painstaking in order to transport back the furniture, during the day can not be transported, can only secretly move things to the home in the middle of the night.
Later, after the Deng family found out, they knew that the Peng family's wedding date was close, not only guarded day and night, but even the road to the door of the Peng family was dug up by the Deng family, and also buried in the iron railing, that is, the Peng family's car was not stopped.
Later, the Peng family had to find someone to carry the bulky furniture through someone else's field, and the newly bought sofa was full of dirt, making people miserable.
Peng Xiaoping's wife mentioned these sad things, and the tears could not stop flowing: I couldn't sleep all day long, thinking that my son was about to get married, the day was set, the invitation was also issued, and now there are many home appliances that can only be placed in the car repair shop, and I dare not ship back.
If on the day of the wedding, the Deng family still came to stop it.
In addition, the Peng family's daughter-in-law's belly is getting bigger day by day, and everyone is afraid that she has moved the tire and affected her health.
So he could only consult with the Deng family, but the Deng family, who did not follow the rules, asked for 30,000 yuan, saying that 10,000 yuan was the treatment fee for the daughter-in-law, and the remaining 20,000 yuan was the raw material cost and wage fee when they first built the dirt road.
The Peng family felt that this was not the lion's big mouth? If you want to reimburse the cost of treatment, you must first look at the relevant vouchers.
Everyone advised Liu Xiaoping to spend money to avoid disasters, and Liu Xiaoping also wanted to get some money, but the Deng family arrogantly said: Thirty thousand tolls, less than a penny is not enough!
It also poses a non-negotiable posture. Seeing that there were still two days to go to marriage, Peng Fuxiang had to drive home to try his luck, but when he just put down the things on the car to prepare for the return trip, he was stopped by the Deng family: "First take 10,000 medical expenses."
"I'll report it to you if you take the invoice out," and the two sides almost broke out into conflict.
Peng Fuxiang had to call the police for help, but the police said a few words and drove away, who in the village did not know the contradiction between the two families, but what could be done?
On the way back, Peng Fuxiang said with a helpless face: "I just want to get married, why is it so difficult?"
It is believed that under the mediation of the village committee, they were finally able to hold the wedding smoothly.
epilogue
We often talk about taking a step back from the sea and the sky, and sparing people and sparing people.
If the Peng family can sincerely apologize to the Deng family first, or if the Deng family can put aside their past grievances and let the next-door neighbor handle the favor smoothly and smoothly in advance, I believe that even the biggest contradictions can be gradually resolved.
After all, you can't look up and look down, but no matter what, it is still irrational enough to make this kind of behavior that blocks the way and asks for money. What do you think about that?