Does a wedding ceremony need to be solemn?

Recently, a friend got married, and the wedding was simple, and there were about twenty or thirty relatives and friends in the past.

A groomsman and a bridesmaid, the kissing ceremony is also very concise, at first I heard a little surprised. I can't help but think about why.

For the older generation and the Chinese tradition, a Chinese wedding ceremony is very necessary, which may not only represent the beginning of the two newlyweds, but also the gathering of two large families and the display of family culture. And now the Western-style wedding held in the church sought after by young people is lively and youthful, and it can be more unconventional to the rules. Either way, it represents the birth of a new family, and it deserves to be solemnized.

However, now that most of our spiritual pursuits can no longer be satisfied by material things, we are not lying flat! Not losing pursuit! Not without a sense of ceremony! It's not about not envying a nice and relaxing wedding. We have a lot of spiritual pursuits, but there is no money, no time, no people to accompany ourselves, or money has more important places to spend, time is also occupied by work, and relatives and friends are stumbled by money and time.

I think that of course a wedding needs to be solemn, but solemnity does not mean how big it is, but every step is complete and carefully prepared.