laitimes

【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang

【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang

The ancient road illuminates the color

The next day Tabor Three Jeans

【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang

The next day

Tabor Three Jeans

In the last years of the Shang Dynasty, King Tai of Zhou had three sons: the eldest son Taibo (太伯), the second son Zhongyong, and the third son JiLi.

At that time, the Shang Dynasty was gradually declining, and the Zhou Dynasty was becoming more and more powerful. The children of the Ji Calendar have the virtues of saints. Because King Tai had the ambition to destroy Shang, Taibo did not agree, and King Tai wanted to pass the throne to Ji Li and then pass the throne to Chang.

Taibo knew his father's intentions, so he hid with Zhongyong in the southern Jingman. So when king Tai passed the throne to Ji Li, and then passed the throne to Chang, there were already two-thirds of the world, and Chang was King Wen of Zhou. King Wen of Zhou died, and his son Fa succeeded to the throne, so he conquered Shang, and Fa was King Wu of Zhou.

With the virtue of Tabor, at that time it was enough to gain the worship of the princes and own the world, but he gave up the world and hid his traces, and his virtue reached the extreme, how noble it was! (Translated from the Southern Song Dynasty Zhu Xi's Commentary on the Analects of Tabor VIII)

【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang

1. Teaching and communication

1. Confucius praised Tabor in the Analects that "he can be said to be the most virtuous." Why did Confucius say that Tabor was a man of the highest moral character? (Tip: Tabor took the second brother away from home, the purpose is to fulfill the father's wishes, so that the third brother can succeed to the throne smoothly, and the father will not leave the world with the suspicion of favoring the abdication, which completes the love of the father and the son and the brother, and there is no trace, so it can be called the most virtuous person)

2. What good qualities can be seen from Tabor's behavior? (Tips: Filial piety to parents, fraternity to brothers, selflessness and desirelessness)

【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang
【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang

Second, explore the shadows and seek victory

1. In the Analects, it is said that Tabor "three times to the world, the people have nothing to gain." Tabor ceded the throne to The Chronicle several times, and the common people could not find the right words to praise him. What did Tabor's "Jean" accomplish? (Tip: He fulfilled his father's wish, did a friendly brother, and led to the good atmosphere of "filial piety" and "compassion" in the whole society, so that the Zhou Dynasty enjoyed the country for nearly eight hundred years)

2. In the "Records of History", it is said: "Taibo's Ben Jingman, self-proclaimed Sentence Wu." Jing Was barbaric and righteous, and thus returned to more than a thousand families and established wu taibo. After Taibo and Zhongyong avoided Jingman, the indigenous people believed that Taibo had virtue and righteousness, and there were more than a thousand families who followed Taibo, and they supported Taibo as the local monarch, honoring him as "Wu Taibo" and calling himself "Sentence Wu". Why did Tabor become the first monarch of the State of Wu? (Hint: Tabor's character has become a model for the public to learn and is loved by everyone)

【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang
【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang

Third, see Xian Siqi

1. We must wisely practice the virtues of filial piety to our parents and fraternity for our brothers

2. It is necessary to practice filial piety, cherish love and righteousness, achieve virtue, and let the traditional Chinese virtues become weathered.

【Parent-child interaction 100-day plan】Good family style makes a good child - the next day Tabor Sanjang

Greetings to parents

Cultivate the child to be humble, he will become a person who can think of people; cultivate the child to be courteous, he will become a measured person; train the child to be tolerant, he will become a person who can get along with people. In life, learning to be humble, courteous, and tolerant will not only avoid long-term disasters, but also gain a lot.

Typography | Xinyue

Broadcast | Sparkling Fang

Text | "Good Family Style Makes Good Children"

END

The typesetting is 13

Read on